How to become filial? How can I become grateful?

One should be tolerant, the second should be empathetic, and the third should be more about the good of the mother!

Most of today's children are filial to their parents. I'm from Jixian County, Tianjin. At least the children of Jixian County are filial. Anyway, I'm not one of them, my family affection is worthless, basically children still honor their parents.

Slowly know how to understand your mother and better be filial.

If he worked hard to raise the child, but he became a white-eyed wolf, this must be a very sad thing. However, as parents, we need to acknowledge and accept our children's choices and behaviors, even if they are contrary to our expectations.

Although a child's behavior has a certain relationship with the parent's education, a child's behavior as an adult depends more on their own decisions and experiences. Children will face many different challenges and choices as they grow up, and they may make mistakes and learn from them. As parents, we need to provide guidance and support as much as possible, but also respect our children's choices and decisions and give them the opportunity to think and act independently.

Although a child's behaviour may be disappointing or distressing for parents, we still need to stay in touch and support as much as possible. If we are able to establish a good communication and trusting relationship with our children, perhaps we will be able to influence their behaviour or at least give them some help and support.

The meaning of gratitude is not just "to repay your parents". Many people feel that teaching children to be grateful is actually to let children know the hard work of their parents in raising their children, to be able to understand the love of their parents for themselves, and to have a grateful heart, and to provide certain help and care to their parents when they have the ability, in order to repay their parents for their nurturing kindness, in fact, this is just one of the manifestations of gratitude.

Children's gratitude, in addition to facing parents, also exists in the child's entire life process, that is to say, children's gratitude will also apply to friends, classmates, neighbors, etc., and even some "no intersection" people, such as urban beauticians, guardians of the motherland, etc. It is a very important thing for children to be grateful for any factor in their lives, because only when children understand gratitude, can they understand the efforts and feelings of others more correctly and clearly, and can they make the right choices for growth, and become more accomplished and valuable.

Parents should understand that gratitude is not simply filial piety, but a quality that applies to all factors in the child's growth process, it not only makes the child look more kind and moral, but also brings a lot of benefits to the child's growth.

As a parent, sometimes I feel that my child is my most intimate little padded jacket, but there are also times when I feel that my child is particularly troublesome, especially when I am waiting to be fed, I can't wait to escape from this "little devil" who was born to collect debts from me. When I really escaped, I felt that the child was not by my side, and my heart seemed to be very empty, and I wanted to miss it specially. The feelings of parents for their children are such a contradictory existence, but after all, all troubles are short-lived, and the joy that those children bring to them is eternal.

As long as the child grows up, we will be relaxed as parents Sakura or we, especially full-time mothers, this idea is even stronger. Children's food, clothing, housing and transportation need to be arranged by one hand. When it is cold, you must clothe him; If he is dirty, he should wash his face and bathe him; There are so many trivial things in life, which makes my mother feel physically and mentally exhausted.

Finally, the child fell asleep, and the mother had to get up to clean up the house, and the toy spine was messy, and there were endless chores to do.

However, as the baby continues to grow, he will find in many inadvertent moments that he begins to learn to eat and walk by himself, and gradually, he also begins to accompany the lack of change and no longer rely on himself as he did when he was a newborn. At first, I will feel that the child has become well-behaved and sensible, and I can finally relax.

Suddenly, one day, the child made a basin of water in advance, brought it to him, and said, "Mom, you have worked hard, from now on, let me protect you." At this moment, I have burst into tears, at this moment, I am strongly aware that my child has grown up, I am really gratified, he has learned how to feed back at such a young age.

Therefore, cherish the time spent with children, and the company of parents is indispensable in the growth of children. But there is really no child in the world who is inseparable from their parents, but parents, when their children leave their side and go to farther places to study and develop, they always recall those times together.