I m annoyed by my boyfriend s brother, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-17
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let him talk to his brother directly, if he has anything to say, he doesn't have to beat around the bush.

    You are going to get married in the future, and now you need to save money, he is always like this today fifty and tomorrow one hundred, who can stand it.

    If you borrow money again, you will say that the money is deposited in the bank, and this point on hand is for living, and we will not use it if you give it to you.

    And since you plan to get married, you have to think about how you will spend your money and make a plan to save money.

    Good for later.

    Don't be afraid that he will be unhappy, and don't feel that you are ruthless.

    That's how it should be for such people.

    My brother is still settling accounts.

    You can't give him money to spend so endlessly.

    As the days go by, he thinks you should give him money.

    If you don't give it, it's your fault.

    Didn't you just borrow 200 yuan to your boyfriend, and you can pay him back?

    You can give him more, even if it's interest.

    Don't even think about borrowing money in the future.

    It is useless for an uneducated person to reason with him.

    Just borrow money and say no.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should communicate with your boyfriend well, see what he thinks, talk about your thoughts, and you can communicate with each other, after all, that's his family. In particular, you have to talk about the problem of your future marriage, in fact, it is okay to help occasionally, but it is not good for his brother to be used to his brother, this will only make his brother more and more lazy, and it will also be a troublesome problem in the future, so you should moderate your help to his brother, and persuade his brother (of course, he went by himself) to do something, if he really likes you and plans to marry you, he will definitely seriously consider the problem you say, if he doesn't even want to think about it, he will refuse you, Then I think you are wronged in the end, so it's better to break up as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    died early and was born early, and there is no family affection to talk about with this kind of person. It doesn't matter who he is, it's like this now, and I'm afraid that after getting married, I will inevitably quarrel with him. So now it's better to make it clear to your boyfriend that it's better to have him without you, and you without him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The best thing to do is to stay away from his brother so that he will not find your house so easily. If you ask for money again, this kind of person can't be ugly if he doesn't give him a few times.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't lend him money in the future

    He is on fire when he does this!! `

    It's a big deal to deny him!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If your boyfriend's brother is interested in you, then you should find a suitable opportunity to have a good conversation with your boyfriend's brother and tell him not to have such thoughts, otherwise it will not be good for anyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should say no harshly. And make it clear to each other, so as not to affect the relationship between the two brothers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you can go directly to your boyfriend's brother and make it clear that you will not leave your boyfriend, you like your boyfriend very much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Dear drop, my brother is one of the closest people to us, why does my father-in-law bother my brother?

    Dear drop, my brother is one of the closest people to us, why does my father-in-law bother my brother?

    Dear drop, my brother is one of the closest people to us, why does my brother bother him?

    My brother sometimes plays the role of a parent.,Guide and educate me on the study of Jane and Jane.,Chunchong's life.,Maybe sometimes we can't accept the ways and methods used.,That's why we're disgusted.,I feel like my brother is a little too much.,Isn't it.。

    Damn me, I shouldn't have let my adoptive parents raise me.

    How could a kiss think that.

    Adoptive parents must love you very much, and they are greater than your biological parents.

    Dear, are you because of your brother?

    My adoptive parents and their own son insisted that I wanted money, and I was under too much pressure, asking for tens of thousands of dollars each time.

    My adoptive parents are gone, and I'm leaving my brother so that I don't know how long I'll live.

    Dear drop, I understand, your brother relied on the kindness of his adoptive parents to you, lying down by himself, and letting you give money to spend, right?

    It was your adoptive parents who raised you, so what does it have to do with your older brother? Even if it's your own brother, you have no obligation to support him.

    You are too kind, you have been thinking about the kindness of your adoptive parents, and you have a sense of kindness, and you have helped the son of your parents, but he is insatiable, and you are now under pressure, and your heart has collapsed.

    But my dear, is that you too kind to be bullied by your so-called brother all the time, and didn't think about looking for help?

    Everyone is an adult, life is hard, you are just her sister, not his parents, there is no need to get used to observing him, and the law does not allow it. You can call the police directly and seek legal help.

    I just gave him 50,000 yuan two days ago, and now he says that my sister-in-law is sick, and that he has to pay a fine of 30,000 yuan in the criminal police team, and I have already given him a total of 80,000 yuan.

    Kiss, didn't you try to resist? Has it developed to the point that even my sister-in-law has to support her for the elderly? The criminal police team has a fine of 30,000 yuan, and your brother is a bottomless pit.

    That's your bride price, and you're going to keep it for the rest of you.

    And if you don't solve this situation before you get married, it will be more troublesome later.

    Your brother is using you like an ATM.

    He's not a thing, I realize, what's the matter, no, my heart is uncomfortable.

    Don't think about the dear drops.

    The more you lose and think about it, the more angry you are, you can scold him as much as you want, but don't be angry with your body, it's not worth it. You already know what kind of person he is, so you need to stop your losses in time.

    Kiss, calm down, don't be angry.

    Dear, what can you say to the old teacher, the teacher will be a listener, give appropriate advice, please don't open the ruler group and suppress all the bad emotions in your heart, it is not good for your body. We're going to laugh and live every day, and let those outsiders cry.

    Kiss, if your heart is comfortable, take a good rest if you are uncomfortable. Or go to the hospital for a check-up, don't resist hard, girls should be appropriately weak!

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