It is very important to learn to praise your baby, how to praise it?

Our parents praise their children because they love them. So how do our parents compliment their children?No matter how much progress your child makes, praise them for whatever they do.

This is not the right way to praise. We are hurting our children. Let's see how to praise a child.

First, I want to talk about the downsides of inappropriate praise. One mom said she found her child scared of new things, such as new lessons, new games, new friends, and more. Even when she heard the teacher say that she was going to play a new game tomorrow, she didn't dare to go to school and cried at home.

Some children are in a dilemma when it comes to making choices. Being a mother is very sad and regretful. Studies have shown that children who are praised from an early age have a strong sense of competition and want to be better than others in everything, so much so that they dare not do it again once they fail.

Because I am afraid that others will say that I am stupid and can't do anything, I dare not accept new challenges. And those children who have been praised "not for others" since childhood, dare to challenge themselves, have strong endurance, and are less influenced by others, so they must make really useful praise. What is a false compliment?

Vague just saying something complimentary, like "awesome," "awesome," etc. Not explaining why your child is praised is not conducive to your child's good behavior.

Stressful praise, such as getting a perfect score on a test, speaking freely, and keeping it up, can lead to a child's misunderstanding that the purpose of learning is to rank and score, and it also increases the pressure on oneself. Praise for qualifications, such as "You're so smart", for a long time, when faced with failure, children will think that they are not smart enough, their minds are not flexible enough, and they are afraid to accept new challenges and new things. What is the right compliment?

Specific praise, such as the child independently organizes his schoolbag and completes homework, you praise him for being independent, he will imitate this behavior, gradually learn to do his own thing, and enhance his sense of independence. Praise for behaviors, such as helping other children or working well with peers in group activities.

When he is praised, he will pay attention to his behavior in future activities, subconsciously thinking that "friendship first, competition second", so that even if he fails, he will not be too sad, but focus on the process. Praise controllable things, such as diligence, diligence in children, love of sports. Praising them at this time will help them work harder and keep going.

Do not praise them with wisdom. There is a saying that "diligence can make up for clumsiness". Every child wants to be praised by their parents, but our parents must pay attention to the way they are praised.

After all, we can't just praise children!

Hello dear, praise can praise details, don't vaguely praise, such as awesome and good. For example, if your baby draws well, you can praise your baby for coloring so carefully that he doesn't paint at all. Praise the details, and the baby will know that he has done a good job.

Parents should praise their children more, in fact, they should say that their children are really great, and they can lead their children to buy some things or toys that children like, which is a very good way.

When your baby does the right thing, you can say to him, "Wow, you're awesome and smart," so that your baby will feel great and will do better in the future.

Be sure to praise specific things, never praise generally, and after the praise, you must make the baby work harder.

It is to smile when the baby is doing well, to be excited, and to use more praise words.

With the continuous development of social economy and the continuous progress of science and technology, our living standards have been improved to a certain extent, and people's education level has improved, and to a certain extent, people pay more and more attention to the education of their children. So in the process of educating children, we have a lot of problems, and many times, we don't know how to do it. So for praise, it is very important for children, so how do we praise it?

First of all, for the baby, we must praise more than criticize, and we must encourage them more, but the encouragement also needs to pay attention, it must be when they do the right thing, praise and encouragement. And if you make a mistake, you also need to criticize, encouragement can be verbal encouragement, can also be material praise, so it is okay.

However, for different children, we distinguish them according to their personalities and lifestyle habits. For some children who are more cheerful and easy to satisfy, the number of times we encourage them is relatively small, because these children are relatively easy to be confident, so if they are overconfident, they will form complacency, then this situation is also not good, so appropriate criticism is needed. In addition, for some children who are silent and don't like to speak, then we need to give verbal praise, so that they can gain a certain degree of self-confidence, so this is very important.

In addition, for the cultivation of children, different families have their own different methods, for different children, then their training methods are different. But it is undeniable that the cultivation of children must be coordinated and worked hard by both parents, so this is very helpful for the health of children.

The first point is that it is very important to pay attention to your attitude when praising your child, the second point is that you should also pay attention to your own language when praising your child, and the third point is that you should pay attention to the way and method when praising your child, and do not praise indiscriminately.

If you want to learn to praise your baby, then you should not praise excessively, just a little praise.

Everybody's parents praise their children because they love them. So how do our parents praise their children? No matter how big your child's development is, no matter what they do, they need to be praised.

None of this kind of praise is right. Everybody has harmed people's children. Let's look at how to praise a child.

First of all, I think let's talk about the disadvantages of inappropriate praise. One mother said she found her child worried about new things, such as new textbooks and new friends. Even when she heard the teacher say that she wanted to play a new game tomorrow, she was afraid to go to school and cried at home.

There are some children who are torn between making a choice. Being a mother is very sad and sad. Studies have shown that children who have been praised since childhood have a strong sense of market competition and want to be better than others in everything, so that once they are not successful, they can no longer do it.

