In my life, it s easy to find a friend, but it s so hard to find a real friend, friend, what do you

Now this society is indeed like this, in the workplace the chance of meeting a true friend is lower than the chance of winning the lottery, the reason is not to say more, make friends first depends on whether you have a common hobby and language, and then further understand until he (her) character and character are confirmed, and then can you pay her (him) sincerity without scruples, only in this way can you make true friends. There are many things to go through after becoming friends, and the rest depends on whether you can face and share it together.

As long as you treat others with sincerity, others will naturally treat you with sincerity, and real friends are not far from you, just to see if you are willing to pay.

Pal. In fact, sometimes we find good friends, but we don't know it, and we regret it when we lose it. I believe in you! Come on! Actually, I'm also confused sometimes. There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor.

But we need to reflect on where we are when others need help.

If we help ourselves and others don't help, then you can scold him.

A true friend doesn't need to be contacted every day, and only one **confidant is hard to find when needed

Friends are easy to get, confidants are hard to find, look at fate.

Sometimes I feel that my rich self and my poor self are people with different mentalities.

Maybe it's because of my heart.

Nowadays society makes friends.

The same is true in my mind.

It's still your personal problem, and you must check yourself.

What is a friend? That is, no matter how far the two of them live, they can wake him (her) up at two or three o'clock in the morning, share your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, when you are extremely depressed and want to find someone to confide in, who can best relieve your worries? When you're excited and want to share happiness with others, who can best understand your state of mind?

Of course, it's your friend.

They will listen to you silently, share your joys and sorrows, and care about everything about you. She hugs and cries when she wants to cry, and cheers side by side with you when she wants to laugh, thinking that she can fully understand your feelings.

Friends are the greatest tribute in life. They are always there for you when you need them, you don't need to be called, they will come. They are like the patron saints of your life, destined to support you in this life.

If necessary, they will unreservedly help you stick to your goals. When you retreat, he or she will encourage you to move forward; When you are depressed, she will give you happiness; When you are desperate, she will light a beacon; When you fall, she'll help you through the whole way.

Friends are just so cute.

Knowing that there is someone in your life who is so far away and thinks about you, blesses you, prays and blesses you, can you not be happy? Do you have such friends? If so, please cherish it! Because such a friend is rare, it is your confidant in life.

What kind of friend is a real friend, how do you know it, then you depend on whether your friend takes the initiative to help you when you are in trouble, and when he is willing to pull you out of the difficulty, he is a real friend.

An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. The shoulders of a true friend once made your tears water.

An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.

An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.

An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

An ordinary friend asks first and foremost when you ask for help. A true friend will silently help you and ask again.

An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!

An ordinary friend will rush to pay for dinner with you. A true friend will look at the wallet before paying for it.

An ordinary friend will take good things to you. A true friend will take the heart to you.

When you have money, everyone comes to call you brothers, when you don't have money, when you have difficulties, people leave you, only those who are sincere will come to help you, that is a friend, when you try your best but can't help your friend's difficulties, a real friend will not complain about you, but in turn comfort you and thank you for your efforts, a real friend will not care about you chatting with other people and taunt you, because friends trust each other.

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind.

A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend.

The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.

At the beginning of life, whether you want to live it or not, you have to live it all over your life.

Ask who can have smooth sailing in their lives, and there will always be difficulties of one kind or another.

It's just that some are bigger, some are smaller, some are short-lived, and some are long-term. No matter what kind of difficulties, you need to be strong in the face of them.

When you encounter difficulties in life, it is a good practice to talk to friends, but it must be a heart-to-heart friend.

They will give you good advice, or at least let him understand your difficulties, listen to you carefully, and relieve the pressure you face and bear alone.

Yes, it's nice to have friends

In junior high school, I met one of the best friends in my life, I think my best friend probably doesn't need to say a lot every day, but when he needs it most, he will stand up and we don't need to communicate too much, but he can read each other's thoughts and minds, maybe this is the best friend.

