What does love have to do with loneliness? Why love makes people lonely

Updated on amusement 2024-06-06
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love is equal to staying away from loneliness, love hurts, and the heart hurts; It's really time to end; The tears are dry and numb; I really shouldn't love you anymore; I know that I still love so much; I knew I couldn't forget; give you that unforeseen promise; In exchange for deceiving yourself, you don't love me; Heartbroken; I cried; It's really time to make you happy; the love that can't be given; I became a deserter; No more imposition; Because; I love you. Love is a walking boat. It is the life and happiness of every passenger that is carried on board.

    Water can carry a boat, but it can also capsize a boat. Without water, the boat cannot move; The water is too fast for the boat to move. When the boat moves, the river also moves, and when the river moves, the boat does not necessarily move.

    When the wind and waves are calm, the ship is stable, the green hills facing each other on both sides of the strait become commonplace, and the hardships and greatness of the helmsman become worthless in the eyes of the ship. When the waves are turbulent, the ship is on the crest of the waves, and with the firmness of the helmsman, there is the foundation for the ship to travel thousands of miles. People who are immersed in love are often easily submerged in each other's advantages, often ignoring the difficulties around them, and only seeing green mountains and tenderness in their eyes; People who live together are often easily submerged in each other's shortcomings, often exaggerating the difficulties of life, and only seeing the devastation and thorns everywhere.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    From the moment I fell in love with him, I began to understand what happiness is, But behind happiness, there is a faint figure of loneliness There is true love between us, there is suspicion, I feel sad, to love someone you have to trust him, but, jealousy is at work There is suspicion between the two, there is loneliness When you want to be alone, you are also lonely, when you can't see him, you are also lonely With love, loneliness will naturally follow us.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You love each other, and when they are not by your side, you feel lonely, which is a normal thing! But what is the point of temporary separation? Don't be so stingy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People who don't have love are lonely, and people who lose love are lonely.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Two people who don't love each other can feel lonely together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    2 people are very happy, 1 person is very lonely, and if you drink the medicine of love, you will be poisoned by loneliness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love will make a person stand out from the crowd. One person shines for another, and some of the light is reflected back to oneself, and one is able to feel oneself clearly. The so-called love to the depths of people is lonely, that is.

    True love is to use all of one's own life experience to complete the understanding and integration of oneself and another life. Pure and great love must be the tenacity that remains after passing through the fireworks of the world and the dust of time, and the harmony that is gradually revealed in the wear and tear of trivial and ordinary life. True love is inseparable from the penetration of time.

    Great love must use both the length and breadth of life as much as possible. Love is at its end.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love and loneliness are two of the most beautiful songs in life, and both are indispensable.

    A loveless heart will not appreciate loneliness, and a person who has not experienced loneliness cannot know love.

    Loneliness comes from love, and people without love are not lonely.

    Love and loneliness are actually the same emotion, they go hand in hand and are inseparable.

    The more lonely we feel, the stronger our desire to love becomes.

    A person's experience of loneliness is directly proportional to his experience of love, and the depth of his loneliness roughly determines the capacity of his love.

    Loneliness and love are rooted in each other, loneliness is nothing more than love seeking acceptance but not being able to get it, and love is nothing more than the discovery and comfort of the loneliness of others.

    Everyone is an orphan, so everyone longs for love and love.

    The soul is looking for its own ** and destiny but cannot find it, feeling that it is an unfounded accident in the vast universe, which is absolute, metaphysical, philosophical loneliness.

    The soul seeks another soul and cannot find it, feeling that it is a wanderer in the world without a traveling companion, which is relative, metaphysical, social loneliness.

    The former kind of loneliness leads one to God and divine love, or to the void. The latter kind of loneliness leads people to love for others and on earth, or to fall into narcissism.

    We form our spirits and feelings as a result of our associations, but we also corrupt our spirits and feelings as a result of our associations.

    The former kind of interaction is a heart-to-heart communication between two people, and my encounter with you, is both full of love and respect for loneliness.

    The latter kind of interaction is a bustling bargain of interests, which, as Nietzsche described it, is both a desecration of love and a humiliation of loneliness.

    Life is purely accidental, so each life has to be attached to another life, dependent on each other, and walking together.

    Life is purely accidental, so each life does not belong to another life, like a gust of wind, without concern.

    People need companionship in the world.

    I think I'm a very ego person, able to appreciate the joy of solitude, loneliness, solitude, but I just can't live without such a partner, if not, loneliness, loneliness, solitude will lose the fun, and I will feel alone in the endless desert.

    I can't live without you, I can't live without you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When one loneliness seeks another loneliness, there is a desire to love. But can two loneliness get rid of loneliness when they come together?

    I guess this answer is not unique.

    In the current age of the Internet, everyone's life seems to be open and transparent. The connection between people has become easier, but the distance between people has become farther away.

    A problem that can be solved by a ** and a WeChat, there is less opportunity for people to meet each other; A **, a movie can get rid of the boredom of the world, and there is less fun of parties between people.

    Nowadays, people gradually lack the ability to listen and speak. Sometimes, you want to talk to your heart, but you can't find someone to talk to. The people you can meet are more customers, colleagues and leaders, and not the people who can make you speak freely and open your heart.

    Nowadays, people are more and more fond of a single life. Eat alone, sleep alone, commute to work alone, watch movies alone. But people always need a companion in the world, so people choose to raise cats, dogs, spiders, and lizards.

