If you want your children to enter society and encounter fewer barriers, what qualities do you need

Respecting others means knowing how to respect, and it is important to teach children to value. Respect the character of others, respect the body of others, and respect the right of others to use property. Understand what personal behavior is incorrect, learn to control your actions, and understand why you are doing it.

You need to get his permission to play with other people's small toys, if you accidentally hit someone else, you should say really sorry to others, and when the teacher comes to distribute fresh fruits, you need to say thank you to the teacher.

Teaching children to be kind is to teach them to respect their friends, animals, love themselves, live gently with the society and talk with the world. What determines the fate of a child's life is not a variety of factors such as appearance, intelligence, and family background, but a kind-hearted heart. Kindness is the most valuable pass card for children on the long road of life, which will help children go further and fly higher.

As the little girl said, if you want to make a decision between appropriateness and kindness, choose kindness.

Children will one day step into society, and it is important to teach children a correct outlook on life and learn to be a strong person at heart. To teach children to be upright, we must start from the hour in life, for example, we don't have to protect our children's mistakes, and when they make mistakes, we must use the right attitude to guide them. I used to see a parenting **, when his daughter beat her sister, the father always insisted that his daughter say sorry.

She told her daughter, although you didn't mean to, you have to say that you are really sorry.

Self-discipline is expressed in a person's ability to control himself, and this person is the quality necessary for a person to attain a higher level of edification. Teaching children self-discipline is to teach them self-regulation and self-restraint. The role model of parents is very important in the shaping of children's self-control, if parents are very good at self-regulation and self-restraint, then it is very important for children's learning.

Similarly, if parents are addicted to playing cards every day, they should not expect their children to complete their homework on time and study hard when they look at their phones. Because we don't have enough attention and role models around us.

In fact, parents need to understand that from the day their child lands, he is an independent person. As an independent person, its development is not only about physical IQ and other aspects, but also about taking responsibility for what it does. Start from the hour of life and let the child take responsibility for his own actions.

When a child falls, as long as she has the ability to stand up on her own, do not help him easily, and comfort her to stand up on her own; When a child has a conflict or contradiction with others, he must find out what is going on before he can speak up, do not blindly cover up or blame his own child, when the child breaks the book, tell the child that he must take care of the object, and work with him to stain the book.

For example, you must know how to deal with things flexibly, and you must be relatively low-key in life and work.

The first point is to teach how to get along with others, the second point is to learn to respect others, so that you can also be respected, and the third point is to learn not to bully others, but also to have your own principles.

Let the child be a particularly polite person, know how to be grateful, constantly shape his own image, and communicate and communicate with others more.

Many families are mothers who are responsible for taking care of the baby, and fathers are responsible for making money to support the family. Some babies are not even willing to be close to their fathers, which is not only not good for the baby's growth, but also makes the mother feel very tired. We are all looking for the best parenting style, in fact, there is no special way, but the best parenting must have the participation of the father.

Mother's love is gentle like water, it can make children like a spring breeze, and father's love is solid, it can make children feel strength. When the baby is teased, the sense of insecurity is stronger, he is afraid of the dark at night, dare not sleep by himself, if the bedside light is turned off, the baby begins to cry, usually the mother gets up to comfort the baby, on the dad's day, the mother may wish to take a break, let the father hold the baby in his arms, so that the child feels the warmth from the father. Babies love to kick the quilt at night, and sometimes when adults are negligent, he may catch a cold.

Therefore, the father may wish to prepare a sleeping bag with separate legs for the baby to prevent the baby from kicking and kicking.

Give your child a different kind of love.

In Chinese families, fathers spend very little time with their children, and sometimes it's not that they don't want to spend time with their children, but they really don't have time. On Daddy's Day, no matter how busy you are, I hope that Daddy will be by your child's side. Tell stories to your child after work at night and put your baby to sleep.

The baby does not sleep honestly, usually at night at the end of the bed, in the morning to the end of the bed, so it is easy to fall off the bed, fall and hurt the baby. Daddy may wish to take advantage of Daddy's Day to buy an anti-fall fence for babies and children, and surround the bed at night to prevent the child from falling out of bed.