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Think about it from a different perspective.
Everything has its two sides, people think too much about the positive impact it brings, but ignore the negative impact it brings, but often think about the problem from the negative, you learn a lot of things.
Give yourself a smile and you can still live a wonderful life. Many times, we always crave test results, and the more we hope for ourselves, the more disappointed we will be when the results are announced. So, we ask ourselves over and over again:
Why wasn't I in first place? "But have you thought about it, why did you do so badly in the exam? Did you work hard?
Did you get it right? Ask yourself more questions like these, and you will find out the reasons for your failure, so that you can prescribe the right medicine and save yourself from the abyss of failure. Give yourself a smile and believe in yourself, and you can still live a wonderful life.
There is a story about a group of people who were in high spirits on the way up the mountain and met tired people who came down from the mountain. So, the climber asked the person who came down the mountain, "How is it?"
Is there anything to do in the mountains? The disappointment on the face of the descendant said, no, nothing, just a ruined temple. If you're a mountaineer, when you hear these words, you stop and you're disappointed.
Did you enjoy your trip? No, not pleasant at all. At this time, you can only give yourself a smile, give yourself a chance, climb up to see what is going on, and maybe, you will discover something new from it.
The great inventor Edison, after studying more than 8,000 materials that are not suitable for making filaments, was asked by someone: You have failed more than 8,000 times, what is the use of continuing to research? Edison said, I have never failed, on the contrary, I have found more than 8,000 materials that are not suitable for making filaments.
Think about it from another angle, and the problem is completely different. Sometimes, being able to come out of failure is also a kind of success, and if you dwell on the pain of failure all day long, then you will never succeed.
Open your heart? Evil? When you are lost, let the sun warm your heart; Pick yourself up again and give yourself a chance when you fail; Let your dreams fly, give yourself a smile and bring yourself one step closer to success.
Think differently, and you will have eternal life.
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Life is a long journey, there are countless twists and turns and obstacles in the journey, people who just want to take the straight road, people who will not change the angle and change the direction, it is difficult to reach the highest point of life, therefore, changing the perspective of life in a timely manner is really the necessity of life and the wisdom of life. It is easy to change the angle, but it is a simple turning action, if you want to change the perspective of life, it is not very easy, it is not only the change of the direction of the body, not only the transformation of space and time, but more importantly, the transformation of people's ideas and the transformation of the way of thinking. What is the secret of Levi's success?
It is to change the perspective of life in a timely manner, and it is with such a high move that he has walked out of a road that many people can't think of and can't go, and it is with such a high move that he has reached the highest point of his life. Looking at life from a different perspective is a wise choice. When you are faced with regrets and sorrows, you will take a walk with your wise feet, and change your perspective, maybe you will "see another village".
Looking at life from a perspective is a symbol of courage. Some people are worried about whether the road ahead is still uncertain if they look at it from a different perspective. But Shaohua is fleeting, and time is running out.
There are thousands of paths in life, and there is always one that suits you. If you have the courage to change your perspective, you will have one more chance of success. A philosopher once said:
A life without regrets is the biggest regret. Since this is the case, we do not need to hesitate, when we encounter shortcomings on the road of life, we will try it from a different angle, with a happy mood and a grateful attitude, as well as tenacious perseverance and determination to succeed to work hard, and we will definitely paint a beautiful and colorful picture of life. Yes, everything has a different angle.
If you think about the problem from a different perspective (from a positive point of view), you may get a completely different result, so that you can forget your troubles and get a lot of happiness.
In our lives, it is inevitable that there will be some small frictions with classmates and friends. Don't always think that it's someone else's fault, that it has nothing to do with you, try to think differently, and in some places, perhaps, you are also responsible. Take the initiative to communicate with them.
You can't help but take on some mistakes so that you can make friends and be liked by everyone.
In our learning, we will inevitably encounter setbacks and failures. But we must not be discouraged and think that God is tormenting us. Why not think about it from a different perspective?
Perhaps it is testing our steadfastness and helping us adapt to the learning environment as early as possible and mature as soon as possible.
In our work, don't always think that others are better than you and that you are worthless. Slowly learn to appreciate yourself, actively cooperate with others, and show your own demeanor at the same time. Think about it another way: in some ways, you're great.
Try to think differently, you will definitely forget your sorrows, and believe that happiness will be with you.
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I once saw a story about a radio host who was absentmindedly mislocated about the author of Little Women on the radio. One of the listeners wrote to him in hatred and scolded him, scolding him to the point of indecency. The host of the radio station was very angry and angry after watching it, and wanted to write back to tell her:
I misstated the location of the area, but I have never seen a woman as rude and rude as you." But he didn't, he took control of himself and didn't make any malicious retaliation to her, he encouraged himself to turn the hostility into friendship. He asked himself
If I were her, would I probably be as angry as she was? He tried to put himself in the audience's shoes and made assumptions. In the end, he decided to give a ** to the audience, repeatedly admitting his mistake to her and apologizing.
The story ends with the listener finally expressing his admiration for the host and hoping to further engage with him. Seeing this, you might say:
This radio host may be a fat man, with a big belly! It's really 'the prime minister's belly can hold the boat'! It's really broad-minded to be a whisper for a small audience."
At first, I thought the same way as you, but after thinking about it from a different angle, I didn't think so. I came to this conclusion: "This radio host is very calm, he knows how to put himself in the shoes of others, and think about this matter from other people's perspectives.
The same thing, after thinking from different angles, will come to different conclusions. Let me give you a simple example: "This example may have been heard or seen by most people, and it is about half a glass of cold boiled water on a table; Two very thirsty children who had just played soccer made two sounds when they saw the water, and one of them shouted in a dry voice:
How can I only have half a glass of water? It's so little, I'm dying of thirst.' And the other child said:
It was amazing, there was still half a glass of water left to drink. As you can see from this simple example, different people look at the same half glass of water from different angles and feel differently. This further confirms what I said, that we should look at the problem from a different perspective.
In life, there are too many examples like this to count, but how many people around you know how to think from a different perspective? If everyone knows how to think from a different perspective, then how can the streets be full of clearly visible garbage? If everyone knows how to think from a different perspective, then how can there be thieves in the world?
People have long since entered the Datong society. If everyone knows how to think from a different perspective, then how can the world have a war in Iraq? If everyone knows how to think about others, and everyone knows how to contribute to the world, then how peaceful the world will be!
If there are so many benefits to a different perspective, why wouldn't you do it?
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