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Feelings are not lost in a moment, but disappear little by little in the wrong way of doing business.
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Marriage needs to be managed with wisdom. Don't think of marriage as the end of love, but a milestone in life, and you still have to keep managing your love after marriage. Primitive love is like your original start-up capital, if you want to prosper forever, you must continue to invest in new love, such as often praising each other, giving each other a kiss, cooking for each other, all carefully planned gifts and programs for each other on each other's birthdays, and any anniversaries and holidays, and giving care and consideration when the other party is troubled in their hearts, these are all for your love to add points and add value No couple does not quarrel, but no matter how noisy you are, don't say a word that hurts your feelings, just talk about things, Then after arguing at the head of the bed and closing at the end of the bed, don't cold war "You are wrong with me", understand this truth, and you will definitely get better and better!
I wish your love, like old wine, the longer it will be.
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True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist
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Feelings are not lost in an instant, but disappear little by little in the wrong way of doing business. Feelings are cultivated, but long-lasting feelings will be diluted by time. Alive, alive day by day.
There is no contradiction. If there is a crystal, it will also take a responsibility and will force people to live slowly. However, if you hate each other, your life is depressing, and if you are stressed, you better separate.
After all, you can't force yourself to feel for the other person in this regard. But there is hope for comfort. That's what my parents did.
Now it sounds like they still had a lot of feelings before they talked. The old days were tough, so I didn't have time to think about things. I want to be my family.
Now dad often plays little jokes with mom and plays little hooligans. But my father took responsibility. Sometimes my mom is very instigated, and she can pour the blood of my dad scolding the dog into her brain, say anything, and turn over the old accounts from 10 years ago and scold.
But my dad always gets over it and gets better the next day. Reconciliation is still needed. Feelings can't be eaten, no matter how beautiful a woman is, no matter how handsome a man is.
But decades of affection have made them happy. Can a marriage be happy without love? What do you think?
A marriage without love is definitely not as good as a marriage with love, because marriage is not simply a matter between two families, but between two people, that is, two unrelated people form a new family to raise children. I think that if two people don't have feelings, but do some particularly intimate actions, they may feel particularly unnatural, and even feel that the other person is particularly fake. Maybe the two of you are really the right kind of existence in the eyes of your parents, but that doesn't change the lack of affection between the two of you.
The two of you may only respect each other in marriage. However, marriages with feelings are different. If two people have feelings, they can do everything with a clear heart.
Maybe if two people really have feelings, it is natural to get married. But it does not mean that there is no harmony in marriage and family without feelings. There must be a reason why parents choose someone who is more suitable for you.
We also believe that parents look at people and things. After all, they all have some life experience, and they have more experience than us. Maybe the other person doesn't love you, and you don't love each other, but the two of you can do a better job of dealing with the conflict between the two of you than those who have feelings.
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Personally, I think that a marriage without feelings will not be happy, two people must have an emotional foundation together, and with an emotional foundation, it will be more harmonious after marriage, and both parties can better assume the responsibilities of the family.
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I think I will be happy, although I didn't have feelings before, but after getting married, if two people know how to tolerate and understand, and also know how to manage a marriage, they will slowly cultivate feelings.
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I don't think I'll be happy in a marriage without feelings. Married life needs emotional support to support each other and run the family well.
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No, because affection is the foundation of marriage, and if there is no affection in a marriage, the marriage will not be happy.
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<> two people who have no love can finally come together, which is also a kind of fate. Whether they will be happy or not depends on whether the two of them will live a life. As the saying goes, a husband and wife are blessed for a hundred days.
Two people become husband and wife together, and after getting along for a long time, they will also have feelings, and this kind of relationship has a strong family affection in it. Although it is said that two people have no love at the beginning, they can still cherish each other, know how to give each other affection, and live a good life, then they will feel happy.
Of course. If both of them don't know how to give, they will just take what they need, use each other, and have their own ghosts. If you don't know how to manage and cultivate relationships together, you won't be able to live, then there will be no happiness at all. After a long time, sooner or later they will separate.
Happiness is divided into deep happiness and shallow happiness. If each other can meet their soul mates and unite, this is of course a deep happiness, a kind of wordless tacit understanding, and a state of high compatibility of souls. Two people don't need too many words when they are together, just a look, a hand, a throw, and the other party understands you, because they know each other best.
We know that the luckiest thing is not to find someone you love the most, but to find someone who understands you best, so if two people are soul mates, it is the happiest union.
Of course, in addition to this deep happiness, there is also shallow happiness. Two people may have no love together, or no real love, not a lover in the depths of their souls, but they can still live happily together. Now and even in the past, how many families are united because of love?
But they still have a good life, and they still respect each other like guests.
Is it possible to have a marriage without love? Absolutely. Can a marriage without love be happy?
Of course not. But not everyone cares about the feeling of happiness. Sometimes, getting married is because of need, even if you are not happy, you have to marry a man and a woman.
Therefore, love can be very simple, and there is happiness only with love. However, there can be marriage without love; There can be no happiness and there can be marriage.
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It will not be happy, because it is not conducive to the development of the relationship, nor is it conducive to the harmony of the relationship, and it will also make you feel very depressed, so when we encounter this situation, we must divorce the other party.
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A marriage without feelings will not be happy, two people live together, and if there is no relationship with each other, they will feel uncomfortable and become irritable, and after a long time, two people will be like strangers.
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I don't think I will be happy in a marriage without feelings, because there is no emotional foundation and no common topic, I will feel very unnatural and unhappy in life, and I will be constrained in everything I do, and I feel that it is not my own family.
