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What is Johan? Chengfu usually describes a person as having scheming, and will not casually reveal his scheming, and it is difficult for others to see through him. In ideal life, we should have more or less come into contact with some people in the city, and deal with them, and some people may have suffered the losses of people in the city, and they are very jealous of them, and they may be very envious.
Indeed, society is complex, which requires that people must have a certain city, otherwise it will be difficult to mix. So, how to be a person with a deep city? Look at the performance of those people who are deep in the city, and you can learn a thing or two.
The following people who share the depth of the city do not say, but they often have 20 performances, which can account for more than half, it is very fierce. The demand points out that these performances are a comprehensive manifestation of people in the deep city, not the performance of a specific person, but that some people account for more and some people account for less. Okay, let's learn together.
Wang Yangming: "If the city is deep, you can know it at a glance": People who are deep in the city do not say, but they often have 8 performances.
1.There is a special self-discipline and self-control in words and deeds, and you can't see that he is in a mood that is out of control, and even if he does, it is often his intention to show you.
2.When encountering things, I will think about it first, rather than rushing to speak, even if I express it, it is also very organized and can control the rhythm of speech.
3.In the face of favor and humiliation, no matter what thoughts and feelings you have in your heart, you will not show it casually, which is what people often say, "joy and anger are invisible".
4.No matter what kind of opinion you have in your heart, even if you look down on you a little, but when you are in contact with you, you will show abundant respect, and there will be no rude words and deeds, which will make you feel very comfortable.
5.He may not lack the talent for expression, but he is better at silence and listening, silence is to prevent others from seeing his truth, and listening is to better understand others.
6.There are disagreements with others, and what is thought in the heart is often not the same thing as what is said on the lips; I am a combination of knowledge and action, good at learning and capable of doing.
7.I don't like to take advantage of small things, and I rarely suffer big losses. Therefore, although there will be twists and turns and failures, they will not be completely knocked down.
8.Scheming and delicate, have a keen perception of other people's mood changes, and can stand in the perspective of others, fully think about others, so that the people around them feel very comfortable when they get along with them.
Of course, the above 8 points are just my superficial understanding of Wang Yangming's psychology!
Some people say that a person's life should read Wang Yangming, his life, to our descendants left a valuable spiritual wealth!
In this rapidly changing world, who can guarantee that they can stick to their original intentions?
This is especially true in this era of material supremacy, profit first, value pursuit and inner belief are extremely scarce.
Wang Yangming has a poem that says: "Everyone has their own fixing needle, and the root of Wanhua is always in the heart." But he laughed at the past and saw it upside down, and looked for it outside the branches and leaves. "The modern people who are running around in Vanity Fair and the ups and downs of the world are looking for their own fixing needle.
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People in the city are generally 5 kinds of performance, see if there are such people around you?
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The eyes of people who are deep in the city are characterized by being relatively deep. At a glance, I feel that he is very scheming. He is also very careful when he speaks.
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People who are deep in the city. He spoke very slowly, and every word he had already thought about in his head, and it would take him three or four times to say it. His eyes are very soft, and I can't see his joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
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The eyes of those who are deep in the city have their own merits. Generally, you can't tell a person's eyes from the eyes. The so-called road knows the horsepower, and only after seeing people's hearts can we know the depth of a person's city
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People in the deep city are not chaotic when encountering problems, they are thoughtful, and their eyes are peaceful.
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Those who are deep in the city have deep eyes.
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1. Primary stage: the eyes are ancient and there are no waves, and there is no emotion. A smile on his face.
2. Intermediate stage: the happiness in the eyes seems very fake, and the smile on the face is very real.
3. Advanced stage: the eyes are full of happiness, and the face is also full of happiness.
Manifestation. 1. The person with the deepest scheming will not let you see that her scheming is very deep, that is to say, she will pretend in various ways, in fact, such a person has a high IQ and is very scary.
2. Very insightful and insightful. He can grasp the big picture, grasp all kinds of details, and can only summarize complex situations in three to five words. The face is gentle and generous, but the heart is as sharp as a knife.
3. Be able to take into account the overall situation and grasp the whole situation. Good at activating social capital.
Spend someone else's money, do things for someone else, and profit from it.
4. Shrewd and sophisticated, flamboyant. Use the resources you can use in exchange for what you want, such as beauty, money, status, etc., and also often do things for salary, two people face three times, put the stone down.
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A person who is deep in the city, his eyes are not simple or even fine, because they think a lot and have complex thoughts, so their eyes don't look so clear, at least you can't see any information in his eyes.
Be patient, no matter what it is, be very patient, do not be impulsive, be low-key, do not always show yourself, the so-called "gun shoots the first bird", very understand the truth of doing things.
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The extremely deep eyes of the city government are no different from the eyes of ordinary people, because this kind of joy and anger are no longer shown on the face after they have become accustomed to hiding their inner thoughts.
