I m happy to have been forgiven by my colleagues today, but I don t know how to thank people?

If you are a man, you shouldn't have to worry too much about the form, if it's a girl, it's still recommended to buy a small gift.

Gratitude should not only be put in the heart, but also subtly expressed, preferably, in the presence of outsiders, say: That thing is really my experience to mess up, thanks to the dude has a large number of such words, men are all about face, you give him enough face, at the same time, because it is indeed your fault, you generously admit that others can appreciate your courage. In this way, the relationship is even more pulled.

Be grateful to the other party and let the other party know, you can't be a stuffy gourd, otherwise, you are still thinking about how to repay it here, but the other party may have been angry and you haven't expressed it yet.

Hope my advice is helpful to you.

Gratitude doesn't have to be on your lips, you can try to pay for him in silence, and he will understand your good after a long time.

Don't be too formal, the relationship between colleagues is inherently delicate;

If you have to show it, you can ask him or a few more friends to go outdoors together.

Playing ball or something.

I don't think it's a good thing to eat alone or deliberately. It's so hard that you have to ask the department.

All of them go?

Hope it helps

Gratitude stays in my heart, and I will repay him when I encounter something I can do in the future.

Don't think about eating or anything

Gratitude stays in my heart, and I will help him when I encounter something that I can help in the future

The landlord means that he wants to repay the material, there is no need for this, and this is a bottomless pit

Playing ball and the like, the relationship between colleagues is very delicate in itself, and outdoor activities together should not be too formalized. It's so hard that you have to ask the department.

I don't think it's a good thing to ask everyone to go, or deliberately invite them to dinner, and you can ask him or a few more friends.

If you eat alone;

If you have to show it.

Actually, you just did what you should do, but at the same time you didn't take into account the feelings of your friends, but I think you're not wrong, you have to rely on your own strength to show your ability to do work, and I think the problem between you is that you don't understand. She may think that she brought you here, and you are doing better than her now, first, she will feel shameless, second, she will feel that you have robbed her of her opportunity, and third, you do not treat her as a friend. In fact, there is a lack of communication between them, so let's take the time to talk to her!

Try to say everything that is in your heart, and tell her that in fact, in your heart, friendship is more important than anything else. Maybe she'll be comforted. It's better to try than not to try.

Quite simply, this is how people become comparative. You can ask him out for dinner, chat, and be kind!

Friends to friends, companies to companies.

A friend will not abandon a friend because of the company, if he snubbs you because you feel that he has no face in a company and has a comparativeness. You can talk to him and talk to him.

The best thing to do is to help him with your experience and methods of promotion or where he needs to learn, and pull him up. It depends on whether your friend is capable or not...

You leave the company only to surprise him, and he won't feel anything.

For the sake of his own work and RMB, this friend still treats you like this, persuading you to give up early. Who cares about whom?

When I was in school, the popular mantra among my classmates was "don't force it too hard". Tolerance is a kind of bearing, it is very natural, and it is necessary to make a way to show this kind of bearing.

One, two, three, four, too contrived. Taoism is natural...

Everyone has more friends around one more than one not too much, not a lot of a lot, that being said, but I don't have a lot of the same way to do it, I want to say that multiple friends are better than fewer friends, more fun than annoying, and you used to be good friends, if she invited you as a guest at this time, it means that she has not forgotten you, she must be happy when you go, and also show her that you do not hold grudges, and the amount is large. Taking the test is a good opportunity for you to reconcile.

Whoever has a big heart will be happier, happier, and have the upper hand.

Grievances are easy to solve, but not easy to knot.

Is it really better to be a stranger for a lifetime?

I always think that relatives should be closest because of blood; Colleagues are secondary to closeness, because they always have to work together and help each other; Friends come third because of occasional contact; Strangers come in fourth because of random encounters.

Is it really a secret revenge that always talks about nothing? How do you know about secret revenge, are you sure?

