I ve seen N psychiatrists, but it didn t work at all, who can help me

I think, first of all, you have to regain your faith, and faith is very important for you later in life. I'm only in the sixth grade of elementary school, but it's clear to me that your problem is a psychological suggestion. "I was born a lazy girl and didn't want to do anything.""I began to wonder if I had a mental problem"I'm really hopeless"These are all negative hints that you have to yourself, and are not true.

I think your parents and teachers must have often said that you were stupid and poor at studying, and over time, you yourself thought so. You have a certain level of low self-esteem, and this low self-esteem puts pressure on you and makes you no longer motivated to learn. And then give up on yourself, as you yourself say, "drink desperately and fight".

You know that your mistakes are in **, and you also want to correct them, but unfortunately those psychiatrists don't seem to grasp the crux of the problem and prescribe the right medicine. Your parents are typical "lack of praise" parents, and if I'm not mistaken, they are stingy with praise for you, making you feel that no matter how good you are, it's useless. Your parents should also see a psychiatrist to adjust the value expected of you.

You have to say to yourself in your heart that you are a useful person. Okay, let's get out of here, contact me if you have something (try to communicate with your parents so they know what you think and let you do what you want to do).

You are only so young that you can recognize your own shortcomings, which shows that you are a very amazing and intelligent girl. People who are about your age always think that they are all right, and no one else is good. It's even less likely to think about what the future holds?

You're already a cut above them. We must see our own wisdom and improve our confidence and courage to overcome all difficulties. I believe that you will soon be able to get out of the trough of life and embark on a healthy life.

Remember my words, okay?

No matter who you are, life is meaningful, although sometimes it is not very clear, but it is meaningful after all For the troubles of school, I think if you work hard, you can calmly accept the reality That's it, many people have unfortunate experiences, you are not the first, and you are not the last, you must have your shining point, dig it properly, and one day you smile and say:"I did it! "Trust me, you're a nice girl, it's just that no one understands you

Counseling is slow.

You should go on a long-term consultation that feels best to you.

I'm sure we'll see results.

A word to you:

Don't use the hidden dragon; See Long Zaitian; Dry all day long; or leap into the abyss; The dragon is in the sky; Kang Long has regrets.

Excerpt from the Book of Changes

Let's take your time! :)

Then come to me! I think I can help you.

Psychologists are mainly engaged in psychological counseling and psychological**. Psychiatrist is a popular term in the context of Chinese culture, and it is a psychological counselor in the European and American categories plus a psychiatrist who mainly uses drugs. So do psychiatrists really work?

Can it really eliminate the problems and illnesses that lie deep within us? Let me give you a detailed answer below.

Psychiatrists certainly work. The psychiatrist is the analysis and guidance of the problem. Many psychological problems are psychological extremism (such as low self-esteem, fear) and external social factors (such as study, workplace pressure, etc.); Emotions such as the divorce and death of relatives) and one's own thoughts (because the experience is different from ordinary people, the thinking is also different from ordinary people); The role of a psychiatrist is like allowing a pool of stagnant water to melt into the sea, allowing people to experience the feelings of ordinary people.

However, not all psychiatrists are very professional and can find the key to psychological problems, and even if they find problems, they are not necessarily able to solve them, so some doctors who follow the book and cannot understand the problems of psychological patients will not help you after consultation, and will only deepen your prejudice. A psychologist who is able to solve problems and understands you (not verbally, I understand you) is a useful psychologist.

Psychologists and parents are in different positions and have different emotional patterns in their relationships. What the psychiatrist obtains is temporary, attachment necessary for the onset of the psychiatrist. To be successful, the relationship must exist, and the child must be fully committed.

The psychiatrist cannot replace the parents, he does not do it to make the parents feel that he is more "good" with the children than they are, that they are bad parents.

1) Psychological crisis intervention: Psychological counseling when a person encounters heavy psychological trauma and blows, such as the loss of ideals, goals and careers, the accidental death of a loved one, the deterioration of interpersonal relationships, etc., which leads to a sharp mental breakdown.

2) Counseling on life problems: including love, marriage, family and sexual problems, choices for further education and employment, maladjustment, learning difficulties, poor child behavior, interpersonal problems, and various mental health problems such as alcohol and drug dependence.

3) Counseling for physical and mental diseases: The occurrence, development and prognosis of many physical diseases, such as hypertension, coronary heart disease, tumors, etc., are also related to psychosocial factors, and psychological counseling can be carried out in a timely manner, so as to relieve psychological pressure and prevent the aggravation of physical diseases.

4) Counseling on other mental health issues: Psychological counseling can also be provided for family and group mental health issues.

Regulate yourself! Don't despair!

Tell us more about your situation.

Also, disappointment is disappointment, listen to the opinions of various doctors and see if it helps you judge your own situation.

Most of the psychiatrists are in accordance with the logical thinking in the book to answer, to ** mental illness must be combined with the actual world, all things in the world, mutual restraint, there will be a solution, in fact, I am the best doctor, find the root of my own psychological disorders.

Don't expect the doctor, recommend a book to you to read, "Morita **" is very useful, you are your own master, you can't rely on others, I have had severe obsessive-compulsive disorder before, it took a long time to get better, and now it is not cured, but this book has undoubtedly aroused my great confidence in facing life, how others persuade me to open something, want to open a point, find that it is useless, or rely on yourself, I hope that after reading this book, you can realize as soon as possible what kind of attitude to face the various problems of life. This is just a personal opinion, and the book must be read, it is better than you spending money on a psychiatrist needlessly, and it will affect you for the rest of your life.