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Not necessarily happy, it depends on the understanding of emotions between two people, as well as how two people get along in marriage, if two people have emotions, the subsequent marriage may be happy.
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will not be happy because there is no affection between two people at all, and there is no need to insist on such a marriage, and they will break up or divorce because of a little wind and rain.
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Of course, there will be no happiness without feelings, if two people have no feelings, they will take care of everything, then what happiness is there.
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Look at the later stage of the wood has cultivated feelings, some people are together, it seems that they can't cultivate feelings, it has always been like this, but the husband and wife have been together for a long time, there will always be family affection and kindness.
Do you know? 85% of emotional crises are irreparable, but many people are at a loss and anxious to deal with the crisis correctly and rationally.
In fact, love is ordinary and ordinary, that is, men and women understand each other, respect each other, and each other. Maybe it's not as good as you imagined, and it shouldn't be so bad that it shouldn't be so good, life is not so good, all happy.
My college classmates went on a blind date, and after marriage, they slowly cultivated their relationship. Now his marriage is also very happy, so a marriage without love can be very happy. .So when fate is destined, they will only accept it and will not think too much.
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But if there is no affection between husband and wife, the psychological thoughts of the two people are different, and many times there will be a very embarrassing feeling.
I always feel uncomfortable with this person.
This embarrassment will not slowly disappear as the two people gradually become acquainted, on the contrary, it will only slowly deepen as the years go by.
Such marriages generally don't last long, and even if they can barely maintain it now, they will eventually end up separated.
2) Both want to stay away from each other and are irritable.
Whether husband and wife can get along well depends on whether there is affection between two people.
When there is only responsibility left between the husband and wife, and there is no feeling, the thought of wanting to leave each other will pop up in the heart.
In fact, this kind of thinking is also normal, although the two are husband and wife, but there is no feeling anymore.
Therefore, in such an emotionless marriage, husband and wife may have a feeling of leaving each other, feeling that getting along with each other is very depressing, and only staying away will be comfortable.
A marriage without feelings is really like a rope that is about to break, it feels like it's going to break, but it's still connected, and this feeling is very uncomfortable.
The feeling between husband and wife is the same, seeing each other dangling in front of them, they feel very uncomfortable, and they don't want to look at each other.
But the two live together, and when they see each other, they will have a feeling of annoyance to each other in their hearts.
used to be a loving couple, but there was no affection between the two, and I felt that many topics could not be talked about together.
Communication is very important for people to get along with each other.
Only through communication can we understand each other's true thoughts, so that there will not be so many misunderstandings between husband and wife, and there will not be too many quarrels.
Many times, I have a good chat with my friends, but when I get home and see the other person's face, I don't want to talk to him.
This may be a person's psychological problem, and if he feels that the other party is not good, he can't look down on it.
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People are considerate of their own minds and preferences.
Love is not concerned about one's own benefits, love is to give, to tolerate and accept.
Will changing this situation change by another person?Not necessarily!
I suggest you put yourself down and start over!
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Can a marriage without feelings really be happy?No, it won't. A three-year-old who saw them last year.
One is 83 years old, the other is 82 years old!I wish you good health!I said enviously:
Look, you're so nice. Black hair on white hair, with old age!The third master said:
We also quarreled. Your third daughter's ears are hard to use. Speak lightly, she can't hear.
Seriously, I'm in a bad mood!But I didn't hear the sadness, but I saw the smile on their faces!Can you say they don't have love?
Through this long life together, this is the proof of love itself!
<> if the other person doesn't love, they don't care about the details of life. There is also a kind of love that does not have the ability to love and the ability to take care of each other. The position of the heart has never changed. Just like this kind of love, it is a responsible heart and love, but happiness cannot exist.
True love is to maintain the original sex life, not to do it, to do it, to live without asking! There are different reasons to get married now. One is that the bride's ** is an octave, which puts economic pressure on a happy life.
Young couples are not in favor of paying off debts. In middle age, they are not in favor of finding things for their children. When they are old, they have little love.
They just mixed together for a meal. If their children are attached, they can live a good life spiritually. How many marriages were there during the period when parents were in love?
So it's not necessary. There are many factors that affect whether they are happy together, such as their family background, personality, three perspectives, work environment, and so on. Love will also end.
Of course, love increases the happiness of a marriage.
Things often go beyond our expectations because of his job, when I met him a few days ago last year, he changed jobs from our company, and he told me that the other half is very different from before he got married. He said he had a temper, he didn't care, he complained about this and that all day long, he was greedy. He always listened to his mother.
He said he couldn't live with her and wanted a divorce, and his mother also "brought" (consented) to his daughter's divorce. I won't repeat the following story one after the other.
I'd rather choose to love yours than choose what you love. Hehe, you're lucky and you have to pick. The marriage that loves you can last, but the marriage you love may not be able to hold on.
I think the crux of the matter is not how much he loves you, but what kind of person he is, if he can be a model husband and a model father after marriage, there is no personality and other problems. The person who loves you like this must be cherished. A woman must find someone who is truly in love with her in order to be happy. >>>More
Feelings are not lost in a moment, but disappear little by little in the wrong way of doing business.
Feelings are not lost in a moment, but disappear little by little in the wrong way of doing business.
Well, I also think that giving up is the best choice, catch a person who doesn't love yourself, it's better to find someone who loves yourself, so that you won't live too tired, life is just a few decades, you have to live happily, give yourself confidence, tell yourself, you can do it, who doesn't have the same earth is still the same turn.