    Although you can only rely on yourself for spiritual happiness, it is better to have someone to accompany you than nothing.

    I often wonder if if the outcome would have been different if I had been brave in the first place. If you insisted at the time, the memories would not be ordinary. In the end, I still didn't say it, and you still ignored the silver store.

    In fact, love is sometimes really random, sooner or later, love more, love less, be brave and cowardly, and the difference in one thought is another different life.

    And the biggest drawback of communication between people happens to be this "difference of thoughts". You thought I'd say, I thought you'd understand. Actually, if you don't say it, how can others understand.

    The biggest regret of reminiscing is misunderstanding what I wanted to say but didn't say. I call it: Youth.

    Everyone will have such memories to some extent, and these memories do not need to be declared. It is precisely because of these things that keep us silent that we are more lonely in our hearts, and we are more eager to love and be loved.

    But we all know how difficult it is to love, or the person who searches for the letter says that if we understand the limits of love, we can ** friendship. But we know that friendship is also difficult, or we understand that friendship is also limited, so we can only be lonely.

    When loneliness has become a luxury......

    What should we talk about?

    It's disappointment. If we don't go to the ** when we are lonely, our lives will only be left with disappointment. So in order not to be disappointed, we can only pretend that we like solitude. As Haruki Murakami said: **Some people like to be alone, but they don't like to be disappointed.

    I prefer love to disappointment and loneliness.

    Even if it's just, love yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, this is a particularly hazy answer, it does not have a fixed and specific way of judging, it all depends on one's own thinking - thinking that love is love, and vice versa.

    So, it is very likely that you are not meeting a good person, but you think it is love, and you will be in love.

    Some people think that marriage is the only way to be happy because of love, and that's true, but it's not the only way to be happy.

    Love can be before marriage or after marriage, because love may exist before marriage and is more likely to disappear after marriage, so it is not impossible for love to be conceived after marriage.

    At the same time, love is important, but it is not the whole of marriage, this needs to be clear, because the focus of marriage is life, the key for two people is how to live in harmony, how to get happiness and joy from life, rather than completely pinning happiness on love, so it is likely to be difficult to get the happiness you want.

    Many people think that they are lonely, that there is no one to accompany them, that no one understands, which may be true, but not necessarily all of them, because it is not that there is really no one to accompany them, and it is not true that no one can understand, but that they reject everyone from their hearts, so they feel lonely.

    Those who do not have a line of defense in their hearts, even if they are alone, will not feel lonely, but will feel lonely even if they reject all people in their hearts, and they will feel lonely when they are deep in the crowd. Loneliness is the final outcome of a person, and no matter how you survive, there can be no two overlapping hearts, nor can there be two overlapping souls.

    Don't be afraid of loneliness, because it's inevitable. Don't make the wrong decision because you're afraid of being alone. "Life is just a few decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and suppress yourself needlessly."

    Coming back to the problem, if you are in this state, you should first not think about how to choose, but should think about your own problems, and then it is not too late to think about how to choose.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone wants to stay with the person they love for a lifetime, live with the person they love, sweet and beautiful, willing, regardless of you and me, mutual understanding and love, even if the hard days are as long as there is each other with them, they will feel that they have to be happy, no one will choose to die alone or marry someone they don't love, unless it is a special case.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, love makes people in the honey jar every day. And loneliness will make some people feel that this is an umbrella to protect themselves. I choose to be in love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Choose to fall in love without thinking, love is orthodox and you will be happy, what's the good about being lonely, I really can't think of any benefits of loneliness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I believe that everyone will choose feelings, because then their lives will become more interesting. It would be nice to have one more person in your life and it would make you happier.

    A person's life is very scary, even if you are used to this kind of life, but when you see others talking and laughing together, you will still feel very uncomfortable, so everyone is afraid of loneliness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I would definitely choose to be in love. I think very few people will choose to be lonely, that kind of desolate and lonely feeling makes people unhappy. Although there is sometimes a little friction in love, it is more of a feeling of happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I will definitely choose to be in love, because I think that when I am in love, it is a matter of two people, so at this time, I will have someone to accompany me in whatever I do, so I will definitely feel very happy and happy at this time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I would choose to be lonely because I don't know how to deal with such a thing as being in love yet. Falling in love is actually a philosophy, so it's more difficult, and if you're not prepared, there's no way to do it better.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone's thoughts are different, I will choose to be in love, because I am a person who likes to be lively, I don't like to be lonely, I will be cranky when I am alone, and real love can make me grow in this relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Individuals will choose to be in love, because love is sweeter, because you like him, he also likes you, two people care about each other and like each other. It's very sweet.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love and loneliness I'm afraid everyone will want to choose love, no one wants to choose loneliness, because everyone is afraid of loneliness, so no one will choose loneliness, so everyone will pursue their own feelings and love, with love is naturally not lonely.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love and loneliness, of course I would choose to be in love. Because of love, although there are also ups and downs. But most of them are still good feelings, and if you are lonely, a little too lonely. I can't find someone to talk to.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Choose solitude. Although love can be very sweet and happy for two people, it is not the final result, and they may break up. Loneliness will make our hearts stronger, it will make us strive to enrich ourselves, endure loneliness, endure loneliness, and become the strongest people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I have to choose between these two, I still choose to be lonely, because I have experienced a failed relationship before, so I feel that a person is still in a good state, and the decision made by a person in a lonely situation is also very wise.

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