What does it take for a person to be considered to have grown up, to be considered to have grown up

Life is constantly seeking knowledge and accumulating; Enjoy life to the fullest, feel life, keep learning and accumulating, learn tolerance and gratitude, and you will slowly grow.

There are nine habits that must be used to grow.

The first type: the habit of thinking and innovation: to be an intelligent master.

The second type: the habit of independence: to support the sky with strength.

The third type: the habit of cooperation and progress: learn to take advantage of the situation.

Fourth: the habit of optimism and self-confidence: go out on your own path.

Fifth: the habit of tolerance and tolerance: be a generous person.

Sixth: the habit of honesty and trustworthiness: the way to win hearts and minds.

Seventh: the habit of cherishing time: not wasting a minute or a second.

Type 8: The habit of diligence and frugality: the most effective way to succeed.

Type 9: The habit of applying what you have learned: build yourself with knowledge.

Self-reliant. You don't have to raise it at home.

Raise yourself yourself.

You can share your family's worries. The most important thing is that parents can be understood. Understand others. Less temper and more smiles.

Legally, 18 years old and nine belong to a person with full capacity for conduct, and when he is mature in thought, he is considered to have grown up, but I think that no matter how old a child is, he is still a child in front of his parents and elders.

Traditionally, of course, it is 30 years old, and legally 18 years old.

This cannot be measured by a uniform standard, nor can it be defined by a certain age. Be responsible for yourself and be responsible for others.

Learn to care, understand, be responsible, and respect, and that's when you grow up!

People have to experience to grow.

1. Think twice before you encounter something, no longer act impulsively, and feel that you have been smoothed out by life.

When I was young, I often started to do things more casually, and many times I didn't think about it, although this state would make me encounter difficulties in many times, but at that time I was full of vitality and was very frank, when I grew up, I experienced a lot of things, understood a lot of truths, and when I encountered things again, I would not act impulsively, but think twice before acting, and act more prudently.

At this time, I have been smoothed out by life and become more rounded.

2. When you learn to be patient, you will find that you have been smoothed out by life.

When we were young, we were full of energy, high spirits, and acted in a hurry. At that time, we could say what we wanted and do what we wanted, and we didn't care about anything.

But as we grow older, we gradually learn to be patient, and even if we are anxious in our hearts, we can be very calm on the surface. At this time, you will experience the feeling that you have been smoothed out by life.

3. You can talk and laugh with people you don't like, so that you can realize that your edges and corners have been smoothed out by life.

We tend to avoid people we don't like.

Sometimes, in order to accomplish something, I will choose to make compromises, to socialize with people I don't like, and even to talk and laugh with them.

At this moment, you will deeply realize that you have been smoothed out by life, and you are very different from your young self.

Although the years have smoothed out a lot of edges and corners, the child who lives in his heart still doesn't want to grow up. Can you always be like this, you can't ask for much, you can't have less, you can eat bean sprouts, you can eat crab claws, you can see ink and small fish, you can live forever in their world, and when you are most wronged and helpless, you can have someone to accompany and help!

In fact, everyone has no easy time, and there are endless bitter waters and unspeakable grievances, and we must all take care of them, not be depressed, not be aggrieved, and adjust our own moods. I can do most things by myself, I can take care of myself, I can grow alone, I can adjust my emotions, and I can also give kindness and warmth to the people around me.

As a child, I was always hungry for curiosity and exploration, and I loved to try new things. And once, I did something that I disappointed and regretted.

It was a sunny weekend afternoon, and I was around the neighborhood with my friends. We came to a meadow and saw a stone mountain not far away, which we thought was mysterious, so we decided to go on an adventure. We climbed step by step along a path until we reached the top of the mountain.

Standing on the top of the mountain, we enjoy the beautiful scenery, but we are not willing to just appreciate it, and want to challenge more difficult things. That's when I saw a huge trash can filled with all sorts of things, including old books, cardboard boxes, and plastic bottles. I suddenly had the idea to throw a weight down and see what happens.

Seeing that my surroundings were safe and unoccupied, I immediately took action.

I found a hammer, used it to take out one of the stones from the barrel, and held it deeply in my hand. I felt that the stone was heavy enough to withstand the force of my throw. I threw the scum as hard as I could, keeping my eyes on the path of the rock.

However, as the stone fell to the ground, I heard a loud bang, followed by a whining sound. It turned out that the stone actually hit a sedan and left a noticeable depression. My friend and I were terrified and immediately ran over to escape the mistake.

We hid in the grass next to us and watched the owner search for the ** of the stone. Eventually, he spotted us, questioned us loudly, and demanded compensation. We hurriedly took out the money and handed it to the car owner.

When I got home, I was disappointed and regretful. On the one hand, I regret my poor decision because I didn't take into account where the stone fell and the surrounding environment. On the other hand, I was also disappointed and remorseful because my actions caused unnecessary losses to the car owners, and I knew that I had done something wrong and made them angry and hurt.

This incident shocked and alerted me a lot, and it brought inspiration to my growth. I've learned that decisions in life need to be carefully considered, and decisions should not be taken lightly, because any mistake can lead to unfortunate consequences. At the same time, I also realized that I should be responsible for my own actions, whether it was for others or for myself.

If we do something wrong, be brave enough to admit our mistakes and try our best to make up for the loss.

Through this experience, I learned an important truth: growth is a long and winding road, and we need to keep learning, growing and improving through failures and setbacks. Looking back, I regret my decision, but I also learned how to avoid such mistakes and become more mature and stable.

