When did you feel lonely in an instant?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-20
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Alone in the hospital. I see funny jokes, good-looking**, beautiful**, but no one can share them, and there is no one to accompany you if you want to watch a good movie. I turned on the mobile phone screen 10,000 times a day and no one chatted with me, and I slept hazy until five o'clock in the afternoon and woke up in an empty room, seeing the sunset outside through the curtains, no one was with me, and I really felt very lonely.

    I looked at the crowd, they were laughing, I could never blend in, it was like a barrier that cut me off from the hustle and bustle, I was me, they were them, they were in the world, I was in the middle of an island. The three of them walked together, and the other two were chatting enthusiastically in the front, and I silently followed behind and couldn't interject, pretending to be gregarious and feeling really lonely. When I woke up from a nap, it was dark in the house, and there was no message when I picked up my mobile phone, and the loneliness of this moment was vividly reflected.

    A person is so thirsty at home that he drinks the cold water next to the bed in one gulp, which is as cold as his heart at this moment. I was also hungry, and I opened the refrigerator, only to find it empty. In the end, you can only tear open a packet of instant noodles, throw it into a bowl, and wait for five minutes to soak it.

    Then ask yourself: Why am I so pathetic? Mine, all I have is the sound of the room being empty.

    I smiled self-deprecatingly, shook my head, and lowered my head to munch on the sparkling noodles.

    Before, I always felt like a very vulnerable person. Likes to be lively, is afraid of loneliness, and can't stand to be alone. But later, I watched movies alone, went shopping alone, ate alone, traveled alone, cried alone, and laughed alone.

    I seem to be quite comfortable with this lonely life, except for the occasional feeling a little sad. Actually, I'm doing well, I always believe that one day, I will get what I want and live the life I like.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think in the dead of night, I feel very lonely, because in the dead of night, you have time to think about your own emotional problems, during the day we are all at work, we will experience all kinds of work pressure, will inexplicably feel sad, because only in the dead of night, I can vent my feelings, I have time to think about that person, only when I go to my own list in the dead of night, you will find, There is no one you can confide in him your inner feelings, you are only one person listening to the song with headphones, and you feel very lonely and sad at that time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think when I communicate with others, there is always a relationship between three people walking together, and I feel that I am particularly lonely at the best time, because although there are so many people around me, no one can communicate with my heart, no one is my confidant, my own emotions, no one is willing to listen, the relationship between the two of them can neither be integrated, I feel very lonely, because the world is inherently unfair, When you encounter something particularly uncomfortable, you can't tell others, there are always two people in the friendship of three people who are very good, and you yourself are very redundant, so I feel very lonely at that moment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, I often feel very lonely at night. Because when you can't sleep at night, you will think crankily, think about a lot of things, and then accidentally feel that you are helpless and alone, and then there is no one else who can stand by your side to protect you and help you, and at that time I feel that I am alone. You will feel extremely lonely.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, there are many moments when I feel very lonely when we will not be understood by our relatives, I feel very lonely when my career is not supported by my lover, I feel very lonely, when we do not have a good development prospect, I feel that I am very lonely, there are actually many such moments, but as long as I can find a solution, it will be much better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I am when others don't believe me, I will feel lonely for a moment, because others do not trust you, you will feel that your heart has been traumatized at this moment, and then you will feel that he will make you feel very strange, and you will feel very lonely at this moment.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I felt that I had no friends around me to take care of me when I was sick, I felt that I was lonely and helpless, and what I wanted most when I was sick was the care of others, and when I was at my weakest, I felt that I was alone. When I didn't receive birthday wishes when I celebrated my birthday, I also felt lonely and helpless.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When I went out with my friends, they were all talking to each other about topics of interest, and I was walking alone next to them, or walking behind them, and I instantly felt very lonely, because after all, everyone is friends, why am I isolated, is it because I did something wrong? I felt like I was bursting with negative emotions at that time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    But when I feel lonely, when I post on Moments and no one likes it, I feel very lonely at that time, I feel that no one pays attention to me, no one cares about my feelings, I feel that the whole person is very sad and uncomfortable, and then I feel very bad when I am alone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Now I am alone in the unit and an office, and I am alone when I come home, but I have a lot of friends around me, and they and they will add a lot of color to my life, maybe a simple condolence message, or a few words of concern, but no matter what, friends are friends, most of the time I am alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1.Seeing a familiar back, I really wanted to go up to say hello but I didn't have the idea of going up to say hello, because I knew that that person would not appear in this school, in fact, loneliness was also at this moment, I felt that I had no good friends, not even a person who could talk, but in fact, you have friends around you, but at this moment you don't want to find anyone, I feel that I will always disturb others, and this moment will be especially polite.