Elementary stage: The eyes are ancient and there are no waves, and there is no emotion. A smile on his face.
Intermediate stage: The happiness in the eyes seems fake, and the smile on the face is real.
Advanced stage: There is happiness in the eyes and happiness on the face.
The people of Chengfu Shen are very scheming, although some are not necessarily bad scheming, but Chengfu Shen is generally said to be bad people, so you must be careful when interacting with people in Chengfu Shen, if you are not careful, you will be framed and I don't know what's going on.
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Most people with deep cities will have these three characteristics, and they can't be wrong if they keep an eye on them.
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Characteristics of people in the deep city: cautious;Joy and anger are invisible;Hearts and mouths are inconsistent;Patience and waiting;Scheming.
1. People who are very deep in the city are cautious.
Generally speaking, people who have a certain city government must be some cautious people. They will not easily fall into the trap of others, and they will also assess and judge the overall situation. No matter what situation they face, they are able to be calm.
2. People who are very deep in the city government are indescribably happy and angry.
In the eyes of many people, if you are bullied, you should keep a straight face and settle accounts with the other party immediately. This approach often puts oneself in a passive situation, and it is easy for others to find out their own details. And those who are very deep in the city, they are full of joy and anger, and although their hearts are full of turmoil, no one can know it.
3. People who are very deep in the city have different hearts.
In the workplace, there is a kind of person who is still more terrifying, that is, a person who has a set of faces and a knife in the back. These people with "different hearts" may treat themselves very well at one moment, but the next moment they will murder themselves. They treat themselves well as an illusion, and they come to deceive them.
And their true purpose is often hidden in the dark depths of their hearts, which is unpredictable.
4. People who are very deep in the city are ready to endure.
People in the deep city can be angry because they want to deal with a person better. If you want to deal with a person, the best thing to do is to first forbear, and then charge up the blow. The so-called "preemptive strike, plan and then act."
Only by forbearance can we avoid its edge, so as to gather strength and let the other party suffer a devastating blow.
5. People who are very deep in the city are scheming.
People who only use their fists to deal with others are actually people who are simple in their hearts and have no scheming. However, the most terrible thing in this world should be those who work hard and let people fall into the trap of their own accord. People who are very deep in the city, they don't say much, they don't show their attitude, they only calculate silently.
Because scheming behavior can often make the other party suffer more harm and complete revenge on him.
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The characteristics of the people in the city are as follows:
1. Hide deeply, always have a smile on your face, and hide your true thoughts.
How many things in life are just a smile." The people who really have the city government are not the "fierce gods and evil spirits and sideways faces" as you imagined, but they have a good face and are very friendly in dealing with people. He has a lot of connections, but not many people who have a deep relationship with him.
He doesn't join useless social circles.
2. Be tactful.
People who are very deep in the city government have been erased by life and have found a way to survive in society. He lived a good life, but he was inconspicuous, not high-minded, and not presumptuous. When it comes to interpersonal interactions, when you are duplicitous and act too shrewdly, it is annoying.
Therefore, people who are very deep in the city government are sleek and moderate, and they also have the performance of taking the initiative to distinguish between right and wrong.
3. Ambiguous speech.
Those who have scheming cities always like to detour when they speak, especially when it comes to their own interests, they never make a clear statement. Therefore, those who speak with special attention and are always ambiguous are undoubtedly very deep. Because they never reveal their true thoughts, naturally no one understands their hearts.
4. Be good at forbearance and dormancy.
People who are deep in the city have great ambitions. They are extremely demanding of themselves, and they all feel that they are failures until they succeed. So it will be cautious and carefully prepare for dormancy. If a person can endure what ordinary people can't endure, then most of this person is a person who is very deep in the city.
5. Be a man.
The people who are left and right are basically those "good old people" who greet each other with a smile all day long. They are in circles from all sides, they are very enthusiastic about everyone, and they seem to be very popular. But in fact, this enthusiasm is deceptive, they are just defending their own interests.
People who are very deep in the city government are all left and right, and they must not overestimate their relationship with each other because of their superficial enthusiasm.
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There is no rule, what you can't see and can't find is excellent, they are very lonely, they will feel that the people who measure them are stupid, IQ, EQ, reverse quotient, experience to a certain level, you will slowly approach.
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You can't see his eyes, he always wears a pair of glasses with excellent reflectivity!
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Elementary stage: The eyes are ancient and there are no waves, and there is no emotion. A smile on his face.
Intermediate stage: The happiness in the eyes seems fake, and the smile on the face is real.
Advanced stage: There is happiness in the eyes and happiness on the face.
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If you can see from your eyes that a person's city is very deep, then you are a genius! Hey!
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It's not shocking, it's very bland, it looks gentle on the surface, and there are a lot of calculations in the heart.
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