I seem to be a little autistic. I seem to be starting to feel a little autistic and have low self es

Everyone has a dual personality.

This is normal. It's just that someone might be more biased over that side.

Actually, I'm just like you.

There is a tendency to depression to some extent.

I'd love to ask the same question as you.

But there was no way.

Our character is like this.

I don't think there's a need to disguise it too much.

It's what it is.

Don't push yourself too hard.

That would be tiring.

Do you remember that Xiao Cui said that depressed people are high-IQ people?

Hehe. Let's encourage ourselves like this.

People like us don't care about the same things that ordinary people care about.

In terms of the development of the heart.

We are more mature than the average person in the same period.

Be more rational. And the disadvantages are:

It's easy to feel lonely.

As far as these two are concerned.

You choose which kind of person you want to be and what kind of life you want to live.

This. It's up to you.

But I advise you to find yourself.

Find your bearings.

To care about what you really care about.

To work hard to develop yourself.

Go your own way.

There will be a difference.

Don't be distracted by the life around you.

To get this to the essence of life.

See the life of the world.

And don't stay in the small circle around you.

Of course. Friends want it.

And indispensable.

But you have to find a balance.

Good luck

It's very autistic, and you have so many friends, you must have something special.

Try to talk to your friends and understand their minds, and try to share your thoughts with others, and be open to your friends, because if you are separated from your friends, you will be miserable.

It's not autism, it's just that the mental state is not very good recently, everyone has an emotional trough area, want to be alone and relax, next time your friends ask you out again, you can refuse, and then let yourself relax for a while, it will be better, I think you don't go out with friends for 1-2 months, everyone will not forget you, everyone has a low mood, everyone will understand.

You don't have to be like this, it's a good thing to have more friends, and it looks up to you when you go out to play, you don't have to look down on yourself, think about it yourself, the world is very beautiful, there is no need to be so autistic.

Eh: I've met my soulmate again.

I'm also a vegetarian. But.

I'm crazy.

Hahaha. What about others?

It's good to be happy.

Maybe it's the fear of being alone.

Disguise yourself.

Actually, I don't think that's a bad thing.

If those friends are really your good friends.

For your sake. Then they will surely forgive you.

Afraid of what. What's the big deal.

Your life is yours. Whatever he does.

Why are you so inferior, I also received 3 blessing text messages on the New Year, 3 admirers, according to what you say, I shouldn't be jumping off the building.

I'm also very autistic.

But depending on what you think, if you like autism, that's okay

But if you hate the feeling of autism, then in the long run, I am afraid you will not be able to stand it.

So try to adjust your personality and get in touch with more things in the outside world.

Don't do that. Like me, I wake up every day and shout: "I'm the most handsome"! I'm in a good mood! ~~

Take a look at my QQ space, it will definitely make you happy. Good luck

It's nothing! Everyone told you to play, at least they still care about you! Think about these things from a different perspective! Actually, none of them are very difficult to solve!

No, that's just our momentary emotion, temporary. Don't take it personally. I was like this in the first semester of my second year of junior high school, but fortunately I had two good friends with me, otherwise I would have thought I was autistic.

But you're okay, our teacher said that I was autistic + arrogant, which was a chill!! You find your own good friends, don't listen to others, just believe that you're okay! Come on, you can do it.

I hope you get rid of this emotion soon.

Autism and low self-esteem are related.

But that's just a state.

Make more friends.

Be confident in yourself in everything you do.

Actually, I'm just upset, and I sometimes do the same! It's good to go after that stage!

What are you: There is no answer. The kind of person you think you are, who you are, and others will see you that way.

This is a major discovery in psychology in the last world--- self-intention.

-You can't be beautiful if you think you're not pretty enough. If you don't think you're brave enough, you can't be brave. You think you're stupid, you can't be smart.

The spirit of intelligent and confident people is open, and conversely, the spirit of people with low self-esteem is relatively closed. In fact, there is very little real distinction between being smart and not being smart. As long as a normal person is open to experience, then he must be smart. It is recommended that you:

Eliminate low self-esteem --- regain self-confidence.

1. Positive identification with oneself.

You can't just see your own shortcomings, and the inferiority complex is largely generated in contrast. Therefore, while actively identifying with yourself, you must not regard others as perfect. People with strong low self-esteem do not have this awareness:

He's human too. Since they are"people", all have personal strengths and weaknesses. Accepting oneself means accepting one's weaknesses and strengths.

2. Build self-confidence.

To build self-confidence, you must first learn to say: No!

Low self-esteem is a manifestation of psychological weakness. The point is that their self-confidence is not strong, and they dare not show their thoughts to the outside. As a result, he followed the crowd in action, had no opinions, and had no courage, resulting in psychological depression and depression.

Psychologists believe that if you think you are stupid, then you are stupid. If you think you are elegant, you are elegant ... Therefore, low self-esteem can be overcome. But to defeat it, you have to rely on yourself.

Success says: God helps those who are self-reliant!

3. Positive autosuggestion.

Learn to say in your heart: I can do it too!

You might as well ask yourself: they are all the same people, he can do it, I can do it. He can do it, and so can I.

4. Actively interact with others.

A healthy mind doesn't come up with it.

Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, mental activity turns inward, towards himself. The scope and content of mental activities are limited to a certain extent, and coupled with the limitations of understanding, mental activities often go to extremes.

It is dangerous for a person's psychology not to be understood by others, even if it is felt by oneself"How ahead of its time"。When you associate with a healthy person, your heart will be purified, your heart will be open, and your experience will be open. The shadow of the psyche gradually dissolves during the activity.

I wish you a happy day, and your adoption is the greatest encouragement to me.

Good luck

There are at least two ways to solve this problem.

One is to come out through your own efforts, everyone has a period of low ebb, during which if you can regain a new understanding of yourself and life, it will be a qualitative leap.

The other is to seek help from a psychological counselor, through their professional knowledge to understand their current situation and clarify their future life positioning, which will also play a certain role in promoting their physical and mental development.

Sister, I'll teach you a method. I don't know if it's useful.

Write a very miserable and tragic book yourself and publish it.

Then it would be better if you got on fire.

You can increase your confidence in interacting with people through online chat. Keep smiling at all times. You can look in the mirror and say to yourself every morning when you wake up

You're living well, you're happy every day, there's sunshine everywhere. This will increase your self-confidence, relieve stress and soothe your mood.

Be lenient in everything. Don't get into the nitty-gritty. Don't think about unhappy things. Watch at least one joke a day and tell it to your friends or colleagues. This will ease your autism, so give it a try.

Since you are mild and you are aware of it, and most importantly you want to take the initiative to get rid of him, you are a very sober and wise person. So my analysis of your autism is likely to be self-righteous and think that there exists. It is very likely that it is just that you don't like to interact with people for a long time, and anxiety can also be caused by the impatience that you often don't associate with people and suddenly want to do it but can't do it.

First, strive to improve one's spiritual realm, and the most important thing is self-confidence.

Second, pay attention to your words and deeds, socialize with people more, participate in more crowded activities, friend gatherings and the like, talk unnecessarily, you can not say when you have nothing to say, but you must listen carefully to what others say, say it when you have something to say, especially try to maintain a natural attitude and do not grab words with others, and it is best to have a sense of humor when speaking.

Third, always introspect, often compare with others, and find out your own strengths and weaknesses with a calm mind to correct them.

Fourth, try to be honest with others. Do your best for people, don't do it, don't do it, and do it well.

You can try these methods!