I have been trying to get pregnant for more than three years and have not been pregnant, my good friend is even more anxious than me, almost every day will read all kinds of posts about pregnancy preparation, and will take the initiative to share some of my useful pregnancy preparation advice. She always told me that everything would be there, it was only a matter of time, and then she would be my child's godmother, and her daughter would be my child's own sister.

When I think back to how much she cared for me, I still have tears in my eyes.

I have a best friend I've known since high school, and this year is our 10th year together. Every time I say a ** word, she will immediately come out to accompany me.

I'll never forget last year when I gave birth to my daughter, when my mother-in-law was back home and my husband was on a business trip. She came to my house to accompany me during the day and at night, until the night of my seizure, I was in pain all night, and she also stayed with me all night, I was really touched. I feel really lucky to meet a friend like this, and I will definitely cherish her.

As the saying goes, talking about money hurts feelings. Friends who usually play very well, when it comes to borrowing money, they start to shy away. But when I was in trouble, I borrowed money from my girlfriend, and she would not hesitate to lend it to me.

Even though she doesn't have much money on hand, except for living expenses, she can lend me everything for emergencies. I was lucky to have such a good friend.

Last year, my father was admitted to the hospital because of a perforated stomach, and I spent all my family's savings.

At that moment, I was really touched that it was enough to have such a friend in my life.

During the period when I was unemployed, my best friend let me live in her house, took care of me eating, drinking, and sleeping, and actively helped me find a job, bought me clothes for interviews, and secretly stuffed money in my bag.

If it weren't for her, I think I would have wandered into the streets. I am grateful for this kindness in the snow.

A female friend, a bosom friend. Both of us are very straight-tempered and never turn around when we talk.

Good is good, bad is bad, what is done right is right, and what is done wrong is wrong. It's all the kind of direct explanation, hoping that the other party can properly and directly correct it.

There are no false words between us.

So I think it's worth cherishing having such a friend.

As mentioned in Example 1, there are many different perspectives between a "gangster" and a "non-gangster". You may think that fighting will solve the problem, but he doesn't. So he will try to convince you to agree with him.

Although such a friend is sometimes unacceptable, it is undeniable that he is for your own good and takes you very seriously. So if you don't agree with some of his practices, you can bring them up with him and let him understand your feelings, and I'm sure he will be willing to communicate with you.

If he doesn't accept your opinion or if you can't accept his opinion, you can abandon the issue first. Pay more attention to the happy time of two people together, and take the quarrel or something lightly. After all, it's not easy to make a friend, and you should seek common ground while reserving differences for some problems that can be solved.

But if you don't think it's okay, you can separate the paragraphs first and deal with it in the way you want. If you miss him after separation, apologize. If it's good to be alone, just be estranged, so as not to make both of you uncomfortable.

I'm going to keep that friendship.

Each of us has our own path to follow. As for their friends, they also have their way to go, and with their company on this road, they will not feel lonely.

Personality is a thing that varies from person to person, and we can't force others to have the same personality as ourselves. If he can still tell himself big truths, then it means that he is still his friend.

Keep this friendship alive.

From a psychological point of view, what can be done to improve interpersonal relationships? The answer is four sentences: one is to "treat yourself as someone else" (that is, to look at your own gains and losses with a normal heart, to see your own gains and losses as happening to others, and not to affect interpersonal relationships due to changes in your own emotions); the second is "treating others as oneself" (only by putting oneself in one's shoes through role reversal can a person be empathetic to what others are anxious about and hurt others); the third is to "treat others as others" (that is, respect others, do not interfere with each other's privacy, make a difference between inside and outside, between men and women, and do not offend each other's personal space); The fourth is to "think of yourself as yourself" (which means building self-esteem and self-confidence on the basis of self-knowledge, building on strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and getting along with others more maturely).

Some wise people pointed out that it is not easy to integrate the above four sentences, but as long as you have the heart to do it and do it with all your heart, you will do it better and better.