In fact, it's not good to go and participate in it very generously, give a salute, smile at the meeting, and throw the unkind to her?

If you want to be sure that it's the enemy, then go for it!

You can't get used to me.,I can't get used to seeing you as simple as that.,What kind of story do you want?,Add some imagination to yourself.。。 Hehe,I haven't slept today.,Or I'll help you think about it.,But what you think is always the best.。。。 I don't know if I can take it.

Forgiveness is a virtue, and to forgive others is to forgive oneself! Blessing!

It is a tolerance with gratitude, but also a cherishing of life.

The source of the problem is that you don't have any friendship between you! It's all about the surface! That's why it's like this!

Actually, it's just a small thing! Indeed, you can't solve this problem smoothly enough!

Because your previous refusal made him feel unbearable, so he didn't force you!

Then you make a 360-degree change, and he kind of feels that he is forcing you inside! Or maybe he thinks you're fickle!

Obviously promised a good thing, but you broke your promise and dragged it out! It makes him feel like you're playing tricks on him!

If you look at it from someone else's point of view, all problems will become clear! Just imagine! For example!

You are thirsty, you ask someone to give you a glass of water, and he rejects you; You don't have hope for him!

Then he said he could give you a glass of water, but in the afternoon, and you have hope again, and wait until the afternoon.

And he told you to give it to you tomorrow! How do you feel at this time? It is inevitable that there will be depression and entanglement!

If you get angry, it will make people feel that they are stingy, so they can only hold back and tell you that it's okay! In fact, I feel uncomfortable!

However, you mention it again and again, don't you indirectly say that he is stingy? Because your explanation is simply to affirm his anger!

The more you explain, the more he feels like your explanation is saying that he is stingy and that he doesn't want to mention you to keep mentioning it!

That's why he doesn't bother to pay attention to you! Dissatisfied with you!

The next day, he said he didn't want to mention it, which proved that he hadn't bought a network cable yet!

Because if he buys it, he can use it as a lock to close the one you explained!

That's the problem, now that the problem is visible, you know how to solve it!

First: You'd better keep this matter a secret and don't tell it to any colleague, it's a shame for him!

Second: In fact, the network cable is the source, so dispose of the source first! Tell the boss directly that the network cable is running out, buy some and come in!

Otherwise, if you give him the network cable, he won't accept it! ）

Third: Find an opportunity to go out to dinner with him, and during the meal, you pretend to inadvertently take out the network cable you prepared privately: "I took an extra network cable when I was helping so-and-so repair the computer before, by the way, do you still need it?"

Here you if you need it! Anyway, I'll be in trouble with it! "It's a casual way to do it!

Don't let him think you're doing it on purpose! In that case, he should accept it!

In the end, this matter is over, don't mention it again! Just erase it!

And because you're a computer fixer, many people now have computers at home, including your colleagues!

This can greatly increase everyone's goodwill towards you!

To sum up: your colleague, he can fall into such a trivial matter, so he is considered a person in the city, and at the same time he will be a little self-centered!

You also need to pay attention to some details in the future! Don't step on his mines!

And are you just out of society, I feel that you are not deep in the city! Pretty simple!

If you change to someone else, you just ignore him! Don't give in to others just because you're introverted and don't have any friends!

It is difficult for people who enter the society to make true friends, interests are the first thing, and any love and friendship are floating clouds!

So being yourself is the freest and happiest!

Hello, normally you did the right thing, but if you really gave the sub-network cable, I don't think it will affect your work. Later, he said that you did the right thing, maybe this is true, so you can also be friends, give you a reminder, don't take other words or things too seriously, this will affect the relationship between you and your friends, you forget it, I have also encountered this kind of thing, and I have also met a few times colleagues, I only remembered when I met it, so don't care, as long as you come back and your friend needs help on the computer, you can also help, you really feel that you can't get by, just invite him to eat together, click on the dinner table and say sorry, I don't think your colleague will turn his face with you about this.,You say yes.,But in the future, when you encounter this kind of thing.,Just give him a no.,Then again.,Sometimes the rest of the network engineering **You make him an RJ45 head for him.。

I don't think you're wrong, you're doing things according to your job responsibilities.

