I m confused, I hate love now, but I still like him, what should I do??

I'm more confused, how much do you really understand about love? Generally I hate a person, one thing, love is something that many people yearn for, and they often can't get it after working very hard. When you like a man, you have to know whether it has risen to the level of love, and if so, he loves you too, then you enjoy it!

Didn't the woman say? The more I hate it, the more I like it, this logic is only known and established by women, you can experience it yourself.

You have to think about it, there are so many people in the world, why is he living in my heart, he is not qualified.

Look for his shortcomings and try not to think about him.

Actually, I've had your feelings, I think trying to be a friend is that kind of unique friend Maybe not as simple as a good friend, but after a long time, nothing is really just a friend The past is just a good memory Really useful Friends are always better than love.

I think there's a question you may not have figured out: what love is. The love written in the book, sung in the song, there are hundreds of kinds, most of them are self-contradictory, the love you think must be one of the hundreds of love views, can you be sure that your love view is correct?

So, you still have to figure out what love is.

If you don't want to be confused, there are two ways, one is that you fall in love with another woman, and the other is that you love to chase her back. Let's do it first!

Summary. My dear, you belong to the psychological imbalance of love, before you fell in love, you thought the other party was very good, and after you talked about it, you felt that he was very annoying.

I want to fall in love, it's because the other party likes me I don't like it, but I just got with him, and after being together, I felt annoyed with him, and even hated him, hated him, but I knew in my heart that he was a very good person, and he didn't do anything bad, but he couldn't control himself and hated him, and now I want to break up, and I found that I was ...... like this when I fell in love beforeAm I sexually unrequited, or do I have a problem with my heart?

My dear, you belong to the psychological imbalance of love, before you fell in love, you thought the other party was very good, and after you talked about it, you felt that he was very annoying.

Expectations that belong to the psyche do not live up to their own standards.

It may be that there is no understanding of what love looks like.

So how do I solve it, such as how to break up, after all, at the beginning I wanted to be with each other, and the other party was my first love, and I didn't want to be sorry for him.

After the hot love period has passed, the relationship tends to be stable, and you can see the shortcomings of the lover, and there will be boredom.

We didn't have a love period either, and I seemed to have fantasies about love only before we were together, and then it was gone.

My dear, you have to gradually adapt to the ordinary life and the ordinary other person.

That's because you've already got love, so naturally you won't think about it much.

I find myself like this every time I'm with someone else, no matter how good or good they are, I get bored.

But finding out that the love you are in is not what you think.

There will be a gap in the heart.

Have you always been like this?

Has anyone hurt you emotionally?

Yes, my fantasies about love are not the kind of vigorous, but plain and prosaic, making progress together, but after being together, I suddenly lose all feelings, I feel disgusted, bored.

When you are in love, if the disgusting psychological feeling lasts for a long time, you must consider the possibility of changing your mind, maybe you no longer love your boyfriend.

Do you have a crush on other people of the opposite sex right now?

No, I didn't have a good impression of other members of the opposite sex, and there were few of them before, I never liked him, but when I first knew that he liked me, I had some little fantasies about love, and I wanted to learn and progress together, but after being together, these feelings disappeared, and I even hated him and wanted to stay away.

It's because we didn't learn and progress together that I disliked each other.

Or is it just disgusted with each other.

This should be thought through.

It's just that I hate each other.,After being together, the previous idea of learning to play games with him has all disappeared.。

Is it because of the shortcomings of the other party?

Still for no reason.

Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him or her when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Friends, cherish what you have now, don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret.

I wish you happiness and happiness!

Because you care about him.

A little mistake that cannot be tolerated.

The understanding of love lies in the positioning given in everyone's mind, you are bored with love, that is because you don't understand the word "love", the word love is very expensive, and it is rare to get it. If you can't get it, you will get tired of hate, and the other side of love is hate, just like everything in the world, yin and yang. Many things and people are like this, things must be opposed, you will hate love, most of them belong to social influence, and there is also a part, you should see that some people around you are not so beautiful because of love, and the final result is not so beautiful, right?

