My boyfriend who has no money makes me lose my mind, I have no money, is it okay to ask my boyfriend

Updated on society 2024-07-07
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If ......If there is another person who is rich, good to you, sincere to you, and you yourself feel very happy to be with him, let go and pursue happiness! Actually, ......It doesn't hurt you to know more friends than you normally, just know people with your eyes and don't be deceived. I wish you happiness ......:

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Ay. In fact, it is a painful thing for men to have no money. I'm just a man with no money, it's been three or four years since I graduated, but I just think your friend's approach is unacceptable, isn't it just to manage the money, the two of them go to work together every day, and they can work without spending any money, and if they don't have money, they should work harder, otherwise what should I do, you didn't give up on him in this situation, is he afraid of handing over the money to you.

    If you love him, you can get through it

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As long as he is good to you, it's okay, he is a little reluctant, the reason is, you also said that his family's economy is not good, he can still understand some money for the family, he gives you two thousand a month, which means that he is still acceptable, you also understand a little him, he should not be easy, as long as he is good to you, the current situation is only temporary, although the current girls are very realistic, want to marry a rich person, but being rich is not necessarily happy, feelings are also on the one hand, the key is that you can't let go of your current boyfriend, Your boyfriend is not very bad, he gives the family some money and gives you some money, which means that he should be a good man who knows the Gu family and knows that he loves you, this is all analysis. It depends on how you feel. I wish you happiness ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Tell him what you think, tell him what you think, what you need is communication, very serious communication.

    I'm a man, say what I think, which do you think is more important, love or bread? What is love Love a person and eat pickles and steamed buns with him and drink white water I love him and I am willing to suffer for him I have the ability and I support him.

    I don't want him a penny, but there is a premise that this man must be self-motivated, really love you, have a bowl of porridge, and he drinks water when you eat it.

    But, I think you must be beautiful and have a good family, you have more choices, so you want more, your boyfriend can't satisfy your vanity, you don't want him to give it, right, if money is what you want, why torture the other person, if love is what you want, why do you have to be difficult for the other person, do you love him? Do you love money? What do you want?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People will change, if it's not good, she's not satisfied with you, maybe he's always been poor, just be happy together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, you have to distinguish between what is a boyfriend and a husband, your boyfriend can be one of the passers-by in your life, and your husband will be the lover who will live with you for a lifetime, breaking up is far less complicated than divorce, breaking up is just a matter of two people, divorce is widely implicated, and the current question is, whether you and this boyfriend decide to live a lifetime, if the vision is not so far, then fall in love first, and no one knows what will happen in the future. Therefore, it doesn't matter if you have no money to find a boyfriend, think twice about finding a husband.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    For the future, let's think about it, such a man, such a family is worth entrusting for a lifetime, he seems that if a relationship only brings distress, then there is nothing worth remembering If the man works hard.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Earn together, life is like a game, and the process is happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Either find a way to make him earn it, or leave him, but then people will say that you only know the money.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, I want to encourage him to find a job that suits him and make him work harder to earn money. Of course, on the one hand, I also want to support his work when he makes money, and on the other hand, I also go to work myself, so as not to let him get tired!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you can work together、、、

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Either change it or earn it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People close to them often don't want things, but hearts. I think it's good to write a letter, cook a meal for him, and give him a photo album that records your walks. The most important thing is that you live with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Give him a wallet, or you can make a snack for him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Make your own one, or get a watch.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Make a bento box for him, save your expenses, and feel that you are caring.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can do it yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Offering yourself to Him is the best gift you can give.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It doesn't matter what you send, as long as the intention arrives, it is enough.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as you love him, he won't mind if you don't give him anything, or kiss her to say you love him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello! In fact, I think you have been maintaining that mode of spending money before, and now it is indeed a bit difficult to change it suddenly, but I think men have a good face, you must take care of his face, don't let him feel that you are unhappy to spend your money, and try to secretly give money to your boyfriend, so that he can maintain the state of his money, which will make him love you more! Come on!

    Two people are together, they always have to go through ups and downs, this bit of turmoil is nothing, two people have money to spend a little more together, spend less if they don't have money, and the most important thing is to be happy together! Come on! I wish you all happiness!

    As for I think you said that you should let your boyfriend pay you back, it's best not to say this during the sensitive period when he has no money, a man is stingy when he is stingy!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He said that his company could not pay him his salary for the time being, and said that there was something at home, which is actually explaining his situation to you, and the most likely purpose is that he wants you to reduce his expenses or be able to help him, in view of this, you can explain your situation to him first, it is best to go shopping as little as possible, and give him appropriate (must be appropriate) help, which is to show him that you understand what he says, and have made a reasonable response, and when his condition improves in the future, he will compensate you, unless he no longer loves you. If he wants to use your money without embarrassment, you have to make him understand that the most important thing in marriage is to help each other, so that he will help you when you are in trouble. It doesn't matter if you say it 2 or not, you can say it in a joking way, but only if he understands that he needs to help each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When two people are together, it's about helping each other. If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't look at you without money and be indifferent. Don't be too anxious, express your living situation to him tactfully, and remind him.

    It's best not to ask for it directly, it will affect the relationship between two people, the most feared thing about feelings is cranky, and it will be easy to think about nothing too much!

