Psychological problems! Not sure why. Everyone saved

First of all, you have written so much, there is no big problem with word order, it means that you don't have much problem, child, you are too tired, don't put too much pressure on yourself, the body is the most important, rest and rest, readjust yourself, you still have two years, don't add to the burden on yourself.

You are a good student, you know that you have to study hard, you will succeed, find relatives and friends next to you to chat and relax, don't live in the world of problems, it is very painful, your mind will be blank.

Let's go see the doctor, look at what you said, it's serious.

Concentrate on one thing, and it will get better slowly, trust me!

You use the summer vacation time to go out and travel, and it's good when you don't have stress in your heart.

High mental stress leads to abnormal work in the two areas of the cerebral cortex responsible for reading and listening (knowledge of senior biology), and in severe cases, it can lead to speech impairment. It's also possible that you're too tired and can't concentrate for a while. It is recommended to see a doctor, in the mood for love, and not to avoid medical treatment.

Hello. Judging by my simplicity, you have symptoms of depression.

You can try to go out for a walk, that is, go out for a trip, and don't think about your studies for a while, many people will change in the process of learning.

Because of too much pressure, parents have invisible pressure, and they always feel almost unable to breathe in their hearts, so many students have become indifferent to things since they went to high school or college.

It is mainly dependent on self-adjustment, such as finding a confidant to talk to, or going on a trip, and don't care about your studies for the time being.

First of all, you don't have obvious psychological problems, you are a normal person, and your problems will be encountered by most people.

The first point is to explain that you have low self-esteem, you can read Fromm's book, in his view, low self-esteem is the driving force for human progress, and personal growth is to constantly overcome one's own inferiority. The knowledge you see is the glamorous side of others, but in fact, everyone has an inferior side. In the face of the vast universe, who is not inferior?

The second point is that it's not a problem, in fact, there are not many people who are not afraid to speak in public. As long as you behave normally on the necessary occasions and don't make a fool of yourself, it's fine. Not everyone can be a speaker.

The third point shows that you are eager for love, so you will think about what you like, anyway, I never want to, this is just fate. In fact, what kind of partner is best to find? Look for someone who is similar to your personality.

Scientists have found that the higher the similarity of the personality, the easier it is to spark love.

Fourth, if you want to talk about temperament, psychology believes that temperament is innate and difficult to change. But it's not impossible to change at all, in fact, the people around you, the books you read, and everything you come into contact with will affect your temperament.

Make friends with more knowledgeable people, read more books, especially famous books, don't read fast food literature, watch more movies, read less with an IMDB score of less than 7 points, watch more Oscars, often browse fashion magazines, listen to classics**, Mozart, Chopin or something, popular ** to listen selectively, cultivate a hobby sport, and pay attention to the grade of dressing.

Hello: Friend, saw you? t Actually, you yourself have not found your own life values, I used to be the same as you.

You want others to see your chic side. First of all, you have to learn to be humorous, no matter how many people are in you, you have to make everyone happy, what you bring to others is happiness, what you gain is happiness, what you think about every day is how to help others, do a good thing a day, persist is to cultivate the mind, others will notice you, you do it sincerely, others will find your changes.

Temperament is cultivated, and ability is practiced. When you see others happy, you should bless them, set a goal in your heart, be happier than them in the future, see why they are happy, and whether you will do better than him in the future.

Remember that the road of life is in your hands and the road is under your own feet. Mom and Dad brought you to the world, is to hope that you can become a talent, as long as you study hard, to help others more for fun, good fortune will come, learn to give, give out your happiness to share with everyone, to bless others more You are a happy person.

People have a lot of things that others are afraid of knowing, as long as you have a sense of shame: you are not afraid of others laughing at you. Be courageous: dare to take responsibility. There is a sense of nonsense: you can take up and put down anything. Wisdom will appear.

I wish you a lifetime of happiness.

Your academic accomplishment does not meet such high requirements, so it is recommended to study. The root of faith lies in self-cultivation.

1.Low self-esteem, jealousy.

2.Not confident, to put it bluntly, or inferiority.

3.Not mature enough to know what you want.

4.Temperament is based on experience and mental precipitation, you are now 23 years old, don't fantasize about being like Chen Daoming. The most important thing is to read more books and improve yourself.

Do more things, these things will naturally figure it out, cherish the time to enrich yourself, self-confidence will be defeated by boredom, less emotions and more action, only the way out, not waiting for the brilliance, come on.

Just because your life isn't perfect doesn't mean your life isn't beautiful.

This is not a very serious psychological problem, but there is a big difference between your ideals and reality, which makes you feel very inferior, but the arrogance in your bones is that you are desperate to move up! All right! Don't force yourself, accept the reality calmly, develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, do your best, come on!!

Let's go for psychological counseling... You can't solve anything by asking.

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First of all, I want to tell you that this kind of psychology needs a certain way to overcome.

In general, this kind of psychology is based on people's personalities, in my opinion, you can live according to your own ideas, but maybe you don't want to make your family and friends sad because of your happiness, that is only a forced way:

1.Start with the details, walk with your head up and your chest high, don't deliberately restrain yourself when you laugh, and have something in your heart to pass something.