Love is one-sided, it is given without asking for anything in return, and love is two-sided, if one party has doubts about this love, it is like milk in a crisper box, spoiled, it was originally perfect, but because of the deterioration, the milk can only be seen and not drunk. If you want to drink it, you will have a stomachache and want to throw it away. It's a shame again.

Because there is love, there will be love. If there is no love, where is the love?

Why does love always play tricks on the infatuated men and women in the world Many people work hard for a bed Many people move people for a room Many people give up halfway for a piece of paper Please don't chant the wind and the moon You have to believe in love You have to find love The price of love will only make love more precious.

Silly first find someone to love and then evaluate... Pay first, regardless of whether he returns or not... If you love, you love, you don't love, you hate something.

Go and experience. Love is really good and has the potential to make you motivated. It is possible that you will struggle hard.

There are many possibilities ... To find someone to love ... DON'T SAY NO ...

Opportunities create themselves.

Do you still pretend --- --- are you bored with love--- it's really - hypocritical people can't get love!

It's more practical to do everything on your own, and there's no need to deliberately do anything.

In fact, every boy originally wanted to be a good man with single-minded feelings.

In fact, every boy and girl look at their faces rather than their breasts.

In fact, every boy would never joke about pornography.

In fact, every boy is eager to love someone forever.

It's just that no girl loves such a boy, they think that such a boy is too naïve, too old-fashioned, and has no interest, so the boy begins to change and become the kind that girls like, with a wicked smile on the corner of their mouth, cynicism or humor.

Begin to learn to say sweet words rather than what you want to say.

began to learn to pretend to care, and learned to give trinkets to the female liquid Hongsen child to please her.

Learn how to pursue, how to grasp love.

Or see through the red dust, play the love scene, and become the kind of man that women hate.

They can easily capture the hearts of girls, but they can also smoke cigarettes and cry in the dark night.

When there is love in the heart, there is no girl.

I have a girl, but I never feel love.

When I hear women complain that there is no good man in the world.

They don't try to be a good man anymore and just smile and pass by.

Look at the answer for selling.

You still like him more than you dislike him.

Since there is still a feeling of Sakura.

Just go ahead. Appreciate his goodness.

Nagging him badly.

If he cherishes you.

Nature will try to change.

In fact, the essence of love is a chemical reaction, a feeling produced by hormones and hormones emitting a special smell that is recognized by the brain and knows its preferences. Some feelings are innate, such as parents' feelings for their children, and some feelings are acquired, such as comradeship, brotherhood, love, patriotism, etc. So, the definition of love is:

Love is the emotional thought that people are eager to give some or all of their love for their loved ones and hope that they will be happy forever.

Love is a very vague thing, and it is a feeling that cannot be expressed, because it is something that is felt but cannot be guessed. Love is not to have, but as long as the process is exciting, both parties are happy and happy.

Love is something to give, and it is also something to give to each other. I can think of her when I am upset, I can think of her when I am happy, love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is care rather than pampering, love is mutual blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweet, true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other, in order to make each other live better and silently dedicated, This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, True love is when you can love, know how to cherishTrue love is knowing how to let go when you can't love Because, letting go is the ...... you have everythingPlease love well when you cherish it.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

It's up to you how you see it.

Human nature is good, if you treat him with sincerity, you can naturally get true love. As for how much you will have to pay, it's hard to say. You have to grasp the bottom line of what you can afford.

If you feel that you can't afford to change, then flash someone early, and these can be solved during the relationship. If you start a family, it's even more troublesome.

Actually, most girls are a bit like this, but she loves you, and I think that's enough. Maybe her way and approach make you a little unbearable, but since you choose to be with her, you should tolerate her. And if she really loves you, she will try to change herself for you and tell her what you think.

That's it! Is it the nature of girls to be stubborn and temperamental? I really don't know what to do sometimes, but since I love, I should understand and tolerate, sometimes it's really contradictory, I feel the same way, long live understanding!