I m going to junior high school, and I like a guy very much, and he s going to change schools, and h

Fear of pain sharks and fish: Someone once did an experiment, put one of the most ferocious sharks and a group of tropical fish in the same pool, and then separated them with tempered glass, at first, the shark kept hitting the invisible glass every day, it was just in vain, it could not go to the opposite side, and the experimenters put some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark did not lack prey, but it still wanted to go to the other side, wanted to try the beautiful taste, every day is still constantly hitting the glass, it tried every corner, Every time I tried my best, but every time I was always scarred, several times I broke and bleed, and it lasted for several days, and whenever the glass cracked, the experimenter immediately added a thicker piece of glass. Later, the shark no longer collided with the glass, and no longer cared about those colorful tropical fish, as if they were just a moving mural on the wall, it began to wait for the crucian carp that would appear every day, and then hunted with his agile instinct, as if returning to the sea to be unstoppable, but all this is just an illusion, the experiment reached the final stage, the experimenter took the glass away, but the shark did not react, and it still swam in a fixed area every day not only to ignore those tropical fish, Even when the crucian carp fled to that side, he immediately gave up the pursuit, saying that he would not go any further, and when the experiment was over, the experimenters ridiculed it as the most cowardly fish in the sea.

But anyone who has ever fallen out of love knows why, it's afraid of pain.

He wants you to let go of him as soon as possible, so as not to make you suffer a lot in the days when he goes abroad, as long as you are better, then that love will always be there, no one will be so ruthless, he is for your good, wait, save this love until the moment he returns.

First of all, you are brave enough to show your love to the same sex, which a lot of gay people can't do.

Secondly, in fact, many people can't understand the fact that they like people of the same gender, they will think that you are different, or even look at you in a worse light. Maybe you don't understand it, but you have to be mentally prepared that your classmate may only like girls, and he doesn't know how to answer because he thinks it's incredible that you confess it.

The worst-case scenario is that the guy you like not only doesn't like you, but also tells the rest of the class about your confession, making you come out directly in front of your friends and even teachers and parents. If you encounter this kind of thing, don't think about giving him up, liking straight men is one of the compulsory courses of gay. You still be yourself, don't be embarrassed.

It's not a disease, but sometimes we make a decision and we need to think about the possible consequences that you can bear.

What I said above is the worst outcome, of course, if that boy also likes you, he shouldn't tell others, but maybe he can't take this step psychologically, you don't have to confess anymore, just continue to get along like that, if he dares to take that step, he will reply to you.

He doesn't know about homosexuality. You're scaring him.

It should have scared him, I think he should keep his distance from you now, after all, homosexuality is not acceptable to ordinary people, especially if I don't know if I like men too.

You don't have to do anything, the best state is to stay the way you are. Or look at it:

1. Falling in love? You don't have the time or energy to return to the environment, and you can't answer suitably, this feeling of being about to fall in love and not falling in love is the best.

2. Don't confess that your heart is itchy and unbearable? Because you haven't talked about it yet, you will think how wonderful it is to fall in love, but what will happen if you do, it's not that you fight every day, it's no different from you now, but because the two of you have a small collective, you will lose a lot of good friends.

3. It is easy to break up if you fall in love too early. If you fall in love so early, you have too little knowledge and too little experience, and if you change your environment and life in the future, you will get bored of each other, so it is better to agree to fall in love in college together.

What does the little hairy child know... Hurry up and study, junior high school is very important!

In the youthful years, this subtle feeling is known to both parties, but it is better not to break it.

Because only in this way can we truly remember the beauty of those young years that we can never go back to in the distant future. Only in this way can we learn to grow and learn to remember the beauty of youth.

Now many people say, bold love, but this sentence does not apply to her:

First of all, does she have so much time and energy for her to squander?

Secondly, can you guarantee that after her confession, the boy will accept it?

Moreover, who can say that this relationship can go on forever and can always guarantee the original purity?

Maybe you can guarantee answers to the first two questions, but what about the third? Who's to say what the future holds for me?

Yes, you can't.

Besides, it's only half a year. In different schools, coupled with the increase in study pressure, she is not suitable for junior high school life, and then she is sad about the breakup, can you bear it?

Maybe you can say that they won't break up, but what about the future?

There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, this is an old saying, maybe she has been tired of hearing it, but isn't this a simple and profound truth? If you understand, you will naturally understand its meaning, and if you don't understand, you will definitely be confused.

Can you guarantee that they will be together in the future?

