27 I don t have a boyfriend, I can t find someone who loves me, what should I do when I m lonely?

Listen to my advice, don't feel lonely and lonely because you can't find a boyfriend, you can't find someone who loves you, you have to understand a truth, in the adult world, there has always been loneliness and loneliness, this is the same truth since ancient times, even if there are many people around you, you will always feel that you are a lonely person, this is the mentality of the strong, understand? A truly powerful king, has always been lonely and lonely, there is no king who is not lonely and lonely, it is not that we choose to be lonely and lonely, but lonely and lonely choose us, this is a phenomenon that we can't escape, the only thing we can do is to accept it, escape will never solve the problem, maybe you don't understand it now, when you are a little older, you will understand this truth, and at that time you will enjoy this lonely loneliness, because you are already very strong at that time. People who stand at the top will always be lonely and lonely, because no one dares to approach, and no one can get close, this is the price that successful people have to pay, this is the problem that the powerful king must face, and this is why the strong will always win.

This is why we will always only compare with the strong, but we are not willing to go downhill and keep up with the weak, because we know that we are the strongest, we can only go uphill, can not go downhill, if you want to become the strongest, you must know how to enjoy loneliness and loneliness, you must know how to enjoy the time alone, you must endure loneliness and loneliness, which is why we can't find a person who can love yourself and give yourself a sense of security.

But what I want to tell you is that in the world of love, you must rather lack than abundant, and you must not run to find a random one to like because of loneliness and loneliness, that is not the most correct approach, nor the most correct choice, let alone true love, it may be like a game, play a game.

That's it, you still have to separate later, so keep in mind that whether it's the strongest person or looking for true love, you can't make choices and judgments because of impulse, many things can't be judged and made at a moment's notice, because the judgments and choices made when you are impulsive are not necessarily the most correct and best, so please think twice, you must think seriously about this issue, because this is your lifelong event, if you can't meet the best choice, then you'd rather be single for a lifetime, don't choose one at random, it may harm your life, then your whole life will be ruined. Always remember that what we miss is not necessarily the best, maybe the better is behind, as long as we are willing to wait, sooner or later one day we will find our own happiness, will have our other half, but not necessarily now, waiting is the best way, we have to wait patiently, not because we can't stand the loneliness, just go to other choices, with a broken jar.

way, ruining his life like that.

This is the most frequent complaint of women who can't get married. For these people, the men they meet are either not attractive enough or too attractive; Good men either don't exist on this planet at all, or they're unlucky enough to be met, or they're all dead. Even if you are lucky enough to bump into a few, you are either married, or you can't look down on it.

The first thing this kind of woman needs to do is her own mentality: what is a good man? At the age of 30, I haven't figured it out, and the problem lies with myself.

Do you want to marry the man you love, or a good man? Moreover, there is no label on the face of a good man, and there is not a uniform standard, rich? Sentimental?

Considerate? Or something else? The question is that no matter how good a man is, what is the use of him if he is not suitable for you.

Choosing a husband can never use the concept of "tailor-made", but is more like picking a mobile phone in the market. Your task is to choose from the top-of-the-line Vertu to the cheapest domestic phone, which is relatively suitable. You have to abandon the stereotype of a good man, because a woman's mind of a good man is like a dot-com bubble that doesn't exist at all, and even if you catch it, it will eventually burst.

Rotten man drug addiction.

It is exactly at the opposite extremes of the previous category, some women specialize in messing with bad men (more married men who seem to be unhappy in marriage) and waste their youth, but their awareness of reality and strategic means are far inferior to those of the second wife. Their mantra was, "You don't know him, but he's actually very nice to me."

Indeed, men who have the ability to get their wives and the energy to deal with their lovers are by no means idle, most of them have the money and leisure to give you the whole world, except for marriage.

There is also a typical case of cross-infection between a "rotten man" and an "ex-boyfriend", and women with soft hearts or soft ears are particularly weak in their resistance to this germ. Generally speaking, it is the ex-boyfriend who has broken up for a long time (and even married) who will suddenly call you "I want to see if you are doing lately". If you are confused and can't bear the loneliness, continue to keep it like this with him.

Eat a meal once in a while + go to bed occasionally", then don't complain that the moon looks down on you. Please, you should get your brain running once in a while: if you're really good enough to be invincible in the universe, why doesn't he just divorce and marry you?

Believe me, a good man with a little ambition will stay away from you.

For this kind of rotten man, wait forever? Think about it!

The ex-boyfriend is not in love.

That's right, the fish that escapes from the hook is always the biggest. No matter how ruthless you broke up at the time, it seems that only your ex-boyfriend has a good personality, is handsome, considerate and gentle, and has a soulless sex life. But remember:

That's history. If you are the one who proposes to break up at that time, please don't think about the face, and pick up ** and dial it to him now (based on experience, the chance of recovery may still be 5%-10%). But if he dumped you, then with all due respect, Saddam Hussein's chances of giving up terrorism are definitely much better than the chances of you getting back together.

Don't just find a boyfriend just because you can't find a boyfriend, sisters, don't settle for it! When you're lonely, you can find friends, or go for a walk, and sometimes it's good to learn to enjoy being alone! If you are depressed, find a way to release yourself, you can find a few little sisters to drink and go shopping!

If there is really no one to accompany you, you can also open a room in this hotel, drink and vent! Work and live well the next day!

It's okay to be 27 years old, don't be discouraged, you can participate in more socialization, have more contact with the opposite sex, go to marriage and love** to see if there are suitable candidates, etc., the most important thing is to manage your mood and mentality.

Find a stranger to talk freely to satisfy your depressed mood, so that you can rest assured that everything about you can also satisfy your mood.

I also believe that there are a lot of scumbags in this society, I advise you to work hard, love no matter how many years of divorce for the lover to abandon his wife and children, don't take love as the whole of life, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, the deeper the injury, and working hard to earn money is true,

Loneliness and loneliness is a negative emotion, and the thoughts generated based on this emotion are actually wrong and coveted, but people are eager to see hope when they are in distress, and they are easy to be enchanted with this emotion, which will also make people degenerate, so the ancients said that they should be cautious and alone, and they should be especially cautious when they are alone, and they will go with the flow if they act arbitrarily, so as to lose a lot of good things in their hearts.

Be yourself and wait for fate!

Don't be in a hurry, it's better to have a shortage than an abundance!

Don't worry, just wait for fate to arrive.

27 years old, you say you don't have a boyfriend. There may be people chasing you, but you can't look down on it. You can lower the bar and don't ask too much.

27 You don't have a boyfriend, and you can't find someone who loves you. When you're lonely, you're so depressed, why don't you have a boyfriend. There were so many boys chasing you before, and you ignored people and said that no one loved you. Hehe.

Be clear about your positioning, don't ask too high, and don't live in beauty and chicken soup.

Too demanding? Normally, there is more than one 27-year-old.

Send it to see if your body is stunted?