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The road of life must be walked by oneself, and the opportunities of life must be grasped by oneself. Only by choosing a correct road, a suitable road, can our road go wider and wider, go farther and farther, and go more and more brilliant.

Life Goals: Aim low. Life is to move forward in constantly exceeding the goals set by yourself, and if the goals are set too high, if you can't reach them, you will lose the motivation to move forward.

Instead of this, it is better to lower the goal of life, so that there is less pressure, more confidence, with this positive attitude to work hard, you can experience the joy of success in the process of constantly surpassing the goal, and the road of life will be wider and wider.

There are two ways to walk: one is to follow the person in front of you, trust him, and believe that he knows the way; One is to go your own way, believing that you have the ability to know the way. The results of this walk can also be summarized into two kinds, one is to follow the footsteps of the people in front of you, you may take a lot of detours, whether you can achieve the results you hope depends on the time, place, and people, whether other people's roads are suitable for you to walk is another matter; Another person who goes his own way will definitely put in more effort than others, maybe he will meet his expectations by overcoming obstacles, and maybe he will not necessarily have any good results.

Isn't that a way to go your own way? Of course not.

There will always be a road in life, and you have to rely on yourself to get out. Maybe someone can carry the weight for themselves for a while, but they won't carry the weight for you for the rest of their lives. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke described that only by oneself can there be great power.

The road of life depends on yourself step by step, and what can really protect you is your own choice. And what can really hurt you is the same, your own choice. Writer Yang Daxia expressed that he is the master of the action.

In the journey of life, one of the most important things in life is to work and do business, and some work and career things do need the help of others, but if you want to take the help of others as a kind of dependence or sustenance, it will make you develop a kind of lazy, unthinking and willing to be a parasite. Only when they think independently and do things independently, can people's talents and wisdom be fully mobilized and give full play to their greatest energy. Ultimately make your own career.

In the journey of life, one of the most important things in life is to work and do business, and some work and career things do need the help of others, but if you want to take the help of others as a kind of dependence or sustenance, it will make you develop a kind of laziness, do not know how to think and be willing to be a parasite, and in the end you can't afford to let go of everything and achieve nothing.

The habit of relying on others is the result of a variety of factors, and it is also formed over time. Sometimes this habit is very disturbing, but sometimes it is difficult to spot!

Of course, only when you think independently and do things independently, can people's talents and wisdom be fully mobilized and give full play to their energy. Ultimately make your own career.

Concept inheritance: pass on positive energy, send health, meet destined people, on the way!

If you don't remember these truths, then I believe that you will never succeed, and you will only be able to succeed if you do something in a down-to-earth manner.

You can never succeed without persistence.

If you don't insist on never succeeding, only when you focus on doing something you like seriously, you can be successful, of course, only when you do what you like, you can persevere, so choosing what kind of work is very critical to us, we must start one thing to keep doing, only in this way can you greatly improve your chances of success, if you are always half-hearted, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, dry this is not good, dry that is not good, dry that is not good, Then you are doomed to nothing.

Help others in moderation.

If you often help him, then it is likely that others will become dependent on you, and when you ignore others, others will turn their heads and say bad things about you, so help others must also have a degree, and also have a sense of proportion.

Only when you encounter difficulties do you know who your friends are.

We will always remember this sentence, maybe when you are rich, you have a lot of friends around you, and there will be many people who often come to visit you and give you gifts during the New Year's holidays, but when you really have no power and no power, how many people remember you, at this time we can see who is our true friend, who is not because of interests and make friends with you, we must grasp these people who care about us can really treat us as true friends.

Die bend lead knows what it wants.

A person must understand what he wants, only in this way can he be able to work hard towards this ideal, if a person is always confused, do nothing every day, do not know what he wants, come to the company and always have nothing to do, then this person is destined to achieve nothing, so we must first know to establish a goal for ourselves, to create an ideal for ourselves, so that we can have more enthusiasm to work to struggle.

Speak in a measured manner and know what to say.

Speaking must be measured and good, a person's speaking level, you can see the person's personality in all aspects of a person's speaking level, can make people more willing to communicate with him, and a person is always unable to distinguish the occasion of nonsense, then this person is destined to suffer from the disgust and exclusion of others, so we must develop where to say, what kind of words to say, that is, to see people and talk nonsense, never talk nonsense.

Reading "The Biography of Guan Yan", Li Piming once again revisited the story of Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya, and had a lot of new feelings.

What kind of friend is a real friend? Uncle Bao's attitude towards Guan Zhong is a good example. When he was a young friend, Uncle Bao was often taken advantage of by Guan Zhong, but Uncle Bao always treated him kindly and did not complain because of such trivial matters.

This tolerance is enough to make people feel emotional. When we are with friends, we often get hung up on trivial things and end up losing years of friendship. Worrying about it will only accumulate resentment, and it will not benefit friendship, nor will it benefit one's physical and mental health.

Later, Bao Shuya went to assist Qi Gongzi Xiaobai, and Guan Zhong went to assist Qi Gongzi to correct, and the opposition of political choices did not affect Bao Shuya's friendship with Guan Zhong, because he recommended it to Qi Huangong, so he had Guan Zhong's brilliant political career and achieved Qi Huangong's hegemony. Many people admire Uncle Bao's knowledge and good use, and I admire Uncle Bao's broad-mindedness even more. After Uncle Bao recommended Guan Zhong, he was willing to be under Guan Zhong.

I don't know which of Bao Shuya's talent is higher or lower than Guan Zhong's, but from Bao Shuya's wise choice of Gongzi Bai and his recognition of Guan Zhong's talent, I think Bao Shuya is also above everyone. In reality, many people will have such an experience, and friends, colleagues, will can't help but compare with each other, secretly competitive, this contrast may develop into jealousy, jealousy, people often say: "peers are enemies".

In a workplace with a bad environment, there will not even be seniors who really teach their experience to their juniors, but instead wear small shoes to each other. Uncle Bao can sincerely recommend Guan Zhong, and is willing to live under him, and his moral character is really "high mountain admiration".

In reality, some people always set up a lot of "imaginary enemies", and they can't see the good of others, as if this "imaginary enemy" is gone, and they can stand out from the crowd. The horizon is really very narrow, as if the world is only him and his "imaginary enemy". In fact, as we get older, we will gradually meet more and more people who are much better than us, and perhaps we will be depressed and have low self-esteem.

But facing up to one's own shortcomings and correcting them is the royal way to growth, instead of spending time on wearing small shoes for others, it is better to strive to enrich oneself, see the advantages of others, and truly recognize and learn.

Whether it is stronger than yourself or weaker than your peers, sincerely help them, and perhaps, one day you will get the same reward. Just like Uncle Bao treated Guan Zhong like this, Guan Zhong also knows how to be grateful, Guan Zhong said, "The parents who gave birth to me, and Bao Zi, who knows me." Although Uncle Bao is under him, his descendants are in Qi, and there are more than ten generations of people who have enjoyed the fiefdom, most of whom are doctors with high reputation, and people all over the world also praise Uncle Bao's talent.

I think this has something to do with the strength of the Qi State and the protection of Guan Zhong.

Give others a chance, and your own path will get wider and wider!