The child is dressed up brightly, why can he see at a glance that he is a poor child ?

The topic of the poor and the rich is always endless, in the past to distinguish whether a person's material conditions are good or not, it can be seen from the dress and manners, there is still a difference between the rich and the poor, but it is not so obvious in appearance, but from other aspects, such as psychology, temperament, etc., and other aspects of the difference. No matter how you dress up and cover it up, you can always tell at a glance whether a person is rich or poor.

The other day, my brother told me that he had a classmate who seemed to have a very strong self-esteem and was very competitive. According to a few usual things, he found that this classmate's family background should not be very good, but in front of his classmates, he always pretended to be very rich, saying that his parents worked in other places, became a big leader, and went abroad to learn diving courses during the summer vacation.

After I heard about it, some of them couldn't laugh or cry, and some of them couldn't laugh or cry'Poor people'children, in order not to be ridiculed by others, they will also conceal or disguise their own family backgroundBut no matter how much they disguise, they can't hide these three performances.

1.Families with poor inferiority complex have fewer natural material conditions for their children, and now children in society are also compared with each other, and children from poor families naturally have no good things to compare with children from rich families, so they will have a strong sense of inferiority.

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Because the family conditions do not allow, parents may give their children a little pocket money, ask their children to save some flowers, or tell their parents when they finish spending, and parents will show great heartache. In the long run, children will feel that money is the most important thing in the world, and because of material scarcity, they have a strong desire to protect their own things, and become very "picky".

3.Some children may feel that as long as they pretend to be rich, they will not look like children from "poor families". In fact, in many cases, no matter how well a person is disguised, it will also expose the fact that the family conditions are not good.

Because, children born in "poor families" have seen too few things and their horizons are not broad enough. The things they show off are nothing more than eating, drinking, using, and playing, all of which are very petty-minded and still stay in the "poor" mentality. In fact, the children of "rich families" have a broader horizon, they have more contact with more people, and the circle of development is large, and they will not limit their vision to eating and drinking.

Knowledgeable parents are not the same as rich parents. Children can't choose what kind of family they are born in, but they can choose the life they want to live in the future. Parents should teach their children how to face the difficulties in life positively, which is actually a very valuable asset in their children's lives.

Children from relatively poor backgrounds seem to lag behind others a lot from the perspective of basic conditions, so parents must have a long-term vision in education, although they cannot give their children rich material resources, but they can cultivate their children spiritually.

In addition, parents should not always put it'Poor'Poverty is not the child's fault, and parents should let the child understand the infinite possibilities of life.

Because they can see that the child's family conditions are not good from the aspects of speech and conversation, a person's speech and conversation can let others see your family conditions.

Because the child's family is rich or not, it is not based on how well she dresses, but whether her education is good or not, which is the cultivation of the heart. Poor families may have the money to buy some clothes, but they can't afford the high-interest specialty class; Secondly, children from poor families generally have low self-esteem and do not like to express themselves in public.

Because most of the children of the really rich will not dress up "rich" in their appearance, because they don't need to rely on gorgeous appearances to tell others that their families are rich. And some children from ordinary families have great vanity, but they are afraid of being looked down upon by others, so they satisfy their vanity by dressing up to win the eyes of others.

Children from poor families are very humble, even if they have good grades, they are not confident, they usually speak in a very small voice, which will make people ignore his existence, do not understand famous brands or common fashion brands, and have strong material desires.

First of all, it's a tutor, a very poor kind of child, his family must have a reason for poverty, so his family education is not as good as that of rich children.

When you see something you haven't seen before, your eyes will be evasive or full of longing; They will be frugal when using and eating, and will not waste. Both of these qualities are both good and bad, and they will be quickly recognized.

Many people should have seen such a phenomenon in real life, many parents save food and use for their children, and they wear very simple clothes, but their children are completely different from their parents, these children who are loved by their parents are generally brightly dressed! Many people will be confusedWhat kind of devil do parents fall into now, and why do they spoil their children like this?

In fact, most parents choose to treat their children like this because they lived too many poor days when they were young! Many contemporary parents did not live well when they were young, their family conditions were generally poor, it can be said that they had a meal without a meal, and it was precisely because they had too many hard days when they were children, so they were unwilling to let their children repeat such daysAt this time, many parents want their children to live well even if they have wronged themselves!

In addition, many families now have only one child and only one baby in the family, naturally, it is regarded as a "little emperor" and "little princess" by the whole family, which parent is not loved, and how can they live a hard life? If you compare a single-child family with a non-one-child family, you can actually see a clear differenceIn general, only children live better than non-only children!

In fact, it is difficult for me to understand the feelings of parents who do not want their children to suffer, but they must learn to be rational, you can't spoil your children too much, it is very likely that you think that spoiling your children is for their good, but in fact, it is really not the case, if you are too spoiling your children,It often makes them develop some very bad habits, which is very detrimental to their growth, love children can be, but please be sensible!

The current situation is like this, in order to make the child live a better life, parents give it to themselves, wear it in tatters, and use all the money they save to buy some good clothes or shoes for their children.

There are many such situations in our country, and parents are trying to make their children's lives better, saving their own food and money, and using all their money on their children.

Parents of the world. It's all like that. Especially Chinese parents.

It is better to suffer and suffer by yourself. It is also necessary to let the child have a good life. I'm one of them.

When shopping for clothes. I can't afford to buy it if it's a little more expensive. Give the child a flower.

A little bit of good food is left for the children. This is true. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

The mother of the child is worried. The mother travels thousands of miles without worrying. This is a social phenomenon in China.

Children are all the hope of parents, but also the treasure in the hearts of parents, even if they are bitter, they will not let their children suffer, let their children live a glamorous life, is not to want children to have an inferiority complex in front of others.

No matter how difficult it is for parents, they must leave the best to their children, many times people are judged by their appearance, they dress well, eat well, they are looked down upon, and there are children who live very frugally and are looked down upon for a while, once he becomes a successful person through his hard work, it is different with power and money.

This is all caused by their parents, no matter how poor they are, they want to make their children look glamorous in front of others, but they don't care about their appearance. Nowadays, the standard of living in society has improved, and the vanity of children has also risen, they like to compare with each other, and others have to have themselves, which has invisibly added huge pressure to the parents of children with poor family conditions. Therefore, these parents would rather suffer themselves and let their children shine in front of others.

Because parents save the best for their children. As long as the child is doing well, it can be a good parent.

Parents leave the good ones to their children, and they are usually reluctant to eat and wear, and the good ones are left to their children. My parents are.

Because of modern society.

Worship money. The children's classmates will make comparisons.

In this case.

Children will go to the oppression of their parents.

And the parents are even more frugal.

There is no bottom line to meet the child's requirements.

In fact, this is a pathological phenomenon of society.

Nowadays, children in society pursue comparisons excessively, without considering the difficulties of their parents

Children love to compare, or parents don't want their children to be bad.