Excuse me, for the comparison between Chinese and foreign girls is in a contradiction, please help..

||Foreigners' evaluation of Chinese girls is basically that among the entire Asian women, Chinese girls are more independent and self-reliant, and some even say that they are unscrupulous for the end (this is more ruthless).

The first floor is right, don't say things to the extreme, Chinese girls are also confident, cheerful, generous, sunny, independent, open-minded, optimistic, I have seen a lot

Cheesy It depends on the environment you are in, in fact, some girls are very tacky on the surface and very careful in their minds, and they eat inside and out, sometimes it is not cheesy, but an inevitable means of survival among girls. A girl who is tall is easy to be mistaken for being unsociable, looking down on people or something, don't you say it?

Moreover, these aspects of willfulness, greed, and unreasonableness are actually shown among intimate people, and ordinary people naturally want to behave more in front of people with mediocre relationships, and when you see their other side, it still seems that they don't treat you as an outsider

It's not too extreme and one-sided, but I still think it's easier to find someone of the same race to communicate ......

It is not so much the contradiction that others bring to you as the contradiction that you bring to yourself, this is your own problem, it has nothing to do with others, and even if there is, it is the light side, and the fundamental one is in yourself.

Things gather like people in groups, why are there always willful and selfish girls around you? Then you're not a good commodity either.

I don't know if you're a girl or a boy. No matter what, always keep a normal mind and don't think too much!

Take a step back and open the sky, when communicating with others, don't always think about taking advantage, sometimes suffering is a blessing.

Isn't there something bothering you?

You must have a good relationship with a woman, and next time you buy some small gifts for her to make amends, such as snacks, snacks and the like.

According to the information of the theory of men and women, you subconsciously want to get to know those women.

Many people have such a bad habit of finding fault in others. After a conflict between the two parties, they usually don't think about whether they are at fault, most of them feel that the fault lies with others, and it is natural to wait for others to apologize or compromise.

In fact, for both sides of the spear and the world, everyone has the conditions to promote the conflict, after the quarrel, the mood calms down, you can use the method I often use, from the perspective of others, so that you can see where you are wrong, find out what you are not doing, and apologize to the other party. When it comes to apologizing, many people feel that others are at fault first, it is a shame to apologize to him, this kind of thinking is redundant, apologizing is not a loss of self-esteem, apologizing first can avoid a long period of stalemate and tension in the relationship, especially the conflict between friends, and do not have to ruin a friendship for that little face. Of course, for those who think they are supreme, this face carries more weight than her life.

It is inevitable that there will be some friction between friends in daily life, and after returning to the mountain for a long time, there will be some inexplicable contradictions between each other, perhaps the change in the other party's personality may make it difficult for you to accept, or you may begin to slowly discover the shortcomings of the other party and feel disgusted, these are the objective factors that intensify the conflict. People must learn to reflect, learn to be submissive, learn to tolerate the shortcomings of friends, and can also be tactfully proposed, don't let disgust occupy your brain. I also often dislike some of my friends' tempers, but I choose to be tolerant, between friends, friendship is above all else, and playing tempers over a little thing will not only hurt the feelings between friends, but also make myself miserable.

If you want to solve the contradiction between you and your female classmates, then you should take a look at the above If you are the class leader and do not want the classmates to have conflicts, it is recommended that you also learn the above and then be a confidant sister Who has a conflict in the class You can talk to her Don't persuade her Just listen to her and help her analyze it Give some advice It's OK In fact, the new students just got together It is inevitable that there will be friction and contradictions This is also part of growth It is very beneficial to a person's growth So you don't have to care too much Help the girls in the class dilute the contradictions Seeing that you are so hearted, I believe you will be able to come on.

Introversion is a character, not a mistake, if this personality has a great negative impact on daily life, study and work, work hard with her to improve, if the problem is not too big, as long as you communicate with her more. If she only opens her heart to you, then how much you have a sense of accomplishment and how relieved you are for her. If there is a problem with the communication between her and you, it is time to find out why.

