Lonely but always rejects people who like me, I m 25 now, I m in a hurry, everyone help me analyze 5

Maybe your subconscious like to be chased!

I think if a boy tries to chase you now, and still treats you well despite your rejection, I think the end result will definitely be able to catch you! Don't think that you have a bad mentality, I believe that there will be boys who love you very much and come to you.

Of course, you should try to change your habit of saying no right away, and it is best to consider your feelings about the boy before replying. If someone confesses to you, it is best not to refuse in person, but to say: I am not mentally prepared, and I will reply to you tomorrow.

So that you can give yourself a time to think about it, and also so that you don't miss out on beautiful love!

Hope you have a beautiful and romantic love soon!

You are already starting to get anxious now, you should try to accept others, to really love once, to experience the feeling of love, and then you will experience being loved. The love for you when others chase you is just like a gust of wind, and you don't realize what it means to be loved at all.

Fate will come, and you also need to grasp it yourself, hoping that you can find the person you love and love you.

It can only mean that none of those boys are you feel that you love more, in this case, what are you afraid of? What's so bad about a career-oriented woman, what's wrong with success by relying on your own struggle? So don't be in a hurry, love will naturally come when it comes, and it's useless for you to be anxious.

No need to change! If you don't love him, why should you be with him, such a result will only make you more unhappy and make him hurt.

Actually, what you're talking about is the same as mine! Perhaps, it was because I was too childish in my previous thinking, and I always thought it was an adult's business. At that time, I only knew how to play. When love comes, I'm still dumbfounded.

Now I, like you, envy those happy people who are in love! However, I believe that one day, I will get my own happiness!

Normal Very normal

Take your time and do your own thing first

There's no need to rush this thing

But when you meet what you feel is appropriate, you have to think about it

The key depends on whether you are suitable for being together, and whether you are truly in love with each other.

I don't think it's a matter of mentality, it's a matter of your character.

There is a good saying: "Character determines destiny".

I wonder if you're looking for the reason in your own personality.

How can someone have the same future as I envision?

I'm a boy, I'm 22

So far, I personally don't think this issue is a big deal for me and for you.

There is a saying that "plans don't change quickly", and you don't need to plan yourself for "him" right now.

I think that when we get married in the future, you and you will have to plan carefully.

I bless you! Bless me too!

Ay. Speechless.

You're lonely, you still want to accept it.

The reason for the rejection is probably that you are not very confident.

Go see a psychiatrist, you have a little bit of depression.

If you try to accept it, you may feel different.

Love can't be forced, you have to wait slowly.

I'm going to get married at the age of 30, and you're only 25 years old, what's the hurry? Isn't it fashionable to be single now.

It's time to change yourself, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

It seems that he is a very responsible person. He says he's not qualified to say like it or not, so don't say you like him anymore. If you especially want to say that you like him very much, talk to a friend or talk to a stranger.

You have to continue to be friends with him, and what I like the most is that he says he can't give you promises, which is a good thing, and it shows that he at least thinks of being responsible for you. Think about it, who can promise whom! How many people can love someone for the rest of their lives!

How many people say forever? My opinion is: you don't say you like him anymore, just wait for him, wait for the day he says he loves you and say you like him.

I think he's a good person, you have to take advantage of it, really, the day he says he loves you, you must be happier than many people. (I think he likes you, even if you wait for him, you should feel that it is worth it).

Based on my previous experience, it doesn't necessarily mean that I like you anymore, but you both confide in each other about your hardships and thoughts, and he is now in school, and his studies and career are very important to him as a man. It was the pressure that caused him to think like this, and now his only thought is to find a close friend to talk about his thoughts, hoping to get his support and encouragement. But I think if you continue to associate with each other in the future, you will become confidants.

Maybe they will come together, it depends on the process of your relationship.

I definitely like it, otherwise I wouldn't have said these things.

