I recently made a mistake in college, and I want to know what people think about it

Talk to a good friend and see what they think. At the same time, it will be able to let them know you better. Many misunderstandings in life are a veil, and if you do it calmly, you can get answers to many undesirable questions.

Friend, this is my tribute to you! Believe me, face them with your own sincerity, and this misunderstanding will be resolved after all! Also, think twice about what you do in the future.

This is also an experience in life. Nothing

Now that things have happened, you also wrote a review.

Then, you have to learn to accept it calmly.

First of all, you don't have to worry about what your friends will think of you after reading a briefing.

Because maybe no one will be what you think.

So pay attention to who has been notified again.

You can do your best to redeem it by finding a guide.

If things are already like this.

Then accept it with a calm mind.

There is no mountain of flames that cannot be crossed.

People are not saints, and practice is not faulty.

Don't make yourself too nervous, it's not good for your body.

I understand, because I'm also a good student Since things are already like this, I shouldn't be in a hurry, see if I can explain it to the department, there is no room for recovery, and I really don't have to think about opening a little bit Isn't it just a report of criticism, I want to open some classmates

The heart is not afraid of crooked shadows, you can know that you are not a despicable person, just above board. I didn't mean to hurt anyone, but I didn't have any evidence to explain if I was bumped into it.

It's his business what others think, and I can do what I should do, and I care so much.

There is no regret medicine to buy, only accept the reality that your friends will understand you.

Actually, you're too nervous, relax.

If it's really your friend, they'll understand you.

No one can be perfect

Once, I was in a hurry to go out, I bumped into a person, and knocked the water cup in that person's hand to the ground, I saw that the person was very young, thought it was a junior brother, so I handed him my student card as collateral, and waited for me to return to the family to compensate him. Later, I was too busy to forget about it.

One day, the squad leader sent me a message, saying that the new class guide was looking for me to talk, I was very bored when I was cautious, or obediently passed, when I stepped into his office, I was embarrassed, the "junior" in my mouth turned out to be the new class guide.

Everyone has some embarrassing things when they go to college, such as: When I was in college, I chased a girl, but I didn't catch it. At that time, I felt a little embarrassed and embarrassed.

Of course, there is nothing embarrassing about this, I chased many girls in college and didn't catch up with the ......In fact, before I chased this girl again, I made ordinary friends with her based on the principle of understanding each other.

The two of them usually chatted with each other, and during this time, she told me that there was a senior chasing her. I knew that senior, so I used all the "basic deduction methods" I could think of to analyze, from height analysis to body shape, from personality analysis to family environment analysis to future children's education problems. After a few weeks of diligent education and careful observation, I concluded that I had tactically knocked out the contender.

After making sure that there were no other contenders, I began to launch a general offensive - confession. And then there is the previous story ......And in fact, half a month later, she fell in love with that senior. If you think this is the most embarrassing thing for me, you can't help but underestimate my intimidation.

In fact, after we graduated, we went to the same unit, but in different branches. Not long after, the senior went to another city, and it was really as I analyzed at the time, and the two of them were separated like this. However, due to the severe psychological trauma I had suffered before, I no longer had the courage to chase her.

There are two things about social death, which are as follows:

1. Drooling and snoring while sleeping in class.

Embarrassment Index: During class, many students feel that the teacher talks about "books from heaven", especially history classes and ideological and moral classes, which will make them feel particularly boring.

The "scholars" can still hold on for a while, but the "scumbags" can't help it, and most of them will fall asleep directly on the table.

While sleeping, they may drool, snore, and eventually the snoring will interfere with the teacher's lecture, and eventually wake up to the laughter of the whole class.

At this time, your table mates will use your "ugly things" as a handle.

2. I can't be asked by the teacher.

Awkward grip on the branch index:

As long as it was a student, the teacher would ask questions in class, and when no student Duan Min raised his hand, the teacher would randomly roll him out.

At this time, students who do not listen carefully in class, chat with people everywhere, and pass notes are easy to be "caught" by the teacher, but they don't come out when they stand in their seats, and if they can't write silently in front of the blackboard, they will be embarrassed in front of the whole class.

When the time comes, it's not just the jokes at the table, the whole class will laugh at you.

On the first day of school, the car of the parents of the freshmen can drive into the school, many sophomore student union volunteers will wait in the square with a trolley, and when my parents drove into the square, four tall and thin boys walked towards us with volunteer signs, and easily took the luggage, and the parents urged to "thank the seniors", and in my "thank you seniors", the parents happily drove away. The four boys suddenly burst into laughter, "Hahaha, I actually became a senior the next day after entering the school" At this moment, I realized that the four boys were also freshmen, but the college was different from reporting one day in advance, and in the eyes of their parents, they became "seniors" Thinking back to me thanking the seniors one by one, I was really embarrassed. We haven't talked much since then, and I wish they could forget about it.

I can be the same as you.

In college, I had a lot of doubts, and I often had this feeling because I didn't know what I wanted, and I didn't know why I was so busy.

Sometimes I feel very tired, physically tired, mentally tired, inexplicably tired Sometimes I think about it and feel that I may have magnified those pressures. Those pressures may suddenly come together to test us, but sometimes you will find that when one problem is solved, the other is not a problem.

So, learn to relax yourself.

If you want to relax yourself, just find a quiet, tranquil afternoon, sit quietly by the lake, think about something, think about your doubts, think about your original goal, and see if the path you are taking now is far from your original dream.

Then, once your mind is straightened out, you get to do what you need to do, energetic and focused.

You'll feel much more relaxed.

The environment is born from the heart.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, but choose a clear goal: both for the immediate and the long-term. Step by step, you will have a sense of accomplishment when you are full.

Today's society is so realistic, every child is under a lot of pressure, learn to debug. Have fun.

Every college student has their own period of confusion, many people's college is mixed, until graduation to feel confused, listen to the meaning of your words, you were the same as many students before, college will not study, now you know to study, but can not concentrate, in fact, you now know that it is very good to study, many people have not yet realized this problem, but to enter the state may need an adaptation period, so don't think so much, set a goal for yourself, after a while you will be fine, Hope you have achieved something in college!

Clarify your goals for future study and work, and then work hard for them. We've all had those unrealistic ideas. I think the more empty you are, the more cranky you are, so it's imperative that you turn your attention to reading or studying or other things that are good for your personal development, so that you don't think too much.

Because fantasy is useless, the most important thing is practice!

Do you mean that you can't find your purpose in life right now?