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Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe it, it will be a little better, and understand that the biggest knot in the heart of a self-sufficient person is to only see the fault of others and identify himself as a victim, but the unfortunate poor person cannot see through, the victim is often self-harming, using the existence of others to harm himself, crankily thinking about the relationship is ruined, I don't know what to do.
Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more? A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice.
It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self. When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.
When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate. The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down. Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless.
When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall. When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You have to remind yourself:
This feeling is just an inertial circulatory circuit of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, don't identify with it. When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't be attached to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you.
Don't care if this reliance point is real, people are people, and you have to rely on a stronger emotional pillar than yourself to live [Cangzhitao's] Don't mind relying on it, you don't need to save face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and persistent. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, and if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life.
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Falling in love with someone will always become lonely because you have one more task in your life - [think of him] and beg.
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Summary. If you have the ability and conditions, you can do whatever you want. If two people are together, they have to think about each other.
If you are lazy in character and the other party is a free and independent character, you will have emotional value and appear lonely. If you have an independent personality, you are not used to being lazy with others, and you are busy with your own affairs, you will not care about these things. So there is love instead of imposing love, it is independent, and if you want to respect that.
Love is very lonely refers to a person's own focus is on his own ability, what to eat, what to play, what to do; If two people are in their words, they will consider each other. If he himself is highly dependent on his personality and the other party's personality is free and independent, he will have emotional value and appear to be lonely and self-conscious. If you are independent enough and don't rely on others, and you're busy with your own affairs, you won't care too much about that.
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If you have the ability and conditions, you can do whatever you want. If two people are together, they have to think about each other. If you are lazy in personality and the other party is a free and independent character, you will have emotional trembling value and appear lonely.
If you have an independent personality, you are not used to being lazy with others, and you are busy with your own affairs, you will not care about these things. Therefore, there is love instead of imposing love, it is independent, and if you want to respect it, you will judge these things.
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