I believe that in my future life and work, I will be more cautious and avoid unnecessary losses and injuries.

Student days. At that time, I was a member of the Health Council, an ordinary member of the student union, and an ordinary person with mediocre grades. She grew up with my help, from an ordinary girl to a chubby girl who grew into a secretary of the Youth League.

She fell in love with a man who worked his own and was the president of the student council, and his grades were high.

I love her deeply, make up for her loopholes, her pits, her mistakes, help her study and research, and finally become a dog licker.

The chair and I have a classroom and a dormitory. At first, he was a little fluttery, and he didn't bully me. He took a group of people with him day and night.

I was gradually isolated, and many men and women went to become his followers, with piquan, merit awards, and scholarships. Or really love him.

At that time, every time I talked about it, I found that it was someone who liked him.

I didn't have any friends.

All ridiculed, ridiculed, ridiculed, and stabbed.

— After graduation. I came to Guangzhou alone. I have worked on a construction site, worked as a cashier, got a driver's license, was a cleaner, repaired a computer, and was deceived by a training institution to package the money I had saved, and then started all over again after failing and losing money.

Gradually became a general worker, a team leader, a supervisor, and a department manager. Now it is appreciated by the president.

I met one person after another who understood me, as well as my wife.

I also cultivated one capable person after another and made some close friends.

I happened to see the circle of friends, and that group. She still longs for a great man, and she wants her prince to be the survivor of the big city. However, many of her girlfriends said she dreamed. She is still alone on the side of the street, selling her cell phone to people.

The president of the student council has been selling insurance until now. She also gave a lot for him, until she was dumped.

He has been living an alcoholic life because of the big gap in graduation.

She complained that there was no suitable man in a small city, and there was no man with lofty ideals, and she was willing to accompany a man who could fight together.

However, I have been silent. None of those people knew I was like this. She was still a little chubby and was dumped three times. I was very distressed, and I wanted to talk to her, which was the end of my efforts at school.

I think now she sees me, even though she knows I do. She will also look down on me, how she wants to shake her hand and pass on the warmth to me in the past, when I was a student. Erase the tears I swallowed at that time.

I've got friends, I've had loyal subordinates, I've got people who love me. I am also silently developing and hoarding until the moment when I step into the great ideal.

Growth in life is grown in ridicule, ridicule, humiliation, and dark knives. That's it.

Some people who grow slowly are timid, not good at contact with people, and close themselves off for a long time, so that growth may be lonely for them, and it is difficult for such friends to win the appreciation of others after they enter the society. So if you want to grow, let go of your loneliness and try to be friends with others. Over time, you will see the growth that your friends bring to you!

Another part of the reason why children who can't grow up quickly is the pampering of their families since childhood. Parents used them to be willful and arrogant. Can't stand a little blow and failure.

For this kind of little friend, I think it will take a long time for you to grow. First of all, you must understand that no one except your parents will accept your willfulness and bad temper unconditionally, and secondly, you must always empathize and learn to think from the perspective of others, so that you can grow up quickly.

Growing up is to learn to enjoy loneliness, when you are alone you can also feel happy, don't think that being with a group of friends all day long can show how mature you are, in fact, real growth is to learn to choose friends, know what is suitable to be your friend, friends and lovers are actually the same.

Growing up means that we have to have the courage to take responsibility, parents, lovers, children, these are all your responsibility. Being responsible for them will see if you have grown or not. People never live for themselves, we are for these people, and if you often grieve the people who love you the most, then the first step in your growth is to learn to be responsible.

Growing up is that we have to understand that no matter whether you are a man or a woman, you can only be spiritually independent if you are financially independent, and don't expect others to support you at any time, that will pay a price. Go out and work, and slowly transform yourself into a mature person in your professional life. It's not scary to be stupid, it's scary not to learn, not to grow!

Growing up involves two levels:1. Body.

Maturation of the source body. 2. Psychological maturity. I won't say much about the maturity of the body here.

And a person's psychological maturity mainly depends on your knowledge. Your own psychological maturity is very important, so you need to hone it. Read more books, participate in more social communication activities, and know everything.

First, two, you don't have to be very proficient, just like someone said "three-legged cat", others will think that you have a wide range of knowledge, and will not think you are naïve. Also, when you speak, you must think clearly before speaking, don't always say something with loopholes, and it is more important to listen patiently than to try to express.

It makes you deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. When you find that the world is not as simple as you imagined, then you may feel a kind of confusion or loneliness in your heart, then you will look at the world very objectively, and from then on you have your own thoughts, understandings, and emotions about life... You have learned to think ...

I think it's going to be called growing up.

In short, my understanding is that they can think independently, solve problems independently, and take responsibility for everything they do.

Say it to yourself.

And done. will have a prejudgment of everything that happens to others, will care about others, understand others, and know how to love anyone.

Have a nice day!

When I can withstand the best, I can also accept the worst.

Well, how to say it? So bai with du

You say, if one day, you no longer want to rely on your own DAO parents, you no longer crave the love of your parents, you start to want to leave your parents, you want to live alone, you no longer want anyone to rely on and hope to be relied on by others, then congratulations, you have finally grown up.

How is bai

What about growing up? A person is able to take care of himself and support himself. It can even help the family.

No, it can help the Rong family spiritually and materially. Something can be solved independently. Be responsible for what you encounter.

There is a workaround. Able to resist pressure when encountering difficulties, and have the ability to strike. This shows that you have grown up.