Birthday gifts: Should I give them in person or anonymously?

I suggest that you still don't give birthday gifts anonymously.

This will add a lot of burden to the other party's psychological plainness, and the other party will think about questions such as "who sent this" and "why is it anonymous".

The important thing is that if one day the other party knows who the giver is, they will suspect the purpose of your anonymity - in short, anonymous gift-giving is easy to bring such and such misunderstandings.

Do you want to give a gift to someone you like? But lack of courage.

Then you can't be anonymous, because you don't know that anonymous results often add negative points to you in this case. The other person will despise you and feel that you have no courage and no decision......Don't believe that it's a romantic thing in the movie, it won't work in reality.

Look at who you sent, if it's a very good friend, you can send him a surprise anonymously, if it's a girl you like, if she has feelings for you, she will definitely send it in person, maybe when the time is right, you can confess it in person. But remember, whether she has feelings for you or not, you should send them in person, at least to let you know clearly how she feels about you.

It depends on who you give it to, give it to your girlfriend (boyfriend) or relatives, it is the best choice to give it in person, and when you give it to your crush, it depends on you personally, but I suggest that you send it in person, so that you can see the other party's reflection, be brave, don't be too shy! Come on!

Female: You can send it in person. Male: If you want a good friend, you can send it in person, and if you are an ordinary friend, you can send it anonymously.

Give it in person, it's already a reason to give a gift, and most people won't refuse, and it seems that they will return the gift!

Anonymous, if she guessed that you sent it, it would be twice as effective with half the effort!!

Even if you don't meet in person, you decide that you can't be anonymous. Give yourself a chance.

Of course, I sent it myself!! Be brave, otherwise you will always go on like this, then you will never have a chance!!

Of course, the gift is given in person.

If you have a crush, if you have the courage, sending it in person is the best choice.

But there's a better chance that you can confess to your face

See if you want him (her) to know your mind, if you are embarrassed to send it to him (her) in person, you can write your name!

Who knows it's you.

Give it to him in person, and let him know what you think.

Measure it yourself, if you want to be with her in the future, you can do it in person, and if you don't plan to do it in the future, you will send it secretly.

Of course, it's delivered in person! What is the picture of giving a gift? People don't know, does it make sense for you to send it?

Send it to your face, and confess by the way

It depends on who is sending it.

In person. More sincerity.

In person, because it appears more sincere.

It is estimated that if you send it to him anonymously, he will also guess that it is you, well, if he thinks it is really impossible for the two of you, then he will feel that he does not need to send him anything, but if you want to be good to him regardless of the return, then send it, anonymous or good.

No, love just said it out loud, and it might have worked.

Don't be anonymous, it's making a wedding dress for someone else.

Don't have your own hobbies.

Not good! 1. Anonymous gifts, only suitable for film and television and ** plots, which will make the audience pay more attention to anonymous people and storylines, but in reality it is diametrically opposite, this is a stupid behavior, the same as throwing money into the sea, there is no meaning and effect, in case he knows that it is you, he will not be able to face you, and will most likely repay you in cash or other materials. I believe that the person you have a crush on doesn't want to owe it to anyone.

2. Even if he said that it is impossible for the two of you, based on his current mentality, he will only politely refuse to accept the more expensive gifts or return them to you after receiving them, the reason is that he also does not want to owe you anything. If you really want to give him a gift, you should choose the right reason and time (no need to be anonymous), and you also need to consider the variety of gifts, which should not be too heavy.

Also, don't take the phrase "I and you can't be" in your heart, there is no impossibility in the world, only no effort, the success and failure of anything is based on the time, place, and people, and the same is true for love, remember.

If you like the other party, you should let him know that anonymous is like chasing stars, and there will be nothing in return.

Let the other party know, no matter what the response is, at least you have worked this relationship.

Don't think about him, Bai Fumei, who can just send an anonymous tablet, is afraid that she won't find the object?

If you want to continue your crush, be anonymous, the gift doesn't need to be too expensive, and it's best to be intimate. If you want to go further into the sun, you can send it directly.

It's better to write the name, now**so much, anonymous words Do you think he will be solid in his heart?

The spirit is commendable, but it doesn't work, he doesn't have any trouble, he can play very high, but what about you, far away, silently, and you're content to watch him click around on the computer? What a great opportunity for a birthday Opportunity is something to fight for yourself...

Crush. Doomed to be lonely for a lifetime. A generous show of love.

There is no such thing as unrequited love, don't admit it. Isn't there a hint of fantasy? Did you comfort yourself that I sent something, well, he has something I sent, and there is an intersection between us?

The other person may be afraid of misunderstanding and embarrassment and then tragedy. Frankly, it doesn't succeed once, and people will always be a little afraid of the unknown future. is normal.

Once you express it, you succeed. It's not a fairy tale crush on each other for a long time and then it becomes. It's impulse that is the devil.

You express yourself very indifferently between the lines. In fact, you still have illusions in your heart. No matter how much I educate you now, you won't understand.

Only time for the rinse. A vigorous show of love is a good memory. Crushes tend to be bitter right now.

It's still bitter later. Send you a sentence to love to fight to win!

It will be troublesome, and do not give such a valuable gift without becoming a lover.

Send potted plants, just send it by courier and write warm blessings.

Probably not, but only if you know him well and make sure that he will like it, and only when he likes it will he be moved.

No, but you also have to decorate this gift with something so that he thinks it's you, and he will understand you.

Don't be anonymous, it's not good for him to be someone else.

Probably not, but I personally think it's better for you to add your signature.

It's better not to, it's better to sign it! If he was anonymous, he would have thought that it was sent by his brother or friend.

You say you're afraid that he will reject you? Are you going to confess to him by giving him a gift on Valentine's Day, which is his birthday? If you just give him a gift, he will 90% refuse it. If you confess to him by giving a gift, it's hard to say.

It's not surprising that you were good friends before, and then he was cold when he found out that you liked him. He used to be very casual with you, and he didn't have any thoughts about you in love with men and women, so he naturally treated you as a buddy, and it was very precious to have such a friend, which is not often in life. And maybe one day, he suddenly learned from some channels that you have different feelings for him, he is naturally very surprised and at a loss, what kind of attitude do you let him face you in the future?

Pretend not to know? Or what to do? After he has this summary in his heart, his attitude towards you, no matter how he tries to hide it, is a little strange and uncomfortable.

Naturally, he is reluctant to face you in a contrived manner, so he is too tired.

As for you, if it's just a gift, I want to give it as safe as possible. If you want to confess, IMHO, the success rate will not be too great, because the reason why he will be cold to you proves that he doesn't have much feeling for you in the first place, and this sudden change makes him unable to face you. I suggest that you don't rush too much, give the gift out this time, as for the confession, you may have to take your time, give him some time to think about it, guess and figure out the relationship between you, and wait until he slowly accepts your role change, he may have a good impression of you, and then it is more appropriate to confide in him clearly.

I think, it depends on what you mean, do you still have feelings for him? Also, he didn't think about it at the time, or if something happened to him.

Since they've all broken up, why are you doing this, isn't it boring, just break up completely, and save a lot of trouble.

Don't think so much about breaking up. If there is no possibility of recombination, forget about it!