Fear of being hurt by feelings again 10

There are many people who have been tormented by it, not only you have faced it, but many people have also faced it!

Everyone may meet someone they like in their own life to some extent, thus.

Like--confession--dating--breaking up.

Maybe. Like--Confession--Relationship--Marriage!

Both possibilities will happen to you, but you really don't have to put him in your heart, I know your current situation very well, and I can see that you have been hurt by someone, and it hurts so much that you are afraid of the next new relationship, but life is still life! There's no way you can run away from it! You can only choose to face it, because you can't give up the person who will love you in the future for the sake of someone who has hurt you in the past, give the person who will love you in the future a chance, and give yourself a chance, okay?

I really don't know how you, love is a place where there is no reason. Let's put it this way, I think this sentence makes a lot of sense, let me tell you, I hope it will inspire you: love is not a place to reason.

If you taste it, you will find that this is indeed the case. The deeper the love, the more it hurts. Because I love her too much, I will be sad and painful, this is love!

In fact, sometimes you can think about it from a different angle, will she feel better when you are sad and painful? Why do you always think about yourself? Women are originally emotional, maybe she is more sad than you!

So rest assured to love and voluntarily suffer for her! This way you will find someone who truly loves you!!

Hurting and being hurt are painful, there are some things that we can't do about others, life is inseparable from feelings, come on, know that you must be happy, and I wish you happiness, find someone who loves you and you love her.

Don't be afraid to start a new life just because of past failures. Not all feelings can get a good outcome, so be in a better state of mind and treat the past as an experience.

That is still not out of the shadow of the past, you can go to see a psychiatrist, or you can be friends with other people first, and you can slowly accept it after a long time, because the long-term love is absolutely effective.

Afraid of being hurt, in fact, I already think in my heart that there will be no good development in a new relationship, so I am worried that I will be hurt. You should be bold to face a new relationship, be brave and confident in the relationship, and be brave and confident will help you add points to your emotions.

If you don't dare to continue the next relationship because of injury, you can start with friends with people you like, and then consider whether to enter love after getting to know each other well, so you won't be so resistant.

That's because you were hurt in the last relationship, so the self has a protective mechanism, afraid of being hurt again, I think time is the best healing tool, a good relationship can also stand the test of time, if the other party is really a person worth loving, his love will make you brave.

This is a typical state of self-isolation. You should try to get out of your heart, if you get in touch with more people and things.

You can take a slow time, adjust your mood, go out and play more, and wait until you forget your sorrows, and then it's not too late to start.

That proves that he hasn't given you enough security, wait first, don't rush to accept or refuse, you can test him again, if he suits you, he will take you through the line of defense in your heart.

Then don't think about these things for the time being, give yourself a period of time to adjust your mentality, and wait for the wounds in your heart to heal before thinking about a new relationship.

First of all, we must conduct psychological counseling for ourselves, not all people will let themselves be hurt, and we must have the courage to believe in love. Believing that you are the best will get better feelings.

Think about why you have this thought, and then find the crux of the problem and open your heart, only in this way can you slowly try to accept new feelings.