The way of catharsis can even be sent to the Internet for encryption, because people's psychological capacity is limited, if not at a young age.

When you learn to vent, it will be more troublesome in middle age, and it may be more difficult to set the psychology when the time comes.

2.It is best to sleep in a soft place when sleeping, which helps to deepen sleep and relax the mind.

3.Before doing anything, think about it: If I do this, will it be abnormal? I'm sure it's very.

Cruel, because after all, people have to live for themselves, but since you want to live like a so-called "normal person", you have to do everything.

Normal". 4.To improve your audio life, it is recommended that you go to open a meager and listen to some positive and cheerful celebrities, which can be to a certain extent.

To improve your perception of some things, you are becoming mature yourself.

5.I want to know what you are doing now, because of the living environment, the things you have experienced, what your relatives and friends are like, if the work will make you very tired, nest in the office all day, it is recommended to change it under certain conditions, and make more cheerful friends.

Optimistic friends, and in this process of transformation, need their understanding, care, encouragement and support.

6.Try to be independent, you can disappear a little, go to places like Beijing and Shanghai, and it's better not to go to Guangzhou and Shenzhen (subjectively.

Not very good), I think the people here are more helpful, you can learn to change the environment to learn to be independent, and stop looking at others.

Live with a face, learn to be yourself, read more business books, and look at the ugliness, dirty, beautiful and gentle in the world, and you will naturally understand.

What is your own path?

p&s To be honest, I appreciate your way of life very much, because you are like Tao Yuanming and Liu Yuxi, although you live in your own small world, you are happy and serene, I am more important than anything else, of course, I am not you, you know what matters.

Hope it helps!!

Through the five major needs of psychology, let's see where your problem is.

1 Physiological Needs: Basic physiological needs necessary for survival, such as food, sleep, and sex.

2 Safety needs: include a safe and reproducible environment, which can be relatively free from psychological and physical anxiety.

3 The need to love and belong: including being accepted, loved, concerned, encouraged, supported, such as making friends, pursuing love, and joining groups.

4. The need for respect: both respect for others and self-respect.

5 Self-actualization needs: including the realization of one's own potential.

In psychology, the need hierarchy theory is an important theory to explain personality and motivation.

Generally, your questions will revolve around these five needs, describe your symptoms, and then prescribe the right medicine, so as to achieve the purpose of self-redemption. You can also continue to consult with a psychology expert for more specific advice.

People always like to pursue the good things and the things that they can't get. The scenes you see from **, fairyland, the universe, highly developed and perfect cities, and paradise! When you watch, the scenes in these ** make you lose in it, and you feel that you are picky about your mind and behavior after being edified by **, so when you face the real life, you seem to experience a contrast between ideal and reality.

You will feel uncomfortable with the real urban society.

What to do? Get in touch with reality, participate in social activities, and interact with people. Make yourself feel like you're still living in reality. Not yet immortal.

You must have watched ** often! See less!

Down to earth. Let's embark on the road to our dreams.

You love watching **, right? When a person is frustrated in reality or has a bad life, there are two situations that occur, one is that the more frustrated he becomes, the more courageous he becomes. One is negative avoidance, so you start to like tranquility, like nature, like fairyland, the kind of freedom and freedom in the world.

Maybe you're the kind of person who doesn't have a fight with the world No matter what, you don't have to worry about it, this is a kind of personal yearning If you're always worried about depression, so don't worry If you really want to change, you have to experience the joy of living in a noisy city Since the noisy city exists, there is a certain reason to discover its happy value It will make you change and mix better in society As for the problem of autism, hehe, as long as you don't worry about dying all day long, it's okay You have a lot of friends, you might as well go high with them.

Not confident.

If I don't reason with you, it's a simple way to make you understand that all worries are superfluous:

1. QQ is on the ground every day.

2. You will find that almost no one will have the leisure to write an impression on you every day.

3. Even if you really have a bad impression, because you can find it in time when you go online every day, and delete it in time, others can't see it. Then you blacklist the people who scribbled on your impressions.

Got it? Time is the only criterion for testing the truth, and if you are blindfolded and your eyes are closed, it is better to face the reality as I said, and you will find that all your worries are superfluous.

Haha, the first QQ impression or something, I really don't have to worry too much about this, there is a point of view in psychology called the bystander effect, a person will always tend to feel that others are paying attention to themselves, but in fact, there is no at all... Don't worry too much about this... If you have to look ahead and look forward to everything, will you be tired?

You're insecure, depressed, and delusional, and you're always suspicious of something, you'd better see a psychiatrist You sound very serious If others write anything in the QQ impression, I won't feel a problem If someone else writes something on Weibo, I won't feel anything You can still know that you are different from others There is still a little bit of sanity You need to be more rational Look at the psychiatrist Don't encounter a little bit of things that you don't like More serious I hope you can pay attention to I wish you good health!

From your questions, you can see that you have problems in your heart, and you also realize that you have problems in your heart, and if there is a problem, you have to solve it, but most people do not have professional knowledge and expertise in this area, so I suggest that you find a psychological counselor to consult again, because they are more professional.