How to persuade a pessimistic and unhappy girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, it is very simple, you just need to read this love motto to her: men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men. In other words, her task is only to conquer you, just don't let other vixens snatch you away, as for the conquest of the world, just leave it to you, and you don't have to do it.

    Tell her to do the woman behind the successful man with peace of mind, what homework to do, is it necessary?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Take her to your happy friend, remember, be happy friend, chat.

    It's easier to accept what people around you say, so be sure to be your or her happy friend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To make your girlfriend believe in herself, you need to have a strong body. There's a bit of a man's domineering. You also have to be able to talk and tell jokes often to make her happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just live with him, maybe she will feel that the world is better

    Listen to her complaints, but don't give advice to help her solve it, just scold her together

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Play with her more!!

    I'd love to help you, but I can't think of a better one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Show yourself in front of him and let him see his love for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The girlfriend is very pessimistic, and he must have been hurt in some way, so for such a girl, you still have to give him more happiness and happiness, take him to places with many crowds, and let him contact some good people. In this way, he will also become more optimistic, because there are many people who have been in their own pessimistic mood for a long time, and they have little contact with the outside world, so he does not feel the happiness and joy of the outside world, so he will always feel very pessimistic about everything.

    1. Give her enough security.

    Therefore, in the relationship, he can give him enough security, so that he can also feel the sincerity of others to him, and also let him have a new understanding of the world, so that he can also change his pessimism.

    2. Understand his heart and comfort him.

    First of all, the girlfriend's pessimism must also have something sad in his heart, so we can understand his heart, and then comfort him and let his girlfriend see some of it, which is also better.

    3. Take your girlfriend on a trip.

    The girlfriend is pessimistic, and his inner world is definitely colorless, so you can take your girlfriend to travel more, which can expose him to the outside world and make people feel happy.

    So in life I think optimism is very important for people, if a person is often in a pessimistic state, this is also very dangerous, so no matter what we do, we have to look at something, don't keep a pessimistic mood, because the world is also very beautiful, no matter what is there two sides.

    In life, no matter what we encounter, we have to think about the pros and cons, in fact, every bad thing, he is also beneficial and valuable, we think more about the favorable side, so that we will not let ourselves be in a pessimistic state. Because human life is also very short, we should live a more wonderful and happier life in a limited life, so that we can be worthy of ourselves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then you should be by your girlfriend's side and encourage each other often.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I was reading an article recently, and I got a lot of benefits. Show her, I'm a little inspired by it.

    Try to open up to everyone, talk and laugh and communicate more, maybe you will get hurt, but you will never know what the outcome will be until you experience it.

    This is also said to myself, and I am working hard to encourage you like this!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    But she goes out to play and let her happiness infect her, so that she will have hope in life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love her well and give her a sense of security.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, your boyfriend is angry because of something, is there a screenshot?

    In general, you can be spoiled by him.

    Then coax it, ask what's wrong with the baby, and I'll help you share the burden.

    This will make him feel better.

    Than the heart] [than the heart].

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