Through the daily performance of the child, can we see whether the child s family is poor or not?

Wearing clothes, eating and drinking. The wearing of clothes judges the economic situation of the child's family from the child's external image; Diet, the poor children in the family are reluctant to eat, and the diet will be a little worse.

The first can see that he is not confident, and those who are richer are generally more confident, and the second is the way he spends money, the richer people will also manage their finances.

The child's daily performance is very constrained, and the child from a wealthy family will follow the performance, which can be seen that the child's family is not very good. The quality of the family will affect some of the children's performance.

The child feels that the family is poor and is always worried about the family's financial situation, is this good or bad? Glad you for this question. Before we can do that, we need to distinguish between the following situations.

First of all, it is the poverty of the family that the children are sensitive to perceive. Or is it that the family is not poor. It's that the child has a strong comparison mentality.

Under the influence of the psychology of comparison. I always feel that my family is not as good as some other families with children at work. If that's the case, then the problem is much easier.

We can help our children develop the right concept of wealth. Help children get rid of a comparison mentality. After children quit the comparison mentality, they will not feel that their family is poor, and then they will not always worry about the family's financial situation.

If it is the first case, the family is indeed poor, and the child is already keenly aware of it. Then we congratulate you on having a child of a director. As the saying goes, the children of the poor are in charge early.

When the child understands that the family's economic conditions are not good, he will study harder. However, it is undoubtedly a huge challenge for children to know this cruel reality in advance at this age when they should be carefree. Because children are poor in their own families, they will have an inferiority complex.

Inferiority complex will make children feel that they are inferior to others.

He will ask himself to do everything well, only in this way will he be worthy of everyone in the family, and he can be more demanding of himself. The easier it is to do things unsatisfactorily, the more likely the child will be disappointed in himself and feel sorry for his parents. Children are doing this every day.

Over time, serious psychological problems may arise, and what we do is to open to the child. The family is poor, but poverty is only temporary, and we must take a correct view of poverty. Poverty does not affect anything, it still sharpens people's will.

In a word, thanks to poverty! Let me grow strong.

Children who feel that their families are poor may have a certain social consciousness, and feel that in the process of comparing with each other, other people's children can have whatever they want, and they have nothing, so they will dislike the lack of money at home. If the child feels that the family conditions limit his or her development, parents should criticize the child harshly. Because the child is raised by his parents, and the parents work so hard to bring the child to school to study, the child should cherish such an educational opportunity, and should not dislike the poor family.

I don't think this is a good phenomenon, because it will make the child feel very inferior, which is not conducive to the child's future development.

As a parent, you don't have to deliberately emphasize the idea of "very poor" or "very rich". The most important thing is to let children grow up under the right gold values, and not to become a slave to money.

I believe that everyone has had such an experience in life, when we see different children, we will look through his external performance.

Including dressing, speech and behavior, etc., to infer what kind of person he is, even the family situation, you can guess a rough idea, which is actually a manifestation of different family environments, resulting in differences in all aspects of children.

Lack of vision and insight

Due to the limited family conditions, it is often difficult for children from poor families to travel and go to parties, and they have little contact with the outside world except for going to school at home throughout the year. If the child goes to less places, his vision will naturally not be opened, and the lack of knowledge will affect the overall pattern of the child, so that the height of thinking cannot be improved, and this will slowly manifest itself in the child's growth, and even affect his future development.

Natural inferiority complex

When the child looks at the children around him and has everything, he will have an inferiority complex, which is manifested externally, often with his head down and unable to look directly at others' eyes, often alone in the corner, speaking in a small voice, not good at communicating with others, etc. The child's inferiority complex will not only affect his integration into the group, but also hinder the improvement of his abilities in all aspects.

The clothes are shabby and there is no pocket money

This should be the most direct manifestation of family poverty, the family's economic situation is not good, the child's food and clothing will be affected, some children will wear a long time in a suit, especially when the weather is cold, a cotton jacket to wear a whole winter, and even some children's clothes will have traces of sewing and mending. As for pocket money, it is even rarer, and some parents don't even give their children a penny, for fear that their children will develop the habit of spending indiscriminately.

Minimum standards of material conditions must be met

Children grow up to a certain stage of need to enter the kindergarten, enrollment, into a circle full of peers, if they are because of the family poor and other people are hugely different, it will inevitably cause psychological burden to the child, will aggravate the inferiority complex, so parents should remember that the basic material conditions must be given, can be bad, but can not be without.

Create opportunities to broaden your horizons

Even if there is no money at home, parents can also take their children to travel and visit the library, and at the same time, they can help their children increase their knowledge and improve their ideological height.

