The person I love is not my lover, is love possessing or letting go?

The person I love is not my lover, is love possessing or letting go? Like is possession, love is a higher realm, real love must be let go. For example, if you like someone very much, just by liking it, you will take possession by any means.

I don't think about it that much, and I don't pay attention to the other person's feelings and take it for myself. But if you are really in love with someone, you will think a lot about whether the other person loves you or not, and whether you will be happy if you are really with you. Even everything you want to know about the other person.

The other party's every move, joy, anger and sorrow will affect your heart. If the other person happens to love you, they are all happy. Really possessed the beloved.

If the other person doesn't fight you, or has something else to belong to, then you will definitely choose to let go, as long as the loved one is happy. You will silently pay attention to your loved ones, and you will be happy as long as your loved ones are happy. This is true love.

True love is not possession, the twisted melon is not sweet, and why force it, and the person who chooses to let go is a wise choice of generosity, generosity, tolerance, and understanding.

Loving someone only wishes the other person to be happy and happy is the perfect answer to oneself to draw a happy ending and result. Whether true love is to let go or have this depends on the situation of the two people! If love is only one-sided, then how can it be had?

If love is two-sided, but the other party has a family, it must be let go, love in the bottom of the heart, stay away, you must have your own bottom line, otherwise a family and yourself will not be happy, but if two people love each other, how can there be this problem? Two people who love each other will put each other in the most important position in their hearts, "possess" each other in their hearts, and then give him freedom, as long as he is happy, only when the other party is happy, he will be even happier, this is the so-called "laissez-faire". Love is like a plate of sand, the tighter you hold it, the less you get, and vice versa, you will get more.

Therefore, love is the "possession" in the heart and the "laissez-faire" in life.

Personally, I think that love is letting go, if the other party doesn't love you, then you have to learn to bless him and learn to let go.

I think love is letting go. Because being too possessive is not good for the relationship between two people.

Let go. Because love is not possession, and selfless giving, I feel that love should be let go.

I think love is letting go, if you really like someone and can't bear to hurt her, you just want him to be happy.

If you are sure that you can't get love, then let it go! Because since it is what you love, since you can't get it and can't have it, then even the pain can only be borne by yourself, after all, you love each other very much!

What you are pursuing, even if you are very deliberate and persistent, is the true love you want, if there is still a glimmer of hope, you must do everything possible to possess it, which is worthy of the happiness you want in life.

If you choose to let go because of the helpless reality, it is also because you truly love it, so you will endure the extremely intense heartache and silently accept this feeling of regret. As long as the loved one can be happy in the end, then what if I carry all the pain!

In the conditions of being able to possess oneself, one must not allow any thought of giving up. Even if the road ahead is bumpy, even if you need to face a lot of hardships and twists and turns in the process of possession, you will definitely stick to the person you love the most, and you will make yourself easy!

If you can't get real love, then let go and let yourself go. Although it will be very painful in the early stage, although it is uncomfortable to lose weight. However, there is always a more meaningful result than when we torture each other!

We must strive for possession for the sake of our true love. Although this is the most difficult kind of persistence in a person's life, once you have it, you will find that your whole life is full of happiness from now on.

But in front of true love, we can't make foolish painful possession. Because after all, it is your true love, and you must give priority to the happiness of the other party. So when you can't take possession, you must obediently choose to let go, so that the other party can live more happily, which is the only thing you have to do!

Because I love you too much, I don't dare to take you for myself. Because I love you so much, I am willing to give you freedom. If you really love him, please let go of that attachment, control, possessiveness heart!

Try to face your life with a respectful and sincere heart, then you will be more comfortable and happier.

Personally, I think that if the two parties are really suitable, then they should not let go, nor can they be too strong to possess, love is that both parties keep their own space for each other.

Loving someone is not possession, but should let go, should let him be free, if you really love her him, you should bless him, as long as the other person is happy, you will feel happy. Love is giving, not taking, not possessing, love is silently giving, not asking for anything in return, love is not entangled, it is a blessing for each other.

If you love someone and feel that you can't give him the life he wants, then you should choose to let go, he should be suitable for a better life, and he should not suffer with you, your selfish love will likely hurt him, loving someone is as long as he is happy, you will be at ease.

Your love, your can't let go, because in your heart, all the time, do this calculation.

You're looking for a way to measure what you've done and how much you've paid.

You may often ask yourself, isn't he moved by what I've done so much? But have you noticed. While you think so, you always wish that you could add everything you have done all at once, all at once.

How many things have you done from the first day you met to the day you wrote this question. How many beautiful pendants have you made, how many poems have you written, how many paintings have you made? You want to remember it clearly.

You add up all the costs you have paid, and you can calculate it very clearly. This is one of the biggest gaps in your great loss.

But when it comes to feelings, what I am most afraid of is a feeling of transaction. No matter how much you do, he won't necessarily compensate you at the price, you know? The clearer you calculate, the more you can't let go.

One day, you only remember doing many things for a person, but you don't remember exactly what you did, then you really let go.

You know you should let go, but you can't let go, the reason is that you never like to let go in your heart, you hope that your love is not in vain, and you also hope that he can love you, maybe you feel that the biggest failure in this life is that you can't make him fall in love with you.

But let me tell you. Actually, you didn't fail.

It is said that Sungai spring is still good, and it is also planned to go on a light boat. I am only afraid that the Shuangxi boat will not be able to carry a lot of worries. Extraordinary people must have extraordinary love.

The twists and turns in this relationship will brew into a beautiful love story, which is more exciting than any Korean drama that can be carved.

Because you are who you are.

As for how you will strive for a good boy in the future, is that what you should think about now? You didn't even solve the problem of him in front of you. Do you have the energy to think about it now?

No one knows whether feelings are right or wrong.

You are right to love him. Because that's you. You understand. If only time could be turned back. You meet him again, and you'll fall in love with him again. It's not that you're stupid, you know. Because love can make people obsessed. It's not your fault.

You don't torture yourself anymore!

You keep asking yourself why, where do you say you come from so much, why? Do you need a reason to love someone?

If you really need a reason to die completely, you can go to him and ask for clarification.

But. Love is not a transaction. You can't talk about returns. Maybe at this time, it's time to give up, and you don't need a reason, not even a reason to die completely.

So I personally advise you, don't go to him again. Love to the end, if you still love him, is to set him free, give him your last love, let love go.

This method is cruel to yourself. But for this love that has no ending, it is a beautiful ending.

Don't worry about the future. Be yourself. Love came quietly.

Case! And why force it? Sometimes that kind of beauty is not necessarily bad in the heart!

Why shouldn't I?

I'm in the same mood as you!

As for me, I can see him every day, but I can't be with him! Maybe it's because of my low self-esteem! I always feel that I am not worthy of him, and time can dilute everything.

Wait, a relationship like high school will break up sooner or later. When she breaks up, you care about her again.

Since she doesn't belong to you, give up, helplessly, the flowers will fall, and the familiar Yan will return, you will always wait for your true love.

If the other party doesn't love you, I think it's good for both people to let go, because reluctant happiness won't be real happiness, sometimes Huai He doesn't have to have him if he loves someone, as long as he lives happily, it's enough, even if Dong Pei can only stare at Na Mingwei from a distance, learn to let go, even if it hurts to do that, but after the pain, start again, and maybe you will find another sky that belongs to you.

Look at yourself, many people say that a twisted melon is not sweet, but how can we know if it is sweet if we are not a melon? I'm afraid I don't know what it's like!