I hesitated between a woman and a brother of the same sex

Looks like you've found out that you're really a little bit done.

If you're really going to do what you say, he's a gay guy (and from what you say, he's a bit of a petty favorite...)

Then his heart should be the same as that of a girl??! Sensitive like a girl.,Love to play petty.。

Don't contradict me and say no, in fact, it can be seen in your words

You said he helped you chase the girl you liked because he liked you.

It seems that the one you like has a very good heart.

I'm not a boy, and I don't know much about what boys think, but if I analyze it from a girl's point of view, your friend deliberately avoided you and avoided you.

Maybe it's just to get your attention, hoping that you don't feel comfortable when he's not around you.

Because I've done stupid things like this.

I thought it was like waiting silently in the TV series, but deliberately not disturbing each other's happiness, but in my heart I hope that it will be right.

Silly, right? But I think your friend probably thinks the same way.

But before that happens, I hope you'll figure it out.

2, does that person still like you (refer to what I said above).

3. If you are together, can you face those pressures and be happy?

I also hope that you will think more about the thoughts of your current girlfriend, and you can't be so selfish.

4. If your feelings for him are not so strong, I hope you can slowly distance yourself from him.

I'm not referring to the fact that you're going to be indecent or anything together (to hell with morality haha).

It's just that it's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, and I think your situation should be even more difficult, right?! So you really have to think it through! ~

Finally, if you really think it through (I think you should have figured it out a long time ago, you just want to find someone to give you some advice).

You should be bold and brave in your pursuit.

Life is only a few decades in the world, so if you have anything, go boldly!

I hope you can be happy

Here's a tip for you: No matter who you end up choosing, make sure to make it clear to the other person!

Don't break anyone's heart, and don't make him wait too long! If you are alienated in the first place to attract you, then over time, it is likely that you will really dislike you because of the alienation

Uh, the legendary glass.?

If you have a mental illness, it is recommended to see a psychologist.

You feel that you are better with him than her because you have friendship with him, and you don't feel much with her. She doesn't care. That's why you feel like sometimes you want to be with him more than her. (Hehe, I personally think that I am not a psychiatrist.) ）

Give up when you should give up, comrades are inherently fruitless, or cherish your girlfriend, if it's really a friend, you help him correct his heart, let him out of the shadows, some comrades are born, they like men in their bones, this can't be helped, now the society is open, let him go, as long as he is happy, you can also bless him, you are still friends, treat comrades well, have tolerance, have no desire, cherish your girlfriend.

First of all, you have to figure out whether you like the same sex or the opposite sex. That's the premise.

If you like the same sex, you give up on her and go to him;

If you like the opposite sex, you give him a little more time, spend more time with him, and don't snub him because of her.

Hopefully you're just brothers. Good luck.

First of all, I bless you too!

I think that if you really love your girlfriend, you should get along well and not let other factors affect her feelings for you.

But, at the same time, don't snub him. In fact, it is also very normal for you to have a very close relationship with him in the past, so you have formed this reluctant mood today. In the past, it could be said that they were inseparable, saying everything, helping each other, and knowing each other.

It can be said that he is your good friend, good buddy, good confidant, and good brother. There are deep feelings between you: friendship, affection, etc.

But this kind of "love" must not be confused with "love". Because, if you have fantasies about the same sex, then you will definitely not only have special feelings for him, you may have a subtle feeling for other people of the same sex around you. And if you have "love" with him, then when you pass **, you will want to see him, see him, you will want to be close to him, and when you are close, you will want to hold his hand or even hug him.

It's the same feeling as a man having love for a woman.

Finally, I hope you and her are happy. With him will always be buddies, confidants, and brothers.

Brother, sadly, you should tell that same-sex brother of yours, you and him can only be ordinary friends, how to say anything, anyway, after reading it, I am also very entangled.

Guide your younger brother correctly.

By hating women and saying that they like men.

is incorrect.

Even if you become gay, you won't be happy.

Let your brother understand that not all women are like that.

This is normal, and I am doing the same. Just because you don't like a woman doesn't necessarily mean you like a man.

Just because you don't like a woman doesn't mean you like a man! I agree with what was said upstairs!

Your brother is rejected, and that's because he hasn't found his true love yet, if he finds it.

What if the other party is a man or a woman? As long as your brother likes it.