How to tell if a blind date man is willing to develop

First, observe the other person's baseline to see if his attitude towards you has deviated from the baseline.

What is the baseline, that is, a person's behavior pattern and inertia, which has two situations: conformity and deviation. If you meet the benchmark, you will behave no different from his usual behavior when he meets you; And the case of deviation from the baseline is.

What he behaves in front of you is very different from usual, treating you differently than treating ordinary girls, whether he likes you or not, you have to observe his performance, which is a very important clue.

When he faces you, does his appearance and attitude be different from when he faces other girls? He is very outgoing and able to speak, but he is unusually quiet or shy when facing you, or he is a very quiet person, and when he faces you, he will try to say something and share something with you, and as long as you appear, his behavior will be different from usual. For example, he is particularly active in expressing himself, playing handsome, pretending to be cute, funny, speaking very loudly or quietly, or deliberately acting very stable and quiet, and his body is very stiff.

And "a lot different from usual" is a deviation from the baseline.

If you met on the Internet and there is no way to observe his behavior, don't rush it first, try to expose yourself to his life and circle of friends, and always tell yourself: You don't lack a boyfriend so much. Sister Binbin would like to remind you that there will be two situations when you deviate from the baseline, one is that you like you very much, and the other is that you hate you very much, so what situation does you hate you very much?

Let's go on.

Second, if he likes you, his body will face you.

After we have judged in the first part whether he has deviated from the baseline, we will next judge whether he likes you or not by the direction of his body. Some boys are very shy, even if they like you, they don't dare to take the initiative to approach you, but often hesitate to move forward, or are shy and dare not look at you. However, if he likes you, his eyes may not be looking at you or talking to someone else, but as long as you are present, his body must be facing you, unless, of course, you are sitting side by side.

He will pay attention to your every move, and if you are a person who hates you, you must not even want to face your body, but you don't want to see you, so the direction of your body is also a more important behavioral psychology criterion for judging whether a person really likes you.

How do you know if a blind date boy is sincere? In addition to the above points, our own feelings are the most important, if many times they have clearly expressed it obviously, the other party is still indifferent, then it is likely that the other party is pretending, when necessary, it is also a good choice to directly showdown and make it clear that civilization is white.

How to tell if a blind date man has a crush on you is certain of a few things:

1: Take the initiative to chat with you.

It's not because the other party takes the initiative to chat with you or has a good impression of you, the other party may also be indifferent or feel not annoying, but if the other party has a good impression of you, then he will definitely take the initiative to chat with you, this is a point, which is equivalent to saying that the other party takes the initiative to chat with you can not prove that the other party has a good impression of you, out of politeness or not annoying attitude, generally boys will take the initiative to chat with girls, but if you want to be sure that the other party has a good impression of you, this must be determined first, he will chat with you, and take the initiative, the frequency is not very low.

2: Willing to take the initiative to find a topic, chatting will not be very casual.

I think from the chat dialog, you can definitely feel the other party's attitude, even if it is a straight man, a boy will try to show himself in the chat, positive or sunny, in short, you can feel that the other party is a very warm person, or a very polite and polite person, definitely not a cold person, even if there is that, it is a freak. Ditto, even if the other party shows the above, it can't be considered that the other party has a good impression of you, it all depends on the other party's attitude towards the blind date, which can only prove that if you have a good feeling, then these should be the basis.

3: Will occasionally praise you.

The frequency of boasting varies from person to person.

4: You can take the initiative to chat with him to try, the frequency of chat is very high, find him a few times a dozen times a day or even dozens of times, to see if he annoys you, of course, if the other party does not bother you, then congratulations, he must have a good impression of you, no one can stand a person who doesn't like him to send him WeChat like this, but the person who has a good impression or likes is completely different, he will be happy to die. There will be the above kind of strange theory, that is, even if the other party doesn't bother you, it can't be ruled out that the other party is a very polite, don't know how to reject other people's boys or the other party is very idle and idle, how idle this must be.

The ultimate rule: talk a lot, see a lot, praise a lot, and finally make it clear that you love, then you can be completely sure whether the other party likes you or not!! Preciseness!!!

In fact, from my personal point of view, as long as the other party doesn't annoy you, there is no clear dislike of you or rejection of you, if you like each other, why not take the initiative, people are emotional animals, after having feelings, appearance and the like will dilute its importance, who said that intimacy and familiarity can't be love, like it, whether male or female, don't be too limited to the strange circle that must be pleasing to each other.

1. The blind date does not take the initiative to contact you.

When you meet, you talk passionately together, and usually the two of you rarely keep in touch. You send a message to the other person, and the other person will be very enthusiastic and quickly contact you, but they will not confirm your relationship and will not ask you for a date. This situation may be used as a spare tire.

Didn't like you that much, but because I didn't meet a better one at this time.

Another situation is that if you send a message and the other party does not reply, even if the reply is very brief. That may be a condition that is not of interest to you.

2. Performance when chatting on a blind date.

When you meet on a blind date, the other person always says something that you are not interested in, or you start talking about a new topic and the other person always does not answer.

If the other person doesn't talk to you all the time, your enthusiasm will naturally dissipate.

If the other party deliberately asks you about sensitive topics, such as salary and relationship experience, it may be to provoke you and make you give up the blind date.

Because a person who is willing to go on a blind date and understand each other will not ask this kind of topic so bluntly, and generally learn about it through introducers.

