After entering society, what edges and corners have you smoothed?

First, I will no longer lose my temper arbitrarily, even if there are more complaints, I have learned to be patient, second, no longer stay up late, go to bed early and get up early every day, third, I must smile every day to face life, and learn to be false and wronged.

From talking without a head at the beginning, to not daring to say what you think, and even sometimes having to self-reflect. From the courage to take responsibility at the beginning to slowly learn to shirk. From being fearless at the beginning to not daring to say anything, not wanting to do anything, this should be the price of growing up after entering society.

Life is a melting pot, and too many challenges and setbacks will turn the child whose heart is higher than the sky into a compromised adult.

Many times, we are unhappy, not because of loneliness, but because we are too powerless, too unwilling to give up. We can't meet the self-expectations of our youth, so we are languishing little by little in reality, because we admit that we will not be the person we wanted to be when our hearts were higher than the sky, the hero who can do everything and even go to heaven and earth.

We lose a lot of sincerity as we grow up, and we lose the innocence of our hearts as we mature. Many people's loss is against their youthful aspirations. I think I'm mature, I think I'm practiced, I think I'm shrewd, how naïve I used to be, I finally saw through it, and I want to wear it.

As a result, we become the kind of people we hated the most when we were young.

Get out of the shackles of life and be your true self :

In life, we are always playing a variety of roles, wearing different masks on different occasions. After a long time, it seems like we really are. Gradually, I forgot who I was at the beginning.

A person, forgetting or missing, regretting or unwilling, is just my own business, and has nothing to do with other people. If we haven't forgotten the past, it's never because we miss others, but because we miss ourselves in the past years.

If you can't see clearly, let it continue to blur. Some things, some love, some love, some people, see too thoroughly, but will be hurt. There are some things that you can't do about it, so you just let it be; Some people, who can't force it, just laugh it off; There are some roads that cannot be avoided, so there is no turning back.

It turns out that the invisible scars hurt the most, and the tears that can't flow out are the coldest.

It's not that some people will be "smoothed out" after entering society, but that everyone with normal thinking ability has to go through the growth stage when they enter society, but some people have a mellow personality and a softer reaction when they hit a wall.

It is mentioned in developmental psychology that when people enter adolescence, people's physiological development tends to be smooth and mature, thinking gradually reaches a mature level, independence is increasing, personality tends to be stereotyped, and social adaptability, values and moral values are formed and mature.

After entering adolescence, personality and sociality gradually develop, they pay attention to the evaluation of themselves by others, in order to know themselves through the evaluation of themselves by others, and through the sense of identity of their peers, to understand themselves, to explore and try to establish a stable sense of self-identity, which is what we call "smoothing the edges and corners".

Although human beings are independent individuals, they cannot exist independently from society. If society is compared to a big river, it has its fixed direction, and each of us is a pebble or a weed at the bottom of the river, although occasionally the hard and angular delusions try to hinder its pace, but the current soothes you with its soft body, and accumulates over time until you no longer have the sharpness you used to have.

In fact, to put it bluntly, it is not that the edges and corners are "smoothed" by the society, but that they have learned to adapt to the society.

This is like a tutor, the family scolds you better than the outsiders scold you, I was young and frivolous, I was also a newborn calf who was not afraid of tigers, but in the end I also believed in fate. It is good to read more books.

Because I am young, I don't know how cruel the outside world is, so I will often hit the wall, just like the edges and corners of a stone, and the more times I collide, the more I will become smoother, and this is how people grow up.

Because they want to survive, and most ordinary people have no special skills, their families have no money, and they can only engage in ordinary jobs, but ordinary jobs can basically be done by everyone, and they have no advantages of their own, so they can only rely on the boss to survive. And he became tactful, and saw what people said.

Why is it said that society will smooth out a person's water chestnut, the main reason? All kinds of sufferings in society will smooth out people's tempers, and they will be more thoughtful when they encounter problems.

Alone. He had to go through a few things when he came into society. You have to change yourself in order to adapt to this society. He goes through this process, which is the process of being smoothed out. When she adapts to this society and can survive, he will be smoothed out.

Society is a big environment, a big climate. A person is an independent individual, and he must adapt to this environment in order to survive the fittest. Therefore, if you have any shortcomings, you have to correct them, and if you adapt to them, the edges and corners will be smoothed out.

Because when I first entered society. People tend to have more personality. Young people are fearless? But society does not allow everyone to have individuality. It will turn people into indifference and ruthlessness.

In fact, this is where education in China fails, and the school is out of touch with society, resulting in college students not being able to enter society smoothly, and at the same time, there is a disconnect between skills and social needs.

Because in society you will experience. A lot of things that you experience that you don't have to step into society. So.

You'll not be as sharp as you used to be. It's in real life. You will.

Pointed. Put away your thorns. Let you become more and more sleek, and at the same time, you are no longer like when you were young, you will no longer complain about things when you are uneasy, and you can go with the flow, so society will smooth out a person's edges and corners, and it is very right to spend yourself.

When young people first enter society, they will suffer a lot of losses, and they have never seen or done many things.

Therefore, it is normal to be deceived by losses, and slowly learn from the experience, and people become smarter!

Because what kind of person he needs in this society now, he will grind you into what kind of person, a person is not afraid of tigers when he is born, this is because you have just come out, so you will feel that you are not afraid of anything, but over time you will be defeated by this reality, what society needs is that everyone is the same.

It's a normal metaphor, because society is so cruel, and he will let us learn to improve our own shortcomings through failures and lessons one after another.

