Short and feeling anxious?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Because of short, very inferior, resulting in very, very anxious, it can be said that it involves life, work, learning all aspects of my life, just to name a few examples, I am anxious every day whether I am the shortest in a group of people, now people's living conditions are getting better and better, and the height will only get higher and higher in the future, when I see children, I am anxious that they will be taller than me in the future, and when I see a girl I like, I am anxious that she thinks I am short, and I am anxious that a tall person appears, and I am reduced to a foil, and I always feel that people in my hometown are talking about how I am so short, I'm always anxious If you use your current height to go back to elementary school, junior high school, high school, college, or I'm the shortest, because these series of anxiety brought by height have made me haggard, restless, unable to concentrate at all, and feel very tired all day, but it is difficult to fall asleep in a short time, and the quality of sleep is very poor, and I can't meditate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, advantages are sometimes disadvantages, and disadvantages are sometimes advantages, if short stature is your disadvantage, it can also be used as your advantage, as the so-called concentrated is all the essence, so don't feel anxious, just treat yourself correctly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't be anxious! It's a congenital thing to be short!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you are short, you can find some cheats to grow taller and increase your height appropriately, if you can't, you should let yourself adapt to accept this fact, short has the advantage of being short, not that being tall is good, tall people have the difficulties of being tall, and they should accept rather than be anxious. Find something to make yourself better, and your worries will go away.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't be anxious if you're short, I think it's better to eat more good food, supplement your nutrition and exercise more, some are also related to genetics, and anxiety is useless, in fact.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, this is indeed a hard injury for many people, especially boys. However, this cannot be changed, only to make one's own inner strength, these are external, enriching one's inner cultivation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are still growing your body, then it may still rise, but if it is no longer growing, you don't have to think too much, as long as you have the ability, others will not see that you are short.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't feel anxious.

    Because anxiety is useless, it will affect sleep, and good sleep can promote teenagers to grow taller.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since God has given me a small body that I feel sorry for, it's a pity not to be cute.

    Actually, no one will mind this question except yourself. Even if you are a little higher and find that you are not so white, you will still be so distressed.

    It's a little bit of a flaw to make people feel like they're mortals like the masses.

    So I'm always very cheeky and accept that these people in this world give me a hand, they pick flowers from high places, and I give you mushrooms under the trees.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can play basketball more, don't worry if you're young, you can grow up, and don't care about these if you're a little older.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, if you find something else that makes you truly happy and proud, you'll find that height doesn't matter. Look at Ma Yun, his height and appearance are not outstanding, but he is so confident.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should post more of your own vertical shining points, you don't always compare your own short branches with the strengths of others, just do your own thing. Strive to improve your ability to connect with others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't look down on yourself, don't care too much about your stature, believe in yourself more, eat more fresh fruits and vegetables, supplement the nutrients needed in the cavity of Kai's limbs, and pay more attention to rest.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you don't want to be kidnapped by the perfection theory, you have to understand that everyone can't be perfect when they are hungry, short is just a characteristic, and grandchildren are not a shortcoming, you have to accept this matter with a normal heart. Then Qi Cha.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, subject!

    I can understand that I have an inferiority complex for a while, and if I am in a new environment at the beginning, I will also have uneasy emotions due to the huge disparity.

    And the subject has realized that his uneasiness is not a bad thing, this is a good thing, indicating that he has been aware of his own heart, we get along with each other, not only look at height or appearance, but each of us to pass on the sincerity and enthusiasm to others, so how to eliminate anxiety, I hope the following points can help the subject.

    Is the nature of work related to height?

    If the nature of the work has a specific height requirement, in the work may not be because of the height, it will bring some troubles to yourself, if not, you don't have to worry about yourself because of the height problem, as for others are taller than you, that is the characteristics of others, people are more popular than people, there is no need to compare other people's strengths with their own shortcomings to make yourself uncomfortable.

    Accept your actual height?

    Tall, short, fat and thin is everyone's characteristic, it is innate, short height is not the subject's fault, so accept such a self, even if you are short, there are short characteristics, if others because you are very short and refuse to associate with you and the subject is injured, it means that the subject has not been able to accept himself, if the subject can accept himself**, no matter how others treat you, you can also face it calmly and like yourself.

    Be sincere with others and build friendly relationships with others.

    If you can understand that the friendship between people is sincere, not because of the appearance, such a relationship will be more long-term, so don't worry too much about the subject's own height will affect friendship, establish a relationship between people, and more importantly, judge people, not height.

    Finally, I wish the subject a happy life!

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