3. Always bring friends with you when you go on a date.

If you keep bringing other friends along when you're dating, it may be that the other person thinks it's awkward to be alone with you, or that the other person doesn't want to keep in touch.

The originally sweet dating time of the two was disturbed by outsiders and ruined the scenery.

If the other person keeps chatting with his friends and does not pay attention to you or interact with you when dating, it means that the other party feels uncomfortable and uncomfortable with you.

4. Learn to analyze the content of the conversation.

Let's say you're short in stature. If, while you're chatting, the other person gives an example or comments about the short stature of a writing star, it's likely that the other person is suggesting that he cares about height.

If the other party goes to your house and talks to you about who has how much money and who marries a rich husband, it means that the other party cares about money very much.

1. The boy's expression is very important when he sees you at first sight when he meets you for the first time, whether it is a disappointed look, or a little shy and afraid to look at you, the corners of his mouth are raised, if there is, it must be stable.

2. Ask the other party if it is far away to see you, it is inconvenient, and how long you have waited, if the man has a good impression of you, he will categorically say that it is very close, very convenient, and not long, after all, it is worth everything to meet the person you like.

3. Look at how he orders when eating, if he takes the initiative to let you order, and asks if he is enough, he is afraid that you will not be able to eat, which means that his first feeling for you is good.

4. During the meeting, I care about your preferences, he speaks carefully, for fear of saying the wrong sentence and you dislike him.

5. There are follow-up arrangements after eating, if you finish eating, the boy asks if you want to watch a movie, take a walk, etc., indicating that he is a little unsatisfied, if you really go home early after eating, there will be opportunities in the future.

7. The most important thing is that after the two sides meet, he will actively chat with you, take the initiative to report his daily life to you, and try to cause a topic, of course, not just chatting, but also propose a second meeting sooner.

In addition, before we met, we chatted wildly, and it was useless to be positive like playing chicken blood, the key is to chat after meeting, so it is better to meet as soon as possible to determine whether you are interested in continuing to understand each other, so as not to be disappointed in vain.

Hello, this question mainly depends on whether he takes the initiative to contact you after the blind date, whether he takes the initiative to ask you out.

If a man is interested in dating you, he will definitely take the initiative to contact you, or even ask you out.

If he takes the initiative to contact you, judge by how many times he contacts you, the more times he contacts you, the more active he is, the more he wants to develop with you.

Then there is him who asks you out, and if you have a good impression of him and are willing to associate with him, you will gladly go to the appointment and accept his invitation.

Hopefully, the above can help you.

If you go back for the first time, you can still take the initiative to send you a message, and then take the initiative to mention the next meeting, the basic problem is not big, and I hope to continue to develop.

If you reply to a message after the first meeting and reply for a long time, it's basically no fun.

Two strange men and women have been introduced to each other, in the process of meeting, if the man has a warm and proactive attitude, it means that he has a good impression of you, if he is full of words and smiles, it means that he has the idea of further development with you, you can also ask him face to face, do you want to continue to develop?

If two people are in love, they can find time to meet no matter how busy they are. Being busy once may be true. Being busy twice is basically good for you.

If they're not interested in you, they won't pay attention to you, let alone text. But this situation does not mean that you have many chances to win, you can only say that the other person does not hate you. This can only show that the other person is good to you.

Therefore, we should continue to work hard and keep trying. If appropriate, we can explore each other's tone, how to go for a walk in the park, etc.

No interest. Imagine if one person in two cities wants to go further, how can we tell if the other person wants to do the same? Here's how to think from a man's point of view.

For example, men think that girls on blind dates are good. How do you judge what women think? During a blind date, if both partners can feel comfortable, it means that they still have a chance to continue to develop.

They just took a look at it at previous meetings. If there are no problems, they can continue to evolve. The first step is to leave.

When they tell you about their first kiss, you can usually tell if the other person intends to continue the connection at the first meeting. After all, the sensory deviation of face-to-face will not be too great. The weekend date is three years older than you.

Didn't have time to chat for a few days after wx. It's more of an excuse. If two people owe you money after a blind date, and the other licks the dog, you are Bailian and she is.

When you come here on a blind date, you still can't see where you are. Do you really think you're white and rich or the second generation of the rich? Just to get married, it's not a blind date, it's not a final date.

You didn't cancel the chat after having dinner with a girl you like to date on the second or third day. Except for those who are ready to deceive you, it will be interesting and developing. Blind and risky dating, marriage must be cautious.

I wish you happiness and get your love soon! On a blind date, through chatting, both parties will have a preliminary understanding of each other.

You can see if the other party takes the initiative to contact you, whether they follow your circle of friends, and whether they often send you messages. If the other party is interested in developing you, they will definitely contact you more.

In this case, see if the other party will take the initiative to chat with you, or if the other party will reply to your message in a timely manner, if this is the case, then there must be an intention to develop.

It depends on whether he is serious about the questions you ask, whether he considers what he says, and when he takes the initiative to talk to you about some of his own things, if so, you can continue to develop with him.

If two people like each other, no matter how busy they are, they can find time to meet, one busy may be a fact, and two busy times is an excuse, which can only show that the other party is not interested in you. Just imagine, people in two cities are trying their best to meet, and people in one city can't meet for a month, it must be a human factor. When encountering such a situation, be calm and give up early.

On the blind date platform or the object of the blind date, if both parties intend to continue chatting, they will not be in a hurry to refuse each other and refuse to communicate with each other, which is intentionally wanting to continue chatting and continue to develop.