This colleague, you just let it go first, don't chase after the back and rush to restore the relationship.

Because the other party is a little mindful now, but he will also feel that he is actually inappropriate and takes advantage of the public.

It's not necessarily what you're worried about.

You just have to work and treat him normally, and after a while, he will recover himself.

Even if you have thoughts in your heart, it will not affect your ordinary relationship.

If he has always been like this, then it is useless how much you care?

It can only show that his personality is like this, and his heart is not open-minded enough. This kind of mentality is not something you can get by leaning over and showing favor.

Personal introversion and unsociable do not mean that you cannot get the affirmation and respect of others, as long as you affirm your sincerity and principles, there must be someone in your heart to praise you!

You don't have to come and praise you every day, you are confident, haha.

Happiness should come from our own hearts, and others are infected by us.

Happiness is an attitude, not just the appearance on the lips and face!

Time can dilute unpleasant memories, so leave some room for sadness. When it is too tight, it will have a better effect. In this white-hot period, don't take the responsibility on yourself, not to mention that it's not your fault, let each other calm down for a while, let each other think clearly, blindly whispering is often counterproductive.

Don't mention it again, be kind to him in other aspects of life, care more about him in the details of life, and over time, when he realizes that you are good, the problem may be solved. Remember, when a relationship hurts, the best thing to do is to dilute it with another relationship, don't stick to the present, look at everything with a peaceful mind, everything will pass, come on!

I don't think it's okay, there's no need to take it too seriously. In fact, you underestimate that you are not good at diplomacy and care too much about this matter. After a few text messages back and forth, it backfired.

The misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper. Isn't there a good saying, "the more you describe, the darker it becomes", the more you want to explain it, the deeper the misunderstanding may be. Colleagues will spend a lot of time together, the coming day will be long, and there will be a lot of difficulties encountered by each other in the future, and a warm-hearted person like you, when you see him in difficulty in the future, take the initiative to help him a few times (in the case of your own help), you will turn the conflict into a jade silk, and all misunderstandings will be solved.

As the saying goes: Lu Yao knows the horsepower and sees the hearts of the people for a long time. In the days you get along in the future, your enthusiasm will definitely be understood, it's only a matter of time, don't be a headache for the misunderstanding at this moment!

I wish you a happy and happy life.

I hope my advice is helpful to you.

1.There's nothing wrong with what you're doing, and there's nothing wrong with your colleague, it's just that he didn't get what he didn't deserve at the wrong time, and he shouldn't be taken advantage of.

2.You don't have to apologize to your colleagues or anything, just keep your mind calm as you used to be.

3.Your colleague may be unhappy just because he didn't take advantage of it, just shake it up after a few days, just like buying a lottery ticket and not winning, if he is still angry with you after that, it is that his heart is too small, and such a friend is not worth making.

4.If you have to apologize to him or something, it's not necessary, because a true friend will not change his principles of doing things because of being pretended to cater to others' emotions, I believe you should also have your own principles of making friends in your heart, wrong is wrong, right is right, don't change the facts because of other people's reasons. We only do our truest self.

Misunderstandings are a common thing in life, so please don't worry about it.

I generally look at the situation, some people and things, need to be explained first, if he (she) can listen, it will be fine; If he or she does not listen, he or she will have to go with him/her; There are people and things that don't need to be explained, just let it go, and it's not a big deal if you suffer dumb losses, time will tell.

People must have fate, understand each other, and force each other!

You can talk to him, if you are in front of everyone, if he is there it will hurt you, you can fight back with humor, so that you can also save your face and let him know that he is not doing the right thing at this time! Nor will you be upset by your counterattack!