Will there still be bullying after going out into society and participating in work?

In general, introverts are not dominant now, and it is best to change their personality. The whole of China is opening up, and you should go with the flow.

It is regrettable that the phenomenon of honest people being neglected and treated badly still exists in some places and units: some people bury their heads in things and do not publicize them, and they really treat themselves as a brick and need to move, but once there is an opportunity to promote and use, transfer and promotion, they often have "no milk to eat" because they will not "make trouble at night"; Some of them devote themselves to study, have no distractions, become the backbone of the business, the top technology, the courage to shoulder heavy burdens, dare to fight tough battles, but because they are unwilling to make requirements and do not negotiate the price, they are often regarded as "screws" and always tightened, and they are also called "those who can work hard". On the contrary, those "smart people" and "capable people" who are good at observing words and feelings, and who are quick to slap horses, always do not do much and get no less benefits.

Honest people suffer losses, speculators benefit.

The reason why you ask the above questions shows that your heart is very fragile, you are afraid of being teased again, and your ability to deal with problems is not strong. In today's world, we must face challenges bravely. Instead of being afraid of being teased, you should train yourself to be strong and mature.

When you have confidence on your face, no one will bully you.

Will you curse? If not, go to the vegetable market and see how others quarrel! I used to be the same as you, I was often bullied when I was in school, but now I'm not afraid, it's forced out, some people are too much!

When I was angry, I said loudly, what do you do! Someone whispered it, so I found an opportunity to say it, I have the ability to say it to my face, what the hell is talking about people behind my back! Hehe, although sometimes I am still scared when I say it!

It's really comfortable to say it! If I tell you, you just ask them if they are finding fault, and if you dare to be, you will directly slap them! Or kick it, smash it!

Once you will be in power! No one will dare next time!

Of course you will at first, and there will be people who will look down on you, but it doesn't matter.

If you're really that kind, you're going to be cared for and respected.

The key is to adjust your mindset at the beginning.

It's hard to say that when I go to work, everyone helps her if she looks good, and if she does something wrong, everyone talks about her behind her back, but bullying doesn't

It depends on what kind of bullying you have.

If it's just a war of words, then endure it. If you are asked to do everything, it will be abnormal if you are tired and you don't pay for your life, so it's okay not to do it.

Out of society, there are all kinds of people! You can't say that they are all bad people, but there are also people who are really good to you. The society is all deceitful, so the wheel inspection society is complicated.

You just have to stick to what you think is right, treat people with your heart, and distinguish between right and wrong when you don't carry it, and don't trust others completely. After a long time, I will see people's hearts, and I will experience it myself! Learn to protect yourself.

That's not it, the two jobs I changed were fine, and you didn't happen when I started working.

But if someone bullies you, within their control, or can bear it, then persevere, if it is too bullying, then don't bear it, take action when it's time to make a move, it's a big deal to change jobs. Suffer from that wretchedness.

As a man, you need to be able to bend and stretch. Don't cause trouble and don't be afraid of things, don't run their buns.

It's not about bullying, it's about helping you grow, and it's normal to be new to a business.

It's called grinding. That's how social experience comes from, but then again, it's not too much to pretend to be stupid and pass, it's too much, just be rude, and people who can bully people too much will definitely not let go of any soft persimmon.

Find the reason from yourself first, society is the same for everyone, don't always look at others as bad, in fact, you can't simply distinguish people into good people and bad people, it depends on what position you stand on, don't be hostile to people in society, children's performance is often the most real, unlike adults, who are originally two people who are against each other, but for the common good can also act as if nothing happened, this is hypocrisy.

What about your little cousin's family background? When your little cousin is bullied, his parents should immediately teach those who bully him, so that your little cousin can feel that he is not alone, and there is family backing him, so that he can build up his self-confidence!

Looks like your problem is a bit more serious than your cousin's.

The matter between children should be solved by himself, and his future interaction is a process of exercise and a learning process.

Sometimes bullying people is to get the attention of others, not necessarily hostile, so they often turn into very good friends with each other in the process of growing up. To be treated separately.

At the end of the day, they feel that there is some interest in bullying him;

or to strengthen one's position (don't underestimate the child's world);

or prove that you are better than others;

Or so out of a cruel nature (the law of the jungle);

It is recommended that children should not have low self-esteem in junior high school, try to prove that they are, behave as much as possible like other children, and be sure to make a few friends and friends with a sense of justice.

But perhaps, this will make a different life for him.

Everyone's development is different, it is mainly up to him, and too much intervention is a tragedy for the child.

It may not necessarily be analyzed from someone else's point of view. Because it is human nature to bully the weak and fear the hard. And your cousin has a weak personality and will naturally become the target of bullying by those boring little kids.