Others say I'm conflicted, boys say I'm entangled, girls say I'm cute, and old people say I'm very well-behaved.

So don't take it too seriously, there's pressure on both sides, just let it be, let her care more about her.

Let's put it bluntly. You just tell her what you really think, and you can be tactful.

She also wants to make friends, but she's afraid that you will do something out of the ordinary, so think about it, what do you say.

You're forcing yourself.

Generally, if a boy really doesn't like it, then the girl has little to hesitate.

If you're just lonely, lonely right now, forget about her.

It's been three years, and maybe you've become a guest of hers.

First of all, "I'm worried that if I talk to her, I will find a better one in the future, and I will be in trouble if I can't get rid of it" This shows that you can't be together, because, love is mutually pleasing!!

Secondly, "I sent a few text messages insulting her and scolded her severely, and I didn't contact her for three years." "Hasn't she been in pain during this time? Tell you about it!

Once a woman dies, it's terrifying!! So, you don't have to be afraid that she's still interesting to you! Unless.

She's shameless! It's true!!!

Finally, I advise you: buddy! You're already so cruel to others, why can't you be cruel to yourself??!

You say you have OCD, that's good! Why don't you try to force yourself and be yourself! Nabs! If you are not ruthless, in the end, it is you who will be hurt!!

Don't ask me why, because. I used to be like that.

You think you're good, but you're greedy. I don't like you, why do you add people. You think people just like you. You're a bit of a loser. Hurry up and forget. If you don't like it, don't contact the family. The heart is clearer.

Do what you want to do, why do you have to make yourself so tired because of others?!

The detailed tracing of this question is complex and related to the evolution of human beings over tens of thousands of years. That is, this characteristic of a woman is innate. Why?

Because throughout history, from primitive societies to feudal societies, and even to modern societies, men have always held social responsibilities such as "hunting, war, politics, business", and so on, but what about women? "Cooking, taking care of children" and other "household chores". Therefore, for men, the contradiction is often directed at the "prey, enemy, competitor", while for women, the target is naturally directed at the "other women" with whom they live.

It's easy to see why. Maybe it was to compete for the favor of men, or for simple necessities, but this contradiction between women became common and innate; Men, on the other hand, will "come to an agreement" and rebuild old friendships for the sake of "hunting together" even if there is a conflict. So a completely different personality from a woman is formed.

I don't know if my explanation will satisfy you.

You can be a peacemaker, talk to these two girls separately, and then persuade these two girls to convey each other's meaning, and then make these two girls reconcile on your birthday, so that you also help them, and they thank you very much.

Girls just think a lot, but most of them don't take it seriously, if you can be a peacemaker, then it's better naturally, girls are cautious.

Hehe; You can see that you are a very attentive person; In this way, you can say that there is something to trust each other in, and then let them call it out separately; (Don't tell one of them that the other is there) and then you can be a peacemaker, too; draw a line between them; This will also increase your charisma index in their minds.

Delicate mind is more cautious.

Actually, it's common for girls to quarrel with each other (I'm a woman), but it will get better soon.

Kindness... You can talk to her, if you're sorry, talk about it on QQ, you're really right, she has a bad attitude Maybe some people are like this, and they don't blame him.

It may be that your table mates think that your friendship does not need to apologize anymore.

But not apologizing may be a manifestation of a person's self-cultivation, so why is it necessary?

Uh, do you have a good relationship with him? Are cups important? Is he usually like that?

Doesn't she want to pay for it? A cup isn't expensive. The high school party floated by

Buy a new one and apologize

Hello: It is not money and material things that move a person, but your real heart. If you want to ease the relationship, use your own practical actions to care about her and be good to her. If he likes you, she will cherish it, if she doesn't like you, it is useless for you to give anything!

Okay, take it, thank you.

Don't rush ......! Be a friend ......! It's yours after all, it's yours! You just play with her normally, and slowly she likes you.