Correct guidance and education are indispensable

Parents should understand that children will encounter many problems in their growth, and if they cannot develop on the right path, the future will inevitably be more bumpy. It is recommended that parents do not neglect the guidance and education in daily life, and help children establish correct concepts and a healthy attitude, which is more conducive to growth.

Therefore, the child's family poverty can be seen at a glance, there are many factors that decide, parents pay attention to education, correct education, even if the conditions are average, the child will have better development.

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3. The ignorant education of most parents leads to the fact that children are tied to the ideological baggage of poverty, and it is difficult for them to get rid of the shackles of the family in their future growth. In fact, for us, the education of some parents has a lifelong impact on children, because of this, the wrong values education of parents is not conducive to the development of children's self-esteem, and it is extremely devastating to children's self-esteem, and it will also make children feel inferior and introverted from an early age, and they are not good at expressing themselves will also cause the illusion in the definition, and most of the children who grow up in such an environment are fragile and dare not express themselves.

In fact, we have found that many parents tell their children that their families are poor, but this kind of education will hinder their children's lives, and even make children more inferior, and will also produce a sense of depression, which is not conducive to the development of children's life, and even has endless troubles for children

I think this kind of thinking is incorrect, and we should not always reveal such a phenomenon to children, and we should encourage children to learn more.

Personally, I think this kind of thinking is wrong, telling children that the conditions at home are not good, and children will have special inferiority complex after a long time.

Because parents want their children to save. But this kind of thinking is not right, because when children default to the fact that the family is poor, they are reluctant to spend money, and they will become very picky.

I think this kind of thinking is wrong, parents tell their children that their families are poor, nothing more than they want their children to study hard, not to live this kind of life of their parents in the future, and to change the status quo.

I think this kind of thinking is right, so that children can know that they can't spend money casually, every penny is not easy for parents to earn, and the conditions at home do not allow them to spend money like this.

Of course, this kind of thinking is wrong, because it will make children feel inferior and have no courage to pursue their own ideals.

I think this kind of thinking is wrong, it will lead to children's psychological inferiority, and they will always think that they are inferior to others when they get along with other children outside.

Telling the child that the poor child in the family may be frugal and will not spend lavishly, this kind of thinking must be correct, after all, it is based on the actual situation of the family.

Parents want their children to be frugal, and this kind of thinking is not correct. It will make children have low self-esteem.

Maybe you want your child to be independent as soon as possible and not rely on the family. This kind of thinking is wrong and may make the child feel particularly inferior.

I don't think so. In today's society where interests are paramount, if you tell your child that your family is poor, your child will have no confidence in his heart. Your family will bring you enough capital, why do many children of the rich go out and be generous, while many children of the poor always have difficulty opening their mouths?

I think parents with that kind of thinking must reflect on it.

Wrong. In this way, it can only make children feel inferior, and they should correctly cultivate their three views.

I don't think it's right, so children will feel very inferior, and they will take money very seriously.

In my personal opinion, such thinking is not right, regardless of the family situation? Parents should tell their children about the real situation at home so that they can truly understand their home environment.

Children raised in poverty have the following characteristics:

1.Be in charge early. When other children are carefree, those children who are raised by poverty can only support a family early and do housework at home.

2.Save money. Have you ever seen such a situation, others go shopping together on the weekend, and only he said that he didn't want to go, and excused himself on the grounds of the silver of his limbs, because he knew that going out to spend a lot of money, but when others were eating, he was eating cakes and drinking hot water.

3.Prudent. When buying clothes and daily necessities, I always want to have coupons, discounts or something, and in general, I use the least amount of money to buy things for a stocking banquet.

1. Low self-esteem.

Since I was a child, my family was relatively poor, or I was not really poor myself, but my parents wanted to educate them in poverty. I often say next to my child, "My family is relatively poor and I don't have much money, so I can save it", "I work so hard every day just to make money so that you can study hard" and so on, the child listens a lot and will indeed remember.

2. Short-sightedness and lack of broad-mindedness.

Because my family was poor when I was a child, I was usually used to saving, and I may be more reluctant to participate in various activities, or to travel, to see more customs, so I can only stay in my own small world. And there are some parents, Keji Bend can take their children to travel regularly, to various high-end places, children have seen a lot, and they will not be timid when encountering any situation.

3. Lack of security.

Feel. Due to the lack of money, the things that children want cannot be satisfied with their luck, whether it is the clothes they want, toys, or the way they usually travel, they will be affected. Over time, because the child is always in a state of loss, he will always be unable to get what he wants, and he will become insecure.

When you grow up like this, you will take money very seriously, and feel that only money can give you enough security.