In the blind date process, men behave very passively, what is the reason?

It may be because this man doesn't love you, doesn't like you, and doesn't mean anything to you, that's why this happens.

It may be because the boy's economic strength is not good, or the boy has low self-esteem, and his feelings about you are not very correct, thinking that you are not a good match with him, or your personality is relatively strong.

If a man behaves very passively, it means that he doesn't like you, has no feelings for you, or because he himself is particularly introverted.

Yes, and in general, if you are very satisfied with each other after a blind date, then the contact between the two people in this case is more frequent, but in general, the boy should still be relatively active.

Not necessarily, but if you do develop a relationship further, then it will be better for the guy to take the initiative, and of course, the girl can also take the initiative.

Of course not, if the two people will have a good impression after the blind date, it is okay for the woman to take the initiative. Because the main purpose of a blind date is to get married, so don't care who takes the initiative.

Yes, any relationship is a two-way street, if you have a good impression of the other party, take the initiative or take the initiative to respond, don't wait, wait for the scumbag to come, the purpose of the blind date is very clear, just do it or not, don't wait for others to give up on you before you regret it, take the initiative and don't be ashamed, when are you still shy.

Yes, if the boy does not take the initiative, it will leave a very bad impression on the girl, and most of the girls are more shy.

After I went on a blind date, most of the relationships were maintained by boys, because if boys don't take the initiative, under normal circumstances, girls won't take the initiative, so the relationship may end directly.

After a blind date, it is not necessarily a boy to maintain a relationship. But the active ones are more boys. Although men chase women across mountains, women chase men across the veil, but there is always such a law:

It would be more appropriate for boys to take the initiative, but girls should still be more reserved. After a blind date, if both parties have a good impression.

The relationship after the blind date is generally dependent on the initiative of the boy, there are other possibilities, mainly depending on the family background of the blind date object plays an absolute role, there is an advantage in the background, such a family girl will also take the initiative to pay, under the same conditions, the relationship after the blind date is equal.

No, two people have established a relationship, so whether it is a boy or a girl, they need to take the initiative to chat with each other, so as to increase their feelings for each other.

No, if the blind date is over, the girl has a good impression of you, it may be because of the face, you need to take the initiative, but after a period of time, the relationship between each other has improved, the girl will take the initiative to chat with you, ask you to meet, etc., if you have always been active, then you can directly ask her opinion, maybe she is still waiting, not sure whether you are her lover.

After two people meet on a blind date, and then two people understand and communicate, in this process, the relationship will be invisibly close, and the relationship is maintained by both parties, the man takes the initiative, but the woman must also invisibly accept the man's initiative, which is conducive to the relationship between the two.

Under normal circumstances, boys should be more active, because girls are more passive, so if you want to maintain a good relationship, boys must take the initiative, and some girls may be more extroverted, more lively, maybe active, but most girls are more passive. ：

Generally, the boy takes the initiative to contact the girl, and the girl will respond accordingly if the girl is satisfied with the boy, and the boy judges whether the woman is satisfied with himself according to the girl's reaction, and feels that the blind date is less tempting and more sincere.

After the blind date, if you want to maintain the relationship between the two people, it is impossible to just rely on the man to take the initiative, and the dose is for the two people to talk about friends, so both people must take the initiative in order to make the relationship between the two people go further.

This is normal, girls will generally be a little reserved, unless the object is very in line with her requirements, otherwise they will rarely take the initiative to contact each other, and when the relationship is determined and stable, the girl will take the initiative when she has a sense of security.

Girls are more introverted by nature, and whether they like it or not, they generally don't take the initiative to think about expressing it, so after a blind date, boys will generally lead the way if they want to promote the relationship or maintain the relationship.

Today, if Songgang feels particularly satisfied today, some girls are also particularly active and can't enter, relying on boys alone to take the initiative to maintain these relationships.

Maintaining a relationship after a blind date doesn't mean that the boy should take the initiative, mainly to see if the girl has feelings for the boy, but if the boy likes the girl, the boy must take the initiative first.

In this era, busy work makes it impossible for many people to fall in love freely, so they can only find a partner through a blind date, but after the blind date is over, the blind date man is willing to date will have the following performances:

1. Take the initiative to contact you after the blind date.

Whether the blind date is interesting to you or not, generally speaking, you will know whether the other party contacts you again after the blind date. Only guys who like you and have the intention of dating will contact you after the blind date is over. Know that boys are more emotionally direct animals, and if they don't want to socialize with you, they won't take the initiative to find you.

2. I care about you very much.

If the blind date man is willing to associate with you, then he will definitely care about you very much after the blind date, such as asking you what time you go to bed, why you go to bed so late, staying up late is not good for your health and other small problems in life, these will tell you very clearly, I already want to chase you as a man, and you have to be prepared as a woman.

3. Chat with you very positively.

The ultimate goal of blind date is to be able to get rid of singleness, strange men and women may not know each other, want to know if the other party is the other half they want, you need to take the initiative to understand each other, blind date boys chat with you very actively, indicating that she is interested in you, very want to know more about you.

4. Reply to your message in seconds.

You think he's idle, but he's just waiting for your news. If you're around him at the moment, you will see him replying to you with a smile on his face.

Maybe a few times, he didn't reply in seconds, he will definitely take the initiative to explain the reason to you, and when there is something that can't be chatted, he will definitely tell you in advance, and come back to you as soon as he is done.

5. Remember what you said very clearly.

When we like someone, we will inadvertently remember many things related to them. If you want to know if the blind date man is willing to date you, just see if he remembers what you said, if he remembers it very clearly, generally speaking, he likes you very much.

6. The topic is endless.

People who like you naturally have endless topics to talk to you, as if you are old friends who have known each other for many years, and have so many topics in common, and you will find that what he said is very in line with your feelings, as if he is talking about things that happen around you, and it feels very intimate, as if you have experienced it together.

