I am deep in the city, is my scheming heavy? The people of the city are very deep

The main second.

The depth of the city government marks the level of a person's quality and cultivation. There are flowers in the world that bloom and fall, and the moon is full and the moon is lost; There are ups and downs in life, ups and downs; This is a very common thing! When I was a teenager, I always knew only one thing about everything, and I didn't think about the other; Even if the sesame seeds are big, they will be exaggerated, and they will feel bad in their hearts.

If it's a big event, it's even more restless, and I'm honestly afraid. That age is the age of no castle, and if there is, it is called old! As you grow older, primary, secondary, college; The knowledge gained is constantly increasing; Going to society, after the tempering of many events, those who should endure endured, and those who should wait.

No more anger, no more hoarseness, no more anger. This shows that the city government has gone from shallow to deep. The city hall is marked by a person's words and deeds.

Second, "city government" specifically refers to people's scheming when dealing with others, and also gave a special example to illustrate: if there is no city government, people are frank. In this way, the depth and shallowness of the city government represent the more or less scheming of the world when dealing with interpersonal relationships, and the word "scheming" still has its positive significance if it is used in people's activities to transform the objective and subjective world.

3. The city government is a kind of human skill, a skill that is introverted and not exposed.

1.Ask other people's questions, like to look at other people's eyes and faces, when I already know the answer, I feel very suspicious, I have never taken what others say to me, maybe you can say that you are not confident enough, you yourself are too sensitive...It's not like you're 21 years old, I think you may have been hurt, so it's like this, someone messed with you, you smiled and said it's okay, which shows that you are still generous and well-educated, but why do you still want to keep it in mind?

Give him back a little bit This really means that your city government has been deeply reformed.

I think you like it very much, and enjoy this kind of much-praised life, so you will live close to this kind of day and follow your own ideas. I think it's not bad, after all, this kind of ability to observe words and colors is indispensable in the workplace, and it is not something that everyone can learn. However, it's better not to be careful, that way, girls don't like it

It's not scheming... It's that the barrier of the heart is too thick ... Or maybe you don't trust anyone at all.

No, I just didn't open my heart, and there are some things that I don't need to care about so much.

Hehe, this can only show that your thinking skills are too strong.

People who have scheming and city government in life usually think about themselves, no matter what they do, they will give priority to themselves, they are particularly sociable, and they will work step by step in order to achieve their goals, and they will live better in life.

People with this mentality are often the most tired in life, because they don't know how to tolerate others.

I think their lives are generally poor, calculating others all day long, calculating, sometimes even sleeping thinking about how to take advantage of others, their lives are not good.

The people of the city are very deep

1. Be cautious in your speech, never express your opinions indiscriminately, see more and talk less, and know that if you say more, you will lose.

2. It does not involve personal interests, and one eye is closed.

3. Will pretend to be stupid, and see it better than anyone else to show that he doesn't know how to balance anything.

4. The front locust reed is round on the outside and square on the inside, the appearance is sleek, and the heart is very principled.

5. Be a very low-key person.

6. What to do, I don't know what to do, and it is a foregone conclusion to make a silent move in secret.

If you want to mix well, you must quit these six habits!

1. Quit the habit of lifting the bar with others.

2. Quit habits that are too serious.

3. Quit pretentious habits.

4. Quit the habit of speaking without thinking.

5. Quit the habit of asking one sentence from others and bringing yourself back ten sentences.

6. Quit the habit of always passing the blame on others.

01 Extremely sensitive heart.

People describe a person with a delicate mind, and it is often said that this person is "as delicate as a hair".

A person with a sensitive heart is often keenly aware of the emotional changes and psychological reactions of others, and is more thoughtful when doing things.

This should be an advanced skill, but things must be reversed, if the heart is too sensitive, then the small changes in the surrounding environment will cause inner waves: a meaningful look, a sentence that the speaker does not intend to listen to the intention of the listener, can trigger the inner imagination.

People with sensitive hearts are most likely to be sentimental, and the continuous spring rains, the autumn leaves, the summer heat, the lonely afternoon, and the silent sunset in winter ......

Everything can affect the sensitive nerves in the heart, happiness is only a moment, but sadness is like a surging river.

02 Not good at expressing oneself.

A lot of people who are heavy on their minds just aren't good at expressing themselves.

The best way to be suspicious and dissatisfied with other people's behavior and words is to communicate immediately, and talk about the good and the bad. Communication is like opening a window to the soul, ventilating the mind, many negative emotions are like anaerobic bacteria, opening the window of the soul, doubts will be eliminated, and bad emotions will disappear.

On the contrary, if you hide your doubts in your heart, your doubts will not disappear, but they will be like food, which will rot and deteriorate after a long time, ferment and swell to an unimaginable scale, and finally burst out from the bottom of your heart, which is no longer the little doubt and dissatisfaction you had at the beginning.

People who are heavy on their hearts are not good at expressing themselves, are afraid of communication, and bury their hearts deep in their hearts, so they cannot remove the negative emotions in their hearts, and it is difficult to be happy.

03 I like to jump to conclusions.

Many people who have a heavy heart feel that they have read all the warmth and coldness of the world and seen the vicissitudes of history, but in fact it is just an illusion of themselves.

I like to follow my feelings, and if I rely too much on my feelings, I will jump to conclusions.

For example: "When I met and said hello to the boss today, the boss ignored me, it must be that I am not satisfied with me, and I will not have a chance to be promoted next time?" ”

My boyfriend was absent-minded at dinner at night, he must have something to hide from me, it can't be that he has another girl in his heart, right? ”

People don't feel reliable, your boss may not pay attention to you at all, your boyfriend may be absent-minded and thinking about the ball game at night. When you feel that someone else has a problem, don't trust your own judgment so much and jump to conclusions.