I m 13, my parents are getting a divorce, am I with my dad or with mom 40

Updated on parenting 2024-07-01
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you really can't stop them from divorcing, I think it's best for you to choose the one that can take good care of your future study and life, and can take care of your life and study every day, because your learning and growth is the most important, they are divorced, you can't decide, but you can decide which party to live with, in addition, you have to consider the economic strength, personality traits or something, who is strong, and can take good care of you, consider which party to choose.

    Also, if you are a girl, it is recommended that you go with your dad, unless your dad does not meet the above conditions. If you're a boy, consider the above conditions. This matter should be considered comprehensively, after all, they will have to form a family in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    .You can walk as your heart goes. I don't think they will hurt you. It's all about hurting you. Biological, after all. It's up to you what you think.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do whatever you want in your heart, after all, you are biological, and they will all be good to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hurry up and persuade them, if you can't persuade your father, your father must be responsible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whoever is good to you and who cares about you (not just material) will follow whomever you want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Hello, dear Mom and Dad divorced, I originally followed my mother, but now you want to follow my dad again, what should I do? Then you have to discuss it with your father, then you have to call your father ** to make sure, your father can accept you, and your father can raise you, then you can live with your father.

    My parents divorced, I used to follow my mother, but now I want to follow my father again.

    Hello, dear Mom and Dad divorced, I originally followed my mother, but now you want to follow my dad again, what should I do? Then you have to discuss it with your father, then you have to call your father ** to make sure, your father can accept you, and your father can raise you, then you can live with your father.

    Hello, this classmate, if your dad is willing to take over you, your dad can go to the court where they divorced to change your custody. It can be changed. According to article 16 of the "Several Specific Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on the Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases by People's Courts", where one party's request to modify the child support relationship falls under any of the following circumstances, it should be supported.

    3) Minor children over the age of 10 who are willing to live with the other party and who have the ability to support them; Therefore, if a minor child over the age of 10 is willing to change custody and live with the other party, and the other party submits a request to change the custody of the child and has the ability to support it, the people's court will support it. In order to facilitate the raising of children and to better perform the right of custody, the other party may apply to the public security organ of the jurisdiction for household registration with a court judgment or mediation document.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Dear, if you have the right to choose, you can choose the one who is conducive to your growth, but don't have too much pressure, although you choose one side, but not the other party has nothing to do with you, they are still your parents, and they have the obligation to support you!

    If Mom and Dad get divorced, who am I with.

    Dear, if you have the right to choose, you can choose the one who is conducive to your growth, but don't have too much pressure, although you choose one side, but not the other party has nothing to do with you, they are still your parents, and they have the obligation to support you!

    Alternatively, the parties may negotiate to decide on the custody of the child; If the negotiation fails, the court can be appealed to settle the matter, and the court will generally make a custody judgment that is conducive to the physical and mental health of the child. It will be comprehensively considered from the aspects of fertility, economic income, education level, nature of work, living habits, living environment, etc. However, children under the age of two years are generally awarded to the woman.

    For children over the age of 10, the court will give priority to the child's wishes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello dear! If the child is an adult, then the parents have no guardianship and legal responsibility for the child, and there is no situation of who the parents will follow after the divorce, but if the child is a minor at the time of the parent's divorce, the issue of child support needs to be considered. The relationship between parents and children will not be affected by the divorce of the parents, no matter who raises the children, they are the children of both parents, so the parents can decide on the issue of child support, and if no agreement is reached, the law and security will make a judgment according to the specific circumstances and the principle of benefiting the minor children, and if the children have reached the age of eight, their wishes must be respected.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Dear, I'm glad to answer your <>

    If the parents divorce, if the court awards the child to the father, the child should follow the father, but the mother can also come to visit the child, and if the child wants to, he can also live with the mother for a period of time!

    Mom and Dad are divorced, and I follow my father, can I still follow my mother later?

    Dear, I'm glad to answer your <>

    If the parents divorce, if the court awards the child to the father, the child should follow the father, but the mother can also come to visit the child, and if the child wants to, he can also live with the mother for a period of time!

    What should I do if I want to talk to my mother?

    How old are you now?

    If you are over 8 years old, the court will ask you if you wish to grant custody. Just say yes to your mother.

    Later, if you want to talk to your mother, just discuss it with your parents.

    After all, you're going to school, and the environment has changed. I also have to run some formalities for my parents.

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