Normally and generally, the boy takes the initiative. Especially in the early days of the blind date, after the kiss. If you think the other party is okay, then strike while the iron is hot.

Some boys just feel that they may just start dating girls, and they are not embarrassed, and girls are embarrassed, so they will want to get acquainted with each other through chatting first, and then make an appointment after understanding something.

If he agrees to let you out on a date, you can ask him out, and then find a quieter place to continue chatting, and the two sides get to know each other and have a look.

But no matter what, it depends on the boys to take the initiative. Even if a girl pretends to be, she has to be reserved. What's more, a stranger who has never known you will suddenly become familiar, and she will also have a process of self-adjustment in her heart.

Some boys are just too naïve, he thinks why should girls put on a show, even if girls are reserved. It's the boys who don't understand it, and they're short-tempered. I think the girl is taking the gun away, and if the girl is not satisfactory in all aspects, the boy will be even more irritable.

Blind date refers to a form in which men and women communicate with each other and inspect each other after meeting under the introduction of the matchmaker, and finally determine whether they can fall in love with each other.

Blind dates can be done in several ways:

1. Eat. This kind of blind date is made by the introducer, inviting the two parties on the blind date to have a meal, communicating with each other during the meal, inspecting each other, and finally determining whether they can fall in love with each other.

2. Go shopping. This kind of blind date is a meeting place agreed between the introducer and the two parties on the blind date, and then the two parties meet. ......After meeting, the two parties went shopping together, communicated with each other in the process of shopping, inspected each other, and finally determined whether they were suitable for falling in love.

3. Visit the park.

Visiting the park is also a very suitable way to go on a blind date.

After the two parties were introduced by the introducer, after getting to know each other, they walked around the park, chatted and communicated while enjoying the beautiful scenery, inspected each other, and finally determined whether they were suitable for each other to fall in love.

4. Drink tea and coffee.

Drinking tea and coffee is also a great way to go on a blind date. ......The introducer introduces the blind date to meet both parties, and then drinks tea and coffee together, chats and exchanges, and examines each other to determine whether they are suitable for falling in love.

After examining the blind date through the above blind date methods, you can determine whether your blind date is suitable for you and whether you can fall in love with it.

When the blind date is over and it is clear that the other party is suitable for you to fall in love, you can further communicate with each other to enhance mutual understanding between each other, so that the feelings between each other are deeper and deeper, and finally love is generated and you enter the palace of marriage.

In the above process, in general, boys should be more proactive.

In contrast, girls are more reserved and shy, while boys are more proactive and generous. ......Therefore, when they are not very familiar with each other, boys should take the initiative to communicate with girls, so as to better achieve communication and exchanges between the two parties and continuously enhance their relationship.

However, in the process, girls should not be too cold ......When it is determined that the other party is really suitable for herself, the girl should also take the initiative to invite the boy, so that they can get closer to each other, the relationship can be more intimate, and the love can be sweeter.

One. It can't always be the right person to throw that kind of cue at you. Like you should take the initiative, but his expression deserves a response from the other person.

Two. You are not required to reply every day, but you should also take the initiative to say hello every day, so as to reflect her position in your heart, and it will also make the other party feel that you care about him very much.

Three. If his enthusiasm can't bloom your cold heart, or your very introverted personality, it can only be said that he has not entered your heart and has not moved you, so you are very passive and unwilling to take the initiative to show favor. It will make the other party feel very helpless.

Same idea as me, just take it!

Blind date, as a courtesy, boys should also take the initiative to pay, at least the image established in the girl's heart is still good.

A few days ago, I discussed the issue of spending money between boyfriends and girlfriends with my roommate, and I said that "if a man is not willing to spend money for you, then he must not love you". In fact, I agree with this idea, it is one thing for girls to accept it, but boys must have such thoughts, otherwise why don't girls find a boyfriend who loves them more. Love does not have to be linked to money, but it must be linked to the attitude of getting along.

And it's the first time I've gone out to eat, so I'd better take the initiative to pay for it in order to meet in the future.

If you are a man, I don't think you should choose the AA system, after all, you are a boy, even if you go out with a woman, even if the relationship is not very good, you should take the initiative to pay for it. Don't seem so stingy, if you choose the AA system, then your blind date plan will definitely be in vain. Because any girl will find this kind of behavior annoying, and it is a boy who does such behavior.

It is impossible to maintain the relationship after the blind date by relying on the initiative of the boy.

Even if the boy takes the initiative, if the woman doesn't like the boy and feels that the boy's conditions are too poor, no matter how active the boy is, he won't be able to catch up with the girl. It's like warming a stone, and you can't hatch chicks at all.

The basis of the boy's initiative is that the woman is more accepting of the boy, and the internal and external conditions are more acceptable. The boy works a little harder, takes the initiative to pursue the girl, and slowly through understanding and knowing, the relationship gradually warms up, and maybe they will come together in the end.

Under normal circumstances, if the man's conditions are particularly superior, in the dominant position of choosing the woman, and the woman is in the position of being chosen, in this situation, the woman will be particularly active, afraid of losing the man, will firmly seize this opportunity, often take the initiative to invite or contact the boy, increase the relationship between the two people, do everything possible to please the boy, flatter the boy in every possible way, hope that the two people can be together, let themselves enjoy a superior material life.

If after the blind date, the woman understands the specific situation of the man, and feels that the conditions are average, and she is not very interested, if there is no better for the time being. The man takes the initiative to pursue, maybe the woman will gradually accept the man, slowly fall in love with the boy over time, and maybe fall in love with the boy.

Therefore, boys take the initiative to give themselves opportunities and also give others opportunities.