    2.There is also a sleep to get up, get up and find that the dormitory is empty, it is already dark but there is no one in the dormitory, at this time I will feel lonely inexplicably, I always feel that the dormitory is only alone, and I will think crankily, I will think if they are going out to eat together but I didn't bring myself, I will feel that they are all good friends but isolated me, I will feel that I am not doing something wrong to make them unhappy, so they don't bring themselves, so don't sleep for too long, Don't draw the curtains either, because it feels really lonely when it's too dark.

    3.When I refresh all the information in the circle of friends, and then flip through the phone to find someone to chat, but I am afraid of disturbing others, I am also super lonely.

    4.The loneliest moment in college may be on the way to self-study, lonely and free, or in the dormitory, when everyone is wearing headphones to watch variety shows and games, they nest in the corner of the dormitory bed to read a book.

    Most of the time it will be mixed with some cold words, but after all, your life is not by compromising others, but by what you have gained.

    5.Also, when you send a message to your roommate but your roommate doesn't reply, you will feel super lonely in your heart, feel like you have no friends, and you don't even want to reply to your roommate's message.

    6.In addition, when you are talking to your friends in high spirits, they will silently reply with an "oh", and may even ignore you.

    7.There is also a person who eats, watching others go to eat in groups of people, and when they fight, they will be very envious, as if they are the only one, and the others are in pairs, and they will feel very lonely at this time.

    8.When I go to class alone, I always think about going there well in advance so that I don't feel embarrassed when I enter the classroom alone.

    9.There is also a person who goes to the library, and everyone else goes together, and he is really the only one who is there to study silently.

    10.And when I go to the supermarket, I drive to the supermarket by myself, and I drive back by myself, and I buy things alone, and I do everything alone, but when my roommates go to the supermarket, they go together, and I feel very lonely at this time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel the loneliest moment is the sleepless night, listening to the very fragrant snoring of my dormitory classmates, thinking about my sleepless night, this pain I dare not and don't want to tell others, for fear that my parents will worry, so every sleepless night, cover my head with the quilt, and whisper in the quilt when I sob.

    When I'm not feeling well, I'm very homesick, and when I was in high school, I would call my parents, and I cried while talking, and now I'm in college, and I'm in the field alone, and then I'm just going to talk about my recent daily life, I'm fine here, and then hang up**, and bite my lip secretly.

    Every time I came out of the piano room after practicing at night, the night was very cold, quiet, and lonely.

    I have friends and girlfriends, but I can't share anytime, anywhere, all the time, watching them take pictures with their friends, and I feel like I'm far away from them.

    In fact, I am often very sad and lonely, but the circle of friends must create a special number of people who love themselves and live a very beautiful life.

    You ask me if I'm doing well I say it's very good It's good that I'm driving through countless streets alone I cope with some calculations in life I resist the occasional ill-intentions of fate I want to hit you and tell you I'm afraid But in the end I held back I was fine Although I miss you very much, I still learn to let go of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personally, I feel the loneliest moment, when the father who loves me the most dies, every day when I close my eyes, my mind is the voice and smile of my father before his death, whenever this time, it is the loneliest moment!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is when you need help the most, but there is no one to find, no one to accompany you, no one to help, you will feel lonely, because at this time your mood is very low, a person's ability is limited, and you feel that your ability can no longer face the situation you are currently facing. When you're dealing with everything by yourself, you can feel lonely.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People will always feel lonely at that moment, I don't know if you have ever felt like this, when you are alone in the room, the surroundings are quiet, at that moment, will you have an inexplicable sense of loneliness?

    I will, sometimes in the dead of night, always think about what is the meaning of life? In just a few decades, gray hair, in life, some people lose themselves in pursuit of fame and fortune, some people make careful calculations for firewood, rice, oil and salt, and some people have less hair for promotion and salary increase, everyone is busy and working hard for life.

    But it is precisely because of these that our social circle is getting smaller and smaller, and we have to shrink the circle into a mobile phone that is only a few inches, swipe other people's circle of friends, envy other people's lives, and open the friend list, how many can tell the truth?

    We don't have time to socialize, and the contact with old friends is just chatter in WeChat, because the developed network has brought great convenience to our lives, we don't have to go out of the house to contact friends, but we sometimes rely too much on online socialization, the number of times we meet friends is getting less and less, over time, the relationship has begun to fade, relying on WeChat to maintain friendship, can it really be indestructible?

    Lucy came to me late at night, she felt that she seemed to be in the heart of a good friend, without any sense of existence, asked her why, she said that she swiped the circle of friends of two friends, they went to eat Western food together, did not ask her, and felt very lost in her heart, that is, at that moment, she felt that she was the loneliest, no one remembered, no one made an appointment, no one cared about ......

    Most people sometimes fall into a state of self-denial like Lucy, and like to impose some things that are obviously not related to themselves to themselves and think nonsense, in fact, from another point of view, we ourselves don't like to ask friends out to meet, so others will not think of you.

    So, put down your phone, go out, go to fitness, travel, discover, life, there are always many beautiful unexpected encounters!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I needed someone to talk to, I felt lonely at that moment. There is no one to talk to, no one can help you.

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