Since you feel that he is unreliable and broke up, then don't think about him anymore, and learn to be stronger and more independent. Now women also have to work on their own, and they have a certain amount of pressure, so they have to learn to adapt.

As for the future marriage, wait or look for it slowly.

Life is like this, you are choosing someone else, and others can choose you! Look for him when you can accept him, maybe people will change, maybe you can't say when you meet the person you want while you're waiting!

The two of us had a big fight just now.

I seem to like someone else, I've been with him for two and a half years, and suddenly I like someone else.

Maybe you're used to him

If you don't love it, don't force it, that's unfair to everyone.

This can only show that he is too painful and needs to find a place to vent, a very poor person. So, don't worry about him.

What you give is not necessarily what others need.

A person is poor and ashamed, and you give him money in front of a lot of people, and you think you're helping him, but he doesn't think so, and that's it, maybe the time, the place, or the way is wrong.

Either he's sick or you're sick.

I like you, and it can be love or hurt to say it.

The dog bites Lu Dongbin and doesn't know the hearts of good people!

He may not know that you are helping him, and he will understand it later.

It doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend, even if you get married, isn't it possible to have an extramarital affair?

As long as you think you're good enough, give it a go.

There are a lot of women's personalities, and some women are just like the woman you said, and I have such a woman around me, I think she may not want to make the relationship too bad, but it is not excluded that she is interested in you.

Think about your truest feelings. In ** development is the same, there is no conflict between honoring parents and the place. Since he loves his boyfriend, follow him and go to coastal cities with him, where there are many opportunities and rapid economic development.

Try to communicate with him, see if you can choose a developed city close to your hometown to develop, you love him so much, he should love you too, you have to try to discuss with him. The man is an adventurist and he wants to challenge himself, so it's understandable that he wants to go to the coast. If you don't want to go, just go and discuss with him, sooner or later, the two of you will have to be together, don't always worry about these little things there.

To love Him you need to give him space, and in the same way He needs to give you space.

The limitations of your geographical location cannot prevent you from honoring your parents. You should feel the speed at which traffic is developing right now. Distance is really no longer an issue.

So you can still honor your parents. The greatest wish of your parents is that you are happy, you are happy, your future land can be more broad, you are developing well in the coast, and your parents are also pleased.

Try to communicate, distance is not a problem, the mind is the main sin.

The final choice is up to you. Believe in yourself.

This situation. Generally speaking, boys are asked to lead girls. After all, the woman is closer to the family, while the man is generally independent.

Of course, there are also men who work well and are in big cities. And the situation of the woman is unstable. At this time I suggest you.

Let's not consider the uncertain question of whether you want to live with the man for the rest of your life. Just think about going to a big city to find a job for the development of your career. After all.

If his region has a future. And he can take care of you. Actually, it doesn't hurt to go.

But if it's just for a man to run. It's a little unworthy. After all, people on this side.

You can't say what the future holds.

If there is anything else you need to add, please ask, I hope it can help you.

Who said that you must go to the field to work hard, has he planned carefully, if you don't follow to drink the northwest wind. Parents are trivial matters, if you can really struggle out, just take them over and let them enjoy the blessings. It's right to drift out very hard, if there is a rush, it's fine, but if he is hot-blooded, you will pour cold water on him.

My friend took his girlfriend to other places for development, but he didn't make his girlfriend suffer a little. And now it's a good mix, and he's been planning for two years.

Divided, you said that you want me to be with you for your dreams, for your development, for your parents, and I have no dreams, no development, and no parents? Selfish.

This depends on your feelings, it's not that you can't honor your parents when you go out to work hard, and there's nothing to worry about, everything depends on your thoughts, and you still have to work hard outside for your future.

Like, but afraid of being hurt again, if you really want to be good to her, chase her if you don't abandon her, I wish you happiness!

Follow your heart's work! If you like that girl, go after it!

I don't like you, I seem to hate you a little.

If you chase closely, there is hope, and if you don't chase closely, there can be no drama.