Pls what should I do, pls what should I do

It can be seen that your husband is a very clean person. He will keep saying that you are because of his habits for many years, and you don't feel that he doesn't care about you because of that. When two people live together, they have to accommodate each other.

I'm also a married man, and my bb is now 2 years old. No matter when the house is in chaos, even if you keep cleaning up for a moment, it is still the same mess, which is something that cannot be helped.

Sometimes my parents were also unhappy when they came, saying that our family couldn't be messy anymore and so on, but I didn't care at first, and since we said it, we had to do it. But after a long time, I am also like you, and I am very unhappy, because as long as I come once, I will say that I am once. We are all adults, who likes to be 'talked' every day!!

My solution to this matter is to let the person who said that the family is in chaos take care of the children for 2 days, and they will not talk about it in the future.

Some things have to be explained, you have to let others know that watching children is not an easy thing, and you have to ask your husband to understand you, as long as he understands you, he will not say that kind of thing. It's the same with your current personal image, after you have a child, you don't know where the child will pee and pull your new clothes once, and there is no need to change those 'image' clothes at home, that is a waste, you can make these clear to him.

When two people are together, as long as they are considerate, there will be no problems.

You can get custody of your child and ask them to pay child support; If there is evidence that the husband is at fault, you can get more of the joint property. How to operate the specific party can be hired**.

1。What kind of evidence should I collect, please give some examples?

All evidence that can prove extramarital affairs, such as **, state envy fight**, text messages, letters, audio recordings, etc., but it should be noted that the evidence collection method must be legal, and some evidence collection methods must be determined according to the specific situation.

2。Can I get custody of my child?

You should first explain the age of the child and the specific situation of both of you.

3。My husband transferred the money in my passbook before I returned to Guangdong, can I recover it?

Splitting can be requested.

4。Can I ask him to provide child support?

The parent who does not directly support the child is responsible for child support.

5。Now we have a house whose name is the owner, and the bank has a loan of more than 40,000 yuan, so how will the house and the loan be distributed?

If the house is purchased after marriage, then in principle, the house is divided equally, and the debts are borne jointly. Specifically, one party wants the house to bear the debt and give the other party reasonable compensation.

If there is still any uncertainty, please contact me.

Hello, you should collect all the evidence that can prove the extramarital affair, such as **, **, text messages, letters, audio recordings, etc., but pay attention to the evidence collection method must be legal, and some evidence collection methods must be determined according to the specific situation. Help.

In the end, you can only be a spare tire, and this girl's brain ......It's no wonder that you can only go to a health school, which normal man is willing to watch his woman change boyfriends at a very fast frequency under his own eyelids (not for a long time), until he talks about marriage, what is the hobby of cuckolding? It's understandable that I haven't had enough fun when I'm young, and I don't want to talk about a serious relationship with the goal of marriage, but this is the way people wait, and it's too weird, and I haven't thought about how a man will want to endure it in that position.

She said that the boyfriend she is talking about now is not long, but it won't take long to break up, and she is also talking and playing

There is a chance. She wants to have more fun with all kinds of people now, and then finally marry you. Probably this means, I don't want to marry you directly, and the good youth is gone without experiencing anything.