Because I am afraid that others will say that I am stupid, I can't do anything well, and I am afraid to accept new challenges. And these children, who have been praised by "no others" since childhood, have the courage to challenge themselves, have strong endurance, and are less harmed by others, so they must make real and valuable praise. What is false praise?

Ambiguity is just to say compliments such as "great", "great", etc. Needless to say, the reason why the child is praised is not conducive to the child's good performance.

Pressure praise, such as scoring 100 points in the exam, speaking freely and maintaining, is likely to cause children to misunderstand that the effect of learning and training is due to rankings and grades, and it also increases their own work pressure when guessing. Praise for work experience, such as "You're so smart", has always been a mistake that children think they are not very smart, their brains are not flexible, and they are afraid to accept new tests and new things. What is the right compliment?

Practical praise, for example, if your child organizes his schoolbag and works independently, you praise him for his independence, and he will follow this kind of personal behavior, slowly learn to do his own thing, and improve his sense of independence. Praise for personal behavior, such as helping other children or working well with friends in group work.

When he is praised, he will pay attention to his personal behavior in the following sports, and involuntarily feel that "friendship first, market competition second", so that even if he fails, he will not be too sad, but pay attention to the whole process. Praise controllable items such as effort, effort from a child, love of fitness exercises. Praising them at this time will help them to be more diligent and forge ahead.

You can't praise them with your wisdom. There is a saying that "practice makes perfect". Every child wants praise from their parents, but we parents in Shenshou Prefecture must pay attention to the method of praise.

After all, we can't just praise children!

When the baby does something well, parents must praise it in time, and choose the right vocabulary to motivate the child, meet the child's inner sense of achievement, and can also praise the child in a timely manner when encountering many things in the process of education.

When letting children do good things, Bi Zhixun must encourage children, and at the same time, we should also encourage children in the process of children's growth, so that children can regret becoming more self-confident, and at the same time, they will also make children become more excellent.

It is very important to change the silver, when the child has a certain growth or has done some better things, the child should be encouraged and praised, so that the child can become more confident and more excellent.

You can encourage your child positively, and you can give your child some rewards, so that you can make your child stronger and happier yourself.

Parents' praise for their children is very important, and children who are wrapped in love and encouragement are more likely to become positive and optimistic, but parents' praise needs to be appropriate and appropriate.

Excessive praise can easily make children overestimate their abilities, while stingy praise can lead to a child's self-confidence frustration.

The vast majority of parents have not studied education systematically, and there is no clear judgment on what is appropriate and appropriate for their children's praise, so you can try to praise your children in the following ways:

1.Explanatory compliments.

When the child behaves well or does something worthy of encouragement, parents can praise the child and explain the matter according to the event itself, so that the child knows why he behaved well and what is good.

For example, when the child is finished playing, he or she takes the initiative to put away the toys by himself. Parents can praise and explain things at the same time. "Child, you are awesome, you put away the toys by yourself, helped your mother to lighten the task, you see how clean and tidy the house is now".

Through the explanation of adults, let the child have a clear understanding of the matter and know what the reason for the parents to praise him.

2.Rhetorical compliments.

When a child completes a challenge, or has performed like never before. Parents can ask their children rhetorical questions to let them sort things out on their own, so as to enhance their awareness of things and understanding of the process.

For example, if your child has improved by 10 places in this exam, parents can encourage your child by asking him: "Child, you are awesome, you can't get into so much, how did you do it?" The child may, 'spend more time studying', 'do more practice', etc., let the child reflect on the reasons for this progress, let him know that the progress of learning is inseparable from time and practice.

3.Expansive compliments.

Parents can praise their children for this aspect and expand their children's cognition and apply the praiseworthy points to other aspects.

For example, today's child has run 800 meters unprecedentedly, and parents praise their child's success while guiding to learning, "Because of perseverance and hard work, you ran 800 meters for the first time today." In the same way, as long as you persist and work hard, you will definitely be able to learn well." Allowing children to apply their successful experiences to other aspects can give them more courage and confidence to face challenges.

Parents' praise should be implemented, do not perfunctory children for some reasons, children's hearts are simple and sensitive, and parents' attitudes often have a subtle impact on children's education.

When your child completes something independently, you can praise your child and tell him that you are very good and excellent, so that he will be very happy.

If the child has done a lot of good deeds or won some awards, we must encourage the child, praise the child, and buy some gifts for the child, but not too expensive. You should also tell your child to guard against arrogance and rashness, so that it will be very good for you.

Targeted compliments. Because although it is important to praise children, they cannot be blindly praised, so they should be praised in a targeted manner.

When praising your child, be sure to praise him indirectly, and tell him why he is praising him, so that he can become very confident.

Don't exaggerate too much, it will cause them to be proud, and don't belittle them and hurt their self-esteem, appropriate praise is important for children.