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Parents should not spoil their children excessively, correct their children's inappropriate behaviors in time, and always educate their children to grow up on the right path in the process of their children's growth.

We must educate our children to abide by the rules and regulations from an early age, and not to follow their own temperament, otherwise it will frustrate the child's growth path.

First, the child should not be indulged, and the child should point out the mistake in time; Second, let children learn to be tolerant, only in this way can they get along with others; Third, you can't follow the child's temperament, and you still have to discipline when it's time to discipline.

We should think about some problems from the child's standpoint, and we should also tell the child some correct things, so that the child can get a good education.

To be able to have a strict person to discipline the bear child, correct his bad habits and vices, and make the child become obedient, this is education.

I think we must create a very good environment, and at the same time, we should actively guide the children, communicate with the children more, be especially strict with the children, never spoil the children, should set an example, set a good example for the children, and standardize the children's words and deeds.

Why do "parents" educate their children to be bear children?

After having children, parents want to give their children the best things in the world, so many parents provide the best living conditions for their children when they are very young. When the child grows up a little more and has his own ideas and needs, many parents will have no bottom line to meet all the requirements of their children. Such a child is domineering, narrow-minded, and selfish, this is the standard "bear child paper" in other people's mouths!

Parents and children's teachers do not fully realize the important role of the combination of family education and school education, do not make good use of the important opportunity of the parent-teacher meeting to do a good job in children's education, only pay attention to the grades, do not pay attention to the formation of children's behavior and habits education, when the child's academic performance is not good, teachers and parents, especially parents, do not start from the feelings, understand the child's ideological state, but simply rough and violent or even vicious words, punches and kicks. The child's rebellious psychology leads to self-isolation, going his own way, and even deliberately doing something to vent his inner dissatisfaction. Each child is a unique individual with a unique psychological world of fresh life, a thousand keys open a thousand locks, treat children patiently, and do not treat them the same.

It can be said that everyone is not a saint, and everyone has a time when they do something wrong, and You Shimo is a matter of educating children, and there is no textbook-like teaching material in itself. As parents, we don't have the opportunity to intern, but we have to do a good job again, children's education is no trivial matter, how parents educate their children, how children will grow, so as parents to always reflect and often learn, in order to avoid detours.

When a child makes trouble, destroys or endangers other children or public places, other children's parents, teachers or public place managers criticize or punish, parents blindly protect their shortcomings, seemingly love and protection, but in fact, they are doting and indulgent.

Some parents believe in happy education, believing that when their children are young, they must not have too many restrictions on their children, so as to release their children's nature and let them grow freely in a relaxed and happy environment. But these parents give their children freedom at the same time, they forget to set rules for their children!

It is necessary to know that people live in this society, there is no absolute freedom at all, all freedom is based on certain rules, and freedom without the rules of old peace and fighting is indulgence.

I think that behind this, we should think about whether there is a problem with the education method of parents Yu Ru, and think about the correct parenting, and parents should have the correct educational concepts and educational concepts.

Parents should first reflect on their own behavior. Parents are their children's first teachers. Your words and deeds have a great impact on your child.

In order to educate children well, we must first learn scientific parenting methods, and at the same time, we must also set an example and let children get in touch with positive energy.

Individual parents may have been pampering their children, and they always want to spoil their children, so they will educate Yu Songxiong's children. The correct way of education is to let children master some basic things, and it will also let children have a better three views of the world.

We must choose different education methods according to the child's personality, and when educating the child, parents must set an example for the child, and must set a particularly good example for the child.

Think about the quality of the parents themselves and the mode of education. You should learn more about parenting, improve your own education philosophy, improve your own education methods, and choose an education that is suitable for children according to their characteristics and personalities.

Children may be due to their own ideas, adults do not understand, adults have been disciplined and taught so that children have a business psychology, so it will lead to rebellion; When we educate our children, we should set a good example first, communicate with our children as a friend, understand the problems and difficulties faced by our children, and patiently help them solve them.

It is because of the education of parents, excessive spoiling of children, not paying attention to children's cultivation, in life must be correct guidance children, so that children know right and wrong.

First of all, it is because parents are overly spoiled and very satisfied with any requirements of their children. Therefore, children are relatively willful. It is still necessary to go to strict discipline.

Preface: In daily life, we can often see some bear children. These bear children are rude, selfish and domineering.

When interacting with people, he is very arrogant and unreasonable. For us, we don't like to socialize with bear children, but behind every bear child, there is a bear parent. Let's share with you how bear children are educated.

For every parent, they must love their children very much. But we have to pay attention to the amount, if it is too much, it will become a bear child. The status of many bear children in the family is very high.

When the child is eating, the grandparents chase after the feeding, and even the parents will not criticize the child when the child makes a mistake, so that the child will be given too much love. Children are not able to know their mistakes, and in the long run, children will become very selfish. They don't share with others and aren't particularly welcome when socializing with peers in kindergarten.

When we educate our children, we must master the correct education methods, so that the children can become excellent people. When we see the bear child, we always want to shake our head, knowing that the parent's education method has gone wrong. If you indulge your child, you will make your child feel that he is doing the right thing.

After many bear children make mistakes, parents not only do not educate, but will say to others: the child is still young and does not understand anything. So it is recommended that parents change their wrong ideas, when we educate our children, do not be soft-hearted, and must educate when it is time to educate.

Some parents think that hitting their children is the best way to educate them, but this simple and crude way of education is not good for educating their children at all. Some parents are very fond of comparing their children with other people's children, which is very easy to arouse their children's rebellious psychology and make their children unusually irritable. There are many parents who are very short-tempered, and when they educate their children, they want to yell and yell, so that the children who come out of the family environment will also be very short-tempered.

These parents are doting on education, so they will educate their children as a bear child, I think such parents are very irresponsible, such children will grow into a headache in the future.

Parents will be very accustomed to their children, parents will be satisfied with what their children want, and parents think that there is no mistake in what their children do, so that their children have bad ideas.

Usually ignore it, after the child has a problem, he does not educate the child in time, sets a bad example for the child, and does not pay attention to family education.

Parents themselves have low quality of behavior and are too doting on their children.

Today I will give you a wonderful phenomenon! Have you ever met cute and mischievous bear children and their parents? Don't be afraid, teach you how to deal with it so that you can be at ease, become a kind-hearted beast tamer, and let them be obedient!

1.Admission must-have].

Peace of mind is urgently needed! Whether it is a bear child or a bear parent, treat them well and be calm in order to win the war.

2.Gentle communication].

Brush your face with the flowers of words, let them hear your voice and feel your kindness. Be tactful and firm, express your wishes and make them understand your expectations.

3.Magical Magic].

Uncover your box, take out a handful of magic candy and transform it into joyful energy. What bear children like most is to play, and bear parents care most about their children's happiness. Create fun games that let them actively cooperate and stop being trick-or-treating.

4.Guiding the way].

Don't let them get lost in the noisy jungle. You are the guiding light! Use simple and easy-to-understand language and patiently guide them to the right path. Spark their curiosity and turn learning into an amazing adventure.

5.Feel the resonance of laughter].

For bear children and bear parents, understanding is the best glue. Find resonance at different age levels, share your story of growing up, and make them feel cared for and understood.

6.Persistence and encouragement].

The mission of the Kind-Hearted Beast Tamer is not achieved overnight! Every step of progress is commendable, and every step of persistence should be affirmed. Encourage them, let them feel the joy of progress, and strengthen their path to the sun.

7.Summary and outlook].

When you teach a bear child, you sow a seed for the whole society. Your efforts don't just affect them