The more he was bullied, the more he didn't dare to resist, and the more he didn't dare to resist being bullied by Yue. So it's best to find a way to make your cousin's character stronger and braver, and encourage him to do things that he doesn't normally dare to do, and if his timid personality changes, no one will bully her

In fact, some people bully their classmates just to be bored and find something to have fun, and these people will appear in all classes, but the way of expression is a little different. Some give nicknames to others, some beat people, and some laugh at others. As long as you are strong enough, or your cousin has better grades, and has some prestige in the class, others will not be able to bully you.

You have to encourage your cousin and ask him to build up his self-confidence and enthusiasm for others so that he can integrate into the class.

Generally.

There is always a flashpoint.

If anything can be done by that time.

I'll give you an example.

A college student, very poor, poor people can't afford to buy shoes.

The classmates in the dormitory looked down on him.

But a classmate helped him and bought him food.

At one time, the classmates insulted him.

In the afternoon he bought a stone hammer.

At night, not all of them were killed.

Except to help him with that.

You have to do more work for your brother.

Take him out to play.

Be distracted and have self-confidence.

That's it.

Looking at Chinese history, the idea of oppression and domination in feudal society is deeply ingrained in the hearts of the Chinese! Who does not envy the emperor, who does not want to have supreme rights.

There is an old saying: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden!

School violence is not uncommon.

There was no such thing at that school, especially middle and high school!

I'm also from campus, but I'm a beater. Sweat.

Didn't think about it at the time? It's just that I feel like I should be like someone in Crazy Boys.

I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, there was a student among the first-year students who had just started school, and his dad drove a dozen people to the school on a motorcycle, and pulled an old man selling sweet potatoes at the door! And then everybody felt that this classmate couldn't mess with him, of course, as for us, to win him over

The influence of the old boy on recent generations in China is very large, affecting the students of the 80s, and once there is a culture of violence in the school, it will only expand the influence of the students from generation to generation.

To learn to bully people, you must first learn to be bullied.

When you learn to be bullied, there is no need to bully others.

The one on the second floor seems to be Maccabius.

There is a ** written by a foreigner called "Lord of the Flies", which is a story about some children stranded on a desert island, which can see through the dark psychology of human beings since childhood. Maybe it will help you.

I believe that this kind of person should be difficult to meet, that kind of person is terminally ill.

Said I haven't encountered it, maybe your approach is too ostentatious, others can't look at it, my friend once because he looked at others twice, he was beaten up, he looks quite wild anyway, it depends on your behavior and your appearance. Dress up ordinary, don't wear weird on the street. Tattooed dragon and tiger tattooed with gold chain, it is really useless.

You think it's going to be great, but in the eyes of others, it's probably a pen.

He was admitted to a psychiatric hospital (psychiatric hospital).

The people you meet in society are not the ones in the school.

A young and simple classmate. In society, you first have to learn to meet people and talk back to people, and answer ghosts. There are also some people you don't provoke, but you invite trouble...

The best thing to do is to ignore him and get along with him. Many people like to bully new employees, but if you can find one or two good colleagues in the company, you won't be bullied.

Social phenomenon, people nowadays are deceitful and cunning.

It is necessary to learn to fight in the wind and waves, exercise and temper. to adapt to social realities.

1. It is indeed a social phenomenon.

2. No company is absolutely pure, good.

3. Improve yourself: work hard and be good at communication.

Be in the world when you are awake, and read when you are confused.

Where there are friends, there will be enemies, just look at the point.

Look what you're here for.

Mix the underworld.,I guess what you're saying is right.,I don't know about it anyway.。。。

If it's a mixed society (ordinary people), your words are not necessarily right, and if you're a particularly strong girl, you can behave like what you say.

If you want someone to hurt and be cared for, you are generally afraid, and not everything can be handled by yourself, girls are more likely to arouse boys' desire to protect, that is to say, they are more likable and can get help from others (of course, if you are afraid of everything, you can't do it, it will only annoy people, except for those with particularly high appearance), so generally in the work and life of society, girls should properly show their fear and delicate side.

If you can't do this, people will mix in society, and it is best to appear in the truest and purest colors, pretending that you will be tired and will never be able to get up. A person with a true temperament will be respected and admired by others, and no one will dare to bully you.

Girls are different from boys, and it's still very distressing to be a little softer.

It's also not, depending on the situation, it's not easy to find a partner for fearless performance. Men like weak girls.

Let's act when the opportunity arises, we must grasp a degree of everything, and it is good to grasp this degree and do things.

I think yes, girls basically do that.

Since it's in the mix. Just to whomever you want, what kind of heart to play. You need to get to know others first!

Generally speaking, this is the case, but you must also know how to show weakness as a person, too strong and easy to break.

It's probably like this, it's just that others can't understand you, and you can't understand others, single parents?

yes, that's usually the case.

That's right, most of them.

Sometimes soft is better than rigid.

Messing around'What's the end? Fall into being ridden by 10,000 people?

Bear with it, and call the police as a last resort.

Go back and study hard and ignore those people.