Since there are so many uncertainties, why not let it go quietly in the bottom of your heart first?

Wait until you graduate from high school and appear in front of him dressed up beautifully?

Don't worry, don't worry about her and him, in the hearts of boys, first love is generally the most impressive.

Also, you are still too young to know how to understand and tolerate, please don't contradict me, many lovers broke up because of this.

Love, on the other hand, is based on understanding and tolerance.

If you don't want to know the consequences, you will take action, and it will be too late to regret it!

It is not difficult to see from your question that she is hesitating, so you can tell your friend this, and if she still wants to confess, then let her be. Confinement too much can be counterproductive. But personally, I don't really agree with that.

That's my advice to your friend.

ps: You say, the two of them won't be in the same school in half a year, I wonder why?

Is it because of the transfer of household registration, grades, or parents' jobs?

Ask what to do.

Actually, it's obviously what you want to do.

Then hesitate to do so.

That's what you need to do, just do it.

Follow the heart. When the time comes, be together or break up.

Each has its own arrangement.

Each option also has its own results.

All enrich lives.

Wrong, children, the so-called "falling in love" of primary and secondary school students is actually just a good feeling, and there are many phenomena that accompany adolescence and today's ** "vast supernatural powers".

Tell your friends to give up this so-called relationship, because reading at this age is the most important, this hazy feeling is just a stumbling block on the road of life, and children at this age have no real "love" at all.

This may be a good thing for your friend and the boy, after separation, go their separate ways, and I am sure that they will have a smoother journey on the road to growth.

I also wish you success in your future studies and a wide range of skies.

Think again.

Wow, it, it's the same as my good pot friend, but the man is a little obscene, at most a fan and an idol.

I'm dizzy, schoolboy? You're awesome. You just have a crush on each other. It's okay to be a good friend.

It's okay to talk about it even if you're not at school.

You are still too young, I suggest you don't put your mind on boys, you have your own thoughts on life, if you want to fall in love, I suggest that after the age of 18, early love is really not good.

But you can be friends with him, treat him as a friend, after a long time, the two of you will have feelings, and when you are still in touch in high school or college, if you have a fate with each other, then it will naturally be a positive result.

If you really know love, you have to learn to wait.

Try to study well and try to be friends with him first.

Let's talk about the two of us! You have to know that women chase men compartment yarn.

What kind of boy is that? What type do I mean.

The first is to communicate with him more, the second is time, and the third is to confess.

It depends on his personality.

Not so detailed that we can't answer for you.

If you have a cell phone, text him, and care about him every day, such as buying him breakfast.

If you like him, just say it out loud, there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

Is it possible to be young, not to study well, to think about love, and not to drop in grades?

I looked at your problem very carefully, and in fact, I saw that you are still young, and now you are very focused on your studies, and his so-called liking you is also a sign of immaturity, so you are very annoyed now, and if you don't agree to him, he will keep annoying you, promise him, it is you who are hurt, so you want to ask if there is a way to solve it.

There are methods, mainly the following.

First, try to clean yourself as much as possible, don't let him take advantage of it, usually spend more time with female friends, and don't give him a chance to get close to you.

Second, try not to do things that make him misunderstood, avoid contact if you can, stay away if you can, and try to be cold to him.

Third, you have to insist on yourself, if you make him think that you are easy to talk to, you will have to inch in, so that you will not be able to shake off in the future, which will make you more annoyed.

Oh, the popular way is, if you recognize the good mix, just ask someone to beat him, if you are a good girl, go to the teacher or parents, because I don't know the specific situation, so the old man doesn't know how to help you think of a specific way, if you have any questions, you can ask, know everything.

Little sister, do you think there is anything about him that can make your heart flutter, and then suppose you can get anything in return for associating with him? If it's all negative, you can categorically reject it.

Forehead... First of all, you should be beautiful. Secondly, if you have this condition, you can directly reject him - I don't like you, don't you...

Love is together, not unbearable It's normal for boys to chase girls, adjust your mentality, focus on studying, and if you're really entangled, it's not too late for him to wait until he graduates from college to accept it.

If you don't like him and are afraid of hurting him, reject him tactfully. Encourage him to study hard, and the most important task at the moment is to study instead of early love

Say no to him seriously and tell him you have a boyfriend.

Just tell him, "You're looking for another woman." There are so many beauties. He said he only had feelings for you and nothing else. You say you do the same.

If you really don't like it, just cut it off and tell him you don't like you, if I would be like that.

Tell him directly that you don't like him.

Ignore him every day and say something nasty to him