I found that my friend had become selfish, but I didn t want to lose this friendship

People are different. Whether it is a friend or a brother, after all, it is not one, don't treat the relationship between friends and brothers as dependence. If you want to open something, brother will continue to do it.

As for this brother of yours, you tolerate him, and others do not necessarily tolerate him.

I believe that. See the truth in adversity! I have a friend who says something much like that. Let's open it. In fact, they lost me, and we are the biggest loss.

You can say things in secret words, but you can't easily let him know what you mean. Then look at his performance, if he is still the same, think about the good things or pleasant things you and him used to endure, because a person's life cannot always be selfish, he may have a reason, bear with it. If you can't bear it anymore, just separate from him.

People who can find themselves selfish are generally not too selfish, or not selfish.

But why do you think you're selfish?

First of all, you personally think that thinking about yourself is selfishness, people should not think about themselves, so who should you think about if you don't think about yourself? You may be a little confused.

This is not terrible, first of all, people think about themselves first, this is human nature. It's the same with dogs, so it's also called nature.

Of course, if a person only thinks about himself and doesn't care about the life or death of others, this is called no morality, that is, selfishness. If you want to hurt others for your own sake, you are extremely selfish, and you have violated the law, and you will be punished by the law.

Thinking about yourself first, and then thinking about others, this is the law of nature, and it is also the nature of human beings.

If a person is always thinking about himself, he may be looking for his own shortcomings, or staring at his own selfishness and constantly getting angry, trying to dig out the selfishness, isn't this cutting the flesh and making sores? If you spend all your energy like this, then you have time to think about others, and you have time to make friends.

So, put aside your selfishness, work hard, and live hard. After a long time, you have friends, and you will find that you are not very selfish.

Human nature is inherently selfish! These words belong to Mencius!

Mentally support you to be able to change.

My best friend and I met in elementary school, and we're still best friends, but something happened between us. When I was in high school, I was in a relationship, and the first person I told was him, and then I gave him my girlfriend's number. After 2 years, when I was in my third year of high school, my girlfriend proposed to break up with me, and I was sad because I didn't know that ** did something wrong, but within a few days I heard that she was in love, and later learned from the people in her dormitory that her boyfriend was my good friend.

You may feel very upset for me when you see this, and call me stupid, and continue to be good friends with him.

In fact, I was like this at the beginning, but after just a week, I didn't think so, because what is mine is mine, don't always think of the mistake to the other person, don't always feel that the other party is sorry for you, there are many things for a reason.

The key is how you determine her selfishness. If she is indeed what you say, she doesn't care about your thoughts and doesn't care about your opinions. I just want you to obey her, and there is no reciprocal communication, so no doubt it will end immediately.

I hope you can have a good chat with her, say your thoughts and suggestions, and live in harmony with each other.

The most important thing to get along with friends is to care for each other and share similar interests. Since your friend is selfish, you might as well distance yourself slowly so that you don't end up hurting yourself more.

Friendship shouldn't be given up, what if she can push you in times of difficulty? It's just that friendship is not suitable for development, and it is good to maintain the status quo, that is, the gap between ordinary friends and confidants.

If you do have a big difference in character between her and you, then treat her as an ordinary friend, get along plainly, minimize unnecessary friction, and meet someone with a similar character who can be a confidant.

With such a selfish friend, there's nothing to be sorry for giving up.

Maybe it's because you've been together long enough and feel reluctant to give up like this, but if you continue like this, in the face of such a friend who only thinks about yourself, you will eventually hurt yourself more, now, why coax others to be happy, the most important thing is to coax yourself to be happy.

There is a saying, after a long time, you can see that the time is not short, and you can see that each other's temperament is not compatible, and you also feel that you are hurt, just give up happily.

I also had a friend before, and they got along very well during school, and when they were admitted to college to work, they were still in contact when they were in college, and they didn't contact much after work, and they participated in each other's weddings, and then there was nothing to cross, sometimes I saw each other send a circle of friends, and others would like it, and we were both very cold, and my heart was very sad, and I felt that I had been friends for so many years, how did it come to this point, and I felt like a dream before, and I wondered if the two of them had ever had feelings before. I was also sad and sad, and after adjusting for a while, I felt that the beautiful friendship must exist, and it was worth recalling, and it was good to put this memory in a corner of my heart, because of the beauty of the past, there was no need to doubt it. And now there are too many differences, there are new ideas, and there is no longer a common topic, so just let it go, don't be entangled, you must have walked together.

People have their own companions in the journey, some will go on all the way, some will part ways halfway, this is also normal, can get along, continue to support each other, can not get along well together, just separate, feelings are two people's business after all, one person's efforts can not be maintained.

I always believe in fate. I believe that everyone you know or pass by is arranged by God. So everyone you meet will bring you more or less different surprises.

Friendship is the most precious thing in the world. Friends are the people who know you best besides your parents. We will make many friends throughout our lives. You know each other and see each other for all sorts of reasons. And this is the so-called wonderful fate.

Actually, I have a selfish friend. We had a lot of conflicts, but I didn't give up. In fact, I especially agree with the saying that poor people must have something to hate.

We have been in the same dormitory for three years. I thought of her as my best friend in the dorm early on, but she always gives you a feeling. It makes you feel that all the effort you have put into writing is in vain.

She was as selfish as a white-eyed wolf.

But what about him. I don't ask for anything in return, I just want you to understand how good I am to you, but he is very selfish, always treats me as a spare tire, and always has no scruples when he needs me. He never cares about my thoughts and feelings. I was helpless, and I felt that my heart was completely trampled on.

But I didn't give up, because three years of friendship was not easy. You can't just give up. You ask me if I'm uncomfortable, and I'm uncomfortable too, but I still want to try to make amends, but I can't.

I will give up. If you still do this after trying hard, then give up! There are many people who like you, and there is no shortage of him!

Dear, let me answer this question for you Friends are very selfish, specifically referring to which aspect is very selfish, is it because of the selfishness in this aspect that has led to the contradiction between you, first of all, you can become friends must be in the same personality, can play together, after a long time, you can not easily give up this friendship, you can talk to friends appropriately, pull the relationship between the two into, you do what you should do well as a friend, as a friend as a confidant, wholeheartedly to your friend.

But if she is still as rough and selfish, and does not understand you, is not worthy of your sincerity, and has been disappointed many times, you really have to think about this friendship, whether friendship or love, it is by no means a one-sided effort, it will also be very tiring, is there a misunderstanding between you, find a suitable one to talk about it once, I wish the friendship lasts forever!

I think there is nothing wrong with selfishness, what is wrong is that there are contradictions, and if you can solve the contradictions, you can become friends. People can learn from each other's strengths, learn from each other, and grow together. Things gather in kind, people in groups, don't stand in the wrong formation!

If you really don't want to continue, you don't have to be too decisive, you can choose to stay away gradually.

When the fate comes, it gathers, and when it goes, it disperses. Since there is a pimple in my heart, it is better to disperse early, what do you say?