    I wish you all happiness!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You shouldn't be like this, so that he feels that you are unreliable, and two people together don't have to spend money from men, you just make him very sad and feel worse, and when he really has no money, he will think that you may not love him, women, desire will make your love die soon.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why do you want men's money, earn it yourself, reduce the pressure on men, and learn to be independent.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think you should help him at this time, and you can also tell him that we don't have much money and should save some money. However, I think the most important thing for women is that they should be independent, at least in terms of money, and they should not be involved too much with each other before they get married.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think there's a problem, you didn't ask for his money before, and you won't think you're greedy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Money is to blame, I advocate the pre-marital AA system, since you choose to be together, there should be no estrangement, no estrangement, no embarrassment! Actually, you don't have to, if you really need money, you ask him to borrow it, maybe even if he doesn't have it, he will help you find it, but sometimes you have to understand him, don't hurt your feelings because of money.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are not sure whether you get married or not, it is best not to have too much money to deal with, so that no one will owe anyone in the future, and it will be nothing to be together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's acceptable a little, but not too much. But I still feel like it's better not to.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, go get it! Don't be shy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's nothing, but it depends on what kind of person your boyfriend is and how he understands your behavior.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This kind of thing is only counted by you, and it is useless for others to say more, but it is not a bad thing to have an extra eye before you get married.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What if they don't give it to you? What do you do? Even if he gives it to you, don't you spend his money? Are you steady? It's better to rely on yourself than on anyone! If you have it, you really have it!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's too complicated, do you still need to change 1700 yuan, it's too stingy, people want to be atmospheric.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I understand what you mean, but gently advise you, women should have their own economy**, men give you money when they love you, but if they love others, they will also give money to others

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You won't stop shopping, and don't take money next time you go shopping. Whether you want it or not depends on how you both develop and what kind of character it is. Do you have no income? You can borrow some first!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It depends on the reason for asking for money! For profit, give value.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Can I understand that you are going to put out usurious debt with your boyfriend?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's okay for two people to communicate well.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The article is full of "money", I am dizzy when I read it, why do I understand what you want to ask?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You should communicate directly with him and say what you think. If you are dating now and he blindly uses your money, I even doubt how much he has feelings for you. If you're working, you're raising a little white face.

    Since he has the self-esteem of a boy, he should understand.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you're already tired, break up. We're looking for someone to hurt. He treats love as being loved.

    You slowly contact him less, people are conscious, he thinks you are wrong when he will find you a showdown or quit directly, the key is that you have to settle your mind, this is the most difficult.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I used to love to gamble, but now I don't? Then how can there be no money and let you out of everything? Haven't you paid your bills yet???

    This man makes people feel very insecure, you can talk to him and see how much money is still unpaid? What is he going to do after he pays it back? You're only a high school student, and there are a few things to think about.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    People always have to grow, you now tolerate him and think it's worth it, when you think it's not worth it, you will let go, or take measures, you don't hurt him now, it's also because you're afraid of hurting him, you can't afford it, if you can.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Good gambling, and can't help the man resolutely can't want, the heart is not mature enough, most of such a man has no sense of responsibility, if he has you in his heart, he will not block after all, he is a student, at that time like a person, you can be reckless, if you really love you, he will quit gambling for you, then the opposite.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    He shouldn't have fully realized his own problem, so you better think about it! I'm still so young that I don't know how realistic the current society is. If you just want to fall in love, it's fine, if you want to go a little further, think clearly.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    This is not a good thing, he likes to bet that you should persuade him, if he is still the same, I personally think you should break up, so you are also responsible for yourself, there is no regret medicine in the world, think twice.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you love him, be with him, and if you don't love him, you share it with him.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you love him, you accept everything about him, and he used to like to gamble, but now he doesn't. You should be happy. Tell him to find a good career to pay off the debt, and start everything from scratch

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    The man who likes to gamble is not good, unreliable, and owes a lot of debts, can you help him pay him?! Even if you like it again, let's divide it!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Early love, don't study hard, fall in love! Also ask what to do, such a question can only be asked to your father and mother.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Such a person, one, may be because his salary is not high, out of a man's self-esteem, he is unwilling to tell you the truth. But it also shows that he is not sincere with you.

    Second, there is nothing for a man to sign like a woman, but if he still takes it for granted, it means that this person does not even have the most basic human dignity.

    In short, this person fits into the category of selfishness and narrowness, you have to think carefully.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I think it's funny, it's a natural thing for a man to raise a wife, and now it's up to you to raise him!

    Besides, the family's expenses depend on the place where you work, if you don't count the rent, in the general city, more than 1,000 yuan can be used by 2 people for a month!

    In the end, I guess he probably doesn't love you much, or he's been too miserable lately, and you haven't seen his money, either he doesn't know how to manage money, or he doesn't take you to heart at all!

    Conclusion, divide it, unless you don't marry him!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Whatever it means.

    Such a man is unreliable.

    At least he doesn't have the will to grow old with you.

    I don't have the sincerity to be honest with you.

    So, whatever he means.

    It's better to break up as soon as possible.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Such a man is selfish, and associating with you may just solve life problems. Think about it yourself, and if you feel that you can't stand it, it's better to break up.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Lose it, I'm reluctant to eat and I'll save money to buy her gifts! I'm also a man, I've seen a lot of men like this, and I know what they think....If one of you had to die one day, he would push you off a cliff, really...

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    It's not a man, it's obvious that he just wants to rub you.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    No money is not terrible, but what can be filmed is that you don't have enough heart to overcome difficulties As long as you are not afraid of hardship and tiredness, and the money for hard work depends on the hard work of people, we will definitely have money.

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