To smooth out a person's edges and corners, I think the most important thing is that he has to put himself down, and society is a very good platform for you to put yourself down. The reason why we have too heavy self is because we see our own interests at the highest point, so there is a very terrible attachment to ourselves, so people have so many troubles and society can smooth out people's edges and corners, it is because he has found his own bad places in the process of constantly practicing himself, so he will say that society will smooth out a person's edges and corners.

Because people will encounter a lot of unpleasant things in life. However, there are many things that cannot be transferred by one's own will. It is necessary to adapt to the development and needs of society.

To change yourself. Perceptions and living habits. So it can be said that society will smooth out a person's edges and corners.

Otherwise, you won't be able to survive in society.

I think this sentence should be understood in this way, that is, when a child is seventeen or eighteen years old, when he is twenty years old, he is young and frivolous, and when he is twenty-seven or eighteen years old, he will not be so young and frivolous.

In life, everyone will experience a variety of tempering, at different ages we have different personalities, when we are young we are easy to be impulsive, not afraid of heaven and earth, feel that we have enough energy, enough energy to do something, but when we continue to fail, hit a wall, let our enthusiasm continue to decrease, we find that it is not with a passion to be able to accomplish some things, so we slowly see the reality of society and the remnants of the land is cool. It's like this slowly experienced, the impulse of youth, so smoothed out by the ruthless social life, now the change is more stable and mature, doing things and speaking need to be thoughtful, think clearly before you can make a decision, no longer as impulsive as before!

In the past, my temper was also very willful, no matter who said anything, I was willing to go back without suffering, and my temper was also very irritable, and slowly when we participated in the work, no one would be, because you were pampered at home, to take care of your emotions, and would not give you the green light for some reasons, or to relax the requirements for you, and treat everyone equally at work, no matter who you are, you need to be criticized if you do something wrong, and no one will save face for you. Slowly, you will feel that we are not princesses, and there will always be someone who spoils you, or you still need to change yourself, slowly irritable temper, but more patience and tolerance! Life gradually smooths out all kinds of edges and corners on our body, in fact, it is not an overnight thing, but in the process of our continuous experience of things, we have changed our willfulness, impulsiveness, impatience and other bad tempers! Because only by changing yourself can you adapt to the society and play a different role in the society!

So we will feel that sometimes it has really changed, and we don't know each other, is this still the same person who has personality and ambition and dares to love? Why do you now become cringe, and even think about things so carefully? This is the education that life gives us in the big classroom of society, everyone has to adapt, to constantly change themselves, to adapt to this collective life, so that we can be more tolerant, more patient, stronger, stronger in heart, to accept the various tests given to us by the life feast!

I don't feel that the edges and corners have been smoothed out by life, it is a bow to life, we still have what we insist on in our hearts, we still have that enthusiasm, but we have become more mature, when we should work hard, when we should struggle, we will still give all our energy! Work towards your goal!

1. When you learn to be patient, you will find that you have been smoothed out by life.

When we were young, we were full of energy, high spirits, and acted in a hurry. At that time, we could say what we wanted to say and do what we wanted, and we didn't care about anything. But as we grow older, we gradually learn to be patient, and even if we are in a hurry, we can be very calm on the surface.

At this time, you will realize the feeling that you have been smoothed by life, 2, think twice before you encounter an accident, and no longer act impulsively, proving that you have been smoothed out by life.

When I was young, I often did things casually, and many times I didn't think it through. Although this state will make me encounter difficulties a lot of times, I am full of energy and very honest at that time. When I grew up, I experienced a lot of things, understood a lot of truths, and when I encountered things again, I would not act impulsively, but think twice and act more prudently.

3. You can talk and laugh with people you don't like, so that you can realize that your edges and corners have been smoothed out by life.

We tend to avoid people we don't like. But sometimes, in order to accomplish something, I will choose to make compromises, to socialize with people I don't like, and even to talk and laugh with them. ......At this moment, you will deeply realize that you have been smoothed out by life, and you are very different from your young self.

Life experiences will make everyone's personality, ideas, and values different. In some experiences, people change, some edges and corners are smoothed, some thoughts are transformed, and some values are reshaped. For me, there is one experience that has made me feel smoothed out by life, and that is the experience of entering the workplace.

When I entered the workplace, I found myself very naïve and immature in some ways. For example, the handling of interpersonal relationships, attitude and planning towards work, etc. These problems may not be exposed in school, but they become especially noticeable in the workplace.

Relationships in the workplace are the smoothest part of me. In school, classmates get along with each other based on common hobbies and interests, but in the workplace, different people, different personalities, different backgrounds, and different goals make interpersonal interactions complicated and tricky. I have encountered some setbacks and tribulations in dealing with interpersonal relationships, but I have also learned how to get along with different people, how to deal with conflicts, how to work with colleagues, etc.

It has made me more mature and calm.

Another thing that makes me feel smoothed out by life is the attitude and planning of work. In the workplace, everyone has their own duties and responsibilities. I've found that when I'm passionate about my work and have a purpose, I'm more productive and fulfilled.

At the same time, I also understand that a person's professional rules are very important, and they need to constantly learn and improve themselves, and constantly set goals and directions for themselves.

In addition, the various experiences in the workplace have also changed my attitude towards work and life. In school, the focus of my life was studying, but in the workplace, I realized that I need to balance the focus of my life, not only hard work and hard work, but also interests and hobbies in life, so that I can live a healthier and happier life.

Overall, entering the workplace was an experience that made me feel like I was being teased by life. In the workplace, I have learned a lot and grown a lot, which has made me more mature and stable.