29, what should I do if I don t have a partner and am very anxious?

There is no need to be anxious, the rhythm of life of everyone in contemporary society is different, this does not mean anything, everyone's situation is different, you can go out to participate in some social activities, live your life colorfully, independently have your own favorite career or hobbies, and improve your taste.

In the Internet era, it is easy to connect with strangers, go out to socialize, and meet friends in different circles. I used to be afraid of social anxiety, but then I felt that it was too boring for me to go on like this, so I consciously went out and met new circles.

You can add a variety of things you are interested in group chatting, and then get together more with your friends, for example, if you like to travel, then participate in more traveler gatherings, and if you like to chase stars, you can meet with other fans to go to concerts.

You can also participate in more reunions of friends and classmates, and then learn to distinguish between good and bad, and now social software is also a good choice, such as sweet friends to talk about.

Seriously, there are quite a lot of ways, you can add a friend's introduction, which is relatively reliable, because family and friends know your preferences relatively well, and they will not introduce unreliable people to you.

In general, you don't need to pay attention to these things, just live the moment.

Feelings are such a thing, rather lack than indiscriminate, don't fall in love for the sake of love, this thing is not responsible for yourself, I believe that you can always meet your right person, and seize the opportunity when the time comes.

People's feelings are limited, of course, to leave the best of themselves to the best people, this is not called loneliness, this is to guard the other half of their own has not yet appeared like jade (= =), come on.

I longed for love and marriage in my heart, but now the process is not going well. Actively facing the matter of finding a partner, in addition to accepting the blind date, you can appropriately adjust your mate selection criteria, because you have not found a partner now, it is likely that your mate selection standards are too high. Your own criteria for choosing a mate should be reasonable, you need to think rationally, and you need to face your heart and face the problem.

If you want to find a partner at the age of 29, you can go to a former classmate who is not married, so it is easy to find a partner.

You're a girl, aren't you? Men and women don't need to be anxious at this age. Why haven't you had an object yet, maybe your requirements are too high.

In my opinion, 29 years old does not have a partner yet, and there is no need to be anxious. After all, sometimes fate is so strange, when you want to meet it, you don't have anything, and when you don't want it, you come to the door again.

Those 30+ who have no object must not die of anxiety?! ~

When a person especially wants to find a partner, he finds that he just can't find it, just like the more you want to do something, the more you can't do that feeling, I also had this feeling at the beginning, when I was old in my hometown, I didn't say I didn't want to find a partner, but I just couldn't find a suitable one, and at that time I was anxious to lose my hair.

My feeling at the time was that when I was looking at the men around me, there was a kind of whether this person could develop into a marriage partner, and whether that person could try, and then my colleague said that I felt like I was seeing prey, and then approached people very deliberately, and they were scared to death, and I couldn't sleep for about a year.

However, after looking for it and not finding it, after being in a hurry and not being in a hurry, I chose to treat it coldly, what I thought at the time was, forget it, don't look for it, love won't come, and if you can't find it, you won't marry, and then there is no feeling of staring at everyone who feels who is my object.

As a result, just a few months after this kind of thinking, I met my husband, and then we got married after knowing each other for three months, so if you are also in a hurry to find a partner, but you just can't find it, you can't be like me, relax your mind, don't be too anxious, because this thing is not something you can rush to come, fate This kind of thing is really hard to say, you can't stop it if it comes, or it doesn't come, you can't drag it to heaven and earth.

At this time of waiting for fate, you can improve your work ability, and then go out with friends more, participate in more activities organized by friends, and expand your circle of friends.

If you are too anxious, you will only scare people, so that others dare not approach you, even if fate comes, you may be scared away because of your eagerness, after all, when a person is in a hurry to find a partner, you are really like a wolf.

Being single is the best time to build yourself.

Use your scared time to build yourself. You will meet a better version of yourself.

Happiness and security are all given by oneself, and what the object gives can only be said to be added on the basis of oneself.

Of course, if there are good people, you still have to actively grasp it, after all, it is not a bad thing for multiple people to take care of themselves.

In the wilderness of time, there will be no earlier or one step later, and the fate that should be there will be met sooner or later.

Life is actually meaningless, we think about how we came to this world with nothing, and we couldn't take anything with us when we left. In this long life from birth to earth, we experience and feel the world by ourselves.

First of all, we are an independent individual, ideological, economic, personality, etc., so there is no need to be too demanding when it comes to finding a partner or a partner, because whether or not to find a partner is not the standard for judging a person's success or not, or whether the body and mind are normal, and there is even no relevant law that stipulates that people must find a partner ...... when they reach any age

So there is no need to be anxious, and the more independent people are, the more likely they are to live well with others, so they can often live well on their own. Of course, one day I did meet the other half I liked, and it is not impossible to pursue it bravely, because I will never know the result without trying, life is also very short and not easy, and there is only one time, it is also my own, I can find the best, I don't have to be anxious if I can't find it, just let it be.

I used to have this kind of anxiety like you, because when I was very old, I couldn't find a partner, and it may have a very big impact on my mood.

Optimistic about life, and then in life should be a person should also live well, think about this kind of thinking a little.

There must be a reason why you can't find the object, calm down and analyze it well, and then improve your ability, especially your economic ability, so that you can get a better development. The eldest husband has no wife, so don't dwell on a useless thing, we should improve ourselves.

It's very anxious to find the object, and it's actually very simple to get rid of this anxiety, as long as you find the object, you can completely eliminate this anxiety, and it's easy to find it if you lower your own conditions.

This kind of thing is not urgent, especially in today's society, where there are more men and fewer women, and there are many single unmarried, the current society is not like in ancient times, well, to the age, whether good or bad, girls will choose men to marry, and in today's society, women are often very independent, and they don't need to rely on boys to live well. Fate is not in a hurry, just try to improve yourself, but also try to seize the opportunity, I believe that one day your fate will come, meet slowly.

If you can't find a partner, you have to drink two glasses. Like the ancients, drink a few glasses, have a few peanuts and look at the sky, and don't think about the things you love and love, so it will be much better.

If you can't find a partner and are anxious, then you can expand your circle of friends and meet new people, so that you may have a great chance of finding the right person.

Mobilize the friends around you to help you introduce, of course, the most important thing for yourself is to adjust your mood, to make yourself more natural, and tell yourself that there will be a natural fate.

Cultivate your own interests and hobbies, and when you are full enough, I believe that you will not have the time and energy to think about these issues.

Talk to your friends, comfort them, and introduce them.