How to be a lively and cheerful lady, how to be a cheerful girl?

I still think it's better to be true to yourself, but if you want to change things up, I can give you a couple of references (because I'm pretty much the same type as you were talking about before).

1 I think I should restrain myself, try not to use violence, and forgive if the other person is wrong.

2 Always pay attention to your words and actions to see if it is appropriate.

3 You can read more prose to cultivate more temperament, cultivation and sentiment.

4 When you laugh, be careful, I've been preferring to cover my mouth with my hands lately, so that I look more ladylike.

5 Talk calmly about things with others so that others can feel that you are a very knowledgeable but lively girl.

These are my own thoughts, I don't know if you're satisfied.

And I'm glad you have someone you like, because it's the purest and most beautiful emotion of adolescence, and you need to take care of it

* Hee-hee-hee ......That's good, my method is to find a boyfriend and I'll be a lady, (*hee-hee......But don't do it if you're still in high school or junior high school! It's going to delay your studies.

I'll tell you a joke.

I'm drinking water. Then.

I choked up!

Eh: Your personality is really good and doesn't need any changes.

People's character determines the fate of people's lives, I personally believe that introversion is actually not a bad thing Things have two sides If you will be engaged in the industry in the future, the work you will engage in requires your character, then you have an advantage that others do not have, so do you appear very good? Sometimes it's not necessary to change yourself for the sake of others, it's actually good to be yourself Like you said, I've actually encountered this situation, sometimes it's not a personality problem There are a lot of questions in this First of all: you should consider whether you have a common hobby, which is also the common language that everyone usually speaks This is very important, when you meet a like-minded friend, even if you are introverted and have nothing to say, then you will open your conversation box and communicate with each other When you meet someone you don't like, Even the annoying person, even if you are an extrovert, you are not willing to say a word to him because you feel unnecessary and even look down on him Secondly:

This may also happen in relation to the other person, maybe the other person is also a person who doesn't like to talk? If you really want to develop in the extroverted side, I have a few suggestions, which I personally think are not bad, and I have also told my classmates a few times to participate in group activities, participate in group life more, exercise yourself in the bush, don't always act alone, so give yourself an environment to try to change

Use your heart to understand the person you want to understand, the person you want to talk to understand his hobbies, his interests, what he likes and what he hates, so that there is something to talk about As for the people you don't like, then of course there is no need to do it Read more positive and optimistic books, don't read those sentimental **, then your mind will become more delicate, which is more detrimental to your transformation Contact some people of different levels, different occupations, different ages In this way, you will be in the interaction with different people, It's easy to become

You must learn to listen, and I think this is the most important thing, because only if you listen, you will understand, and when you understand, you will speak. These are my suggestions and opinions, I hope it will help you, but please remember that being true to yourself is the best! Don't deliberately change yourself, don't make yourself stranger, hehe

Happiness is actually very simple, as long as the soul is satisfied and you do what you like, you should be happy with the person you like.

The wish has come true and it should be happy.

A man is working in the fields and sweating profusely, but he feels happy, and he is happy.

Another person is walking in the garden, but he feels that he is unhappy, and he is not happy.

Actually, if you think you are happy, you are happy, and happiness and unhappiness are in your own heart.

Solace is happiness.

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Get plenty of morning sun.