Is all I can do after a loved one is a heartache after being with my brother and being together???

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Also blessed, you should write **, you are noble, just ignore both, eating inside and outside is not a good thing.

    If you're stingy, what should you do?

    **On the end, many people will give a blessing as the ending, in reality, who gives blessings who is abnormal, is someone robbing your wife, will you be very gentlemanly to give him a smile? You can't be too gentlemanly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget about them, distance yourself from them, and talk to them again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What did you do in the first place?

    I regret it now, it's a pity that it's late.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Numb yourself, and for a period of time, give up your own yearning for the beauty of life, so that your heart will not be so sensitive. Since you love her, don't forget to sincerely wish her happiness. Try to find a new goal again, new pain can cover up old happiness, and new happiness can cover up old scars.

    There is no need to keep yourself in a negative state of life all the time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People who say that they will bless it, it doesn't happen to themselves, they feel that they can do it, people are selfish, if it really happens to themselves, they all hope that he (she) will be unhappy with others, be hurt, come back to themselves or give themselves a chance to be with him (her).

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you're with me.

    The hurt is greater than the pleasure.

    If that person.

    can bring a smile to your face.

    Then I'll take the rest alone.

    I think I'll bless you :)

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it is completely impossible for the person to come together with himself, then bless him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, love is a two-way street, not that you will have a good result if you work your own, if she doesn't love you anymore. Bless her

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes! If I really love him! I would wish him happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, if you can't get it, at least I hope he can be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you can't be with the person you love, is there any other way not to bless? Kill her? Patience? Ignore her? Don't miss it? Forgot about her? How strong do you have to be to dare to forget it? Kindness?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the person you love is not happy with you, and you are not happy, bless him with others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, if you love them, you have to care about them and hope that they will be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I will.

    Happiness is my greatest comfort!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the person you love is not happy with you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What you said can only show one thing, and that is that you love him.

    But does he love you? Are you boyfriend and girlfriend in a relationship?

    If not, you can only be sad, and you can only find your own happiness.

    Others have the right to pursue the person they like.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You've said it yourself, it's just a dream.

    I'm telling you, oh, I dreamed I was engaged.

    And there was a man crying next to me, I could see that man, he liked me for a long time.

    Now we're just friends.

    Dreams are all reversed, so don't worry too much about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're worried about losing him and you're not confident in yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's just a dream, don't think too much about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do you know why you have this dream?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can be clear about two hundred questions. First, you're really "deep zhi."

    Love "someone else's dao? Second, don't be with her once.

    Can you accept it? Answer: If your first question is yes, then keep trying. If it's not so "deep", then forget it. If your second answer is no, then go ahead.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If your love is greedy, then you should put it.

    Bai abandoned, giving up does not mean forgetting to remember, but better preserving the best dao memory for her, some things are not necessarily the most beautiful, it is a man to be generous, because you are with her must be you can't give her the result you want, so you can only bless her, let his sky have freedom, so that your world is not burdened.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Sometimes happiness is earned by yourself, how do you know if you don't try?

    You can say what you think, it's one thing for people to accept it or not, as long as you don't regret it in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's yours after all, it's yours after all, it's not yours who can keep others and can't keep his heart, the so-called life sometimes has to have, and life has no time to force it.

    Let's go for it first! I have worked hard and have a clear conscience.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you feel like you.

    Bai is better than what you say "Du others", then you can fight for it; If you feel inferior to the dao.

    Others", if you can let the person you love come back to you, then it is better to let him (her) and "others".

    Instead of suffering three, it is better to suffer alone, and you are also great in doing this, and others will see it!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love is selfish. Seeing the person you like with someone else can imagine the pain in your heart. I don't have that much measure to bless them anymore.

    I just hope she can be happy, and at the same time, I hope she can dislike that person as soon as possible and return to me with her whole body. I think most people really want that, and so should you. I like to be honest.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I didn't expect him to be with someone else, and I really feel heartbroken. Come on, brother! Either forget or I know that feeling, heartbreaking, but, now is not the time, bless you Nothing can be forced.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should bless her, and it will not be good for you to continue to desire.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you want me to come, it's not right.

    Actually, I guess you know it's wrong.

    Just send a question out and want to hear everyone's opinions.

    In fact, the reason is very simple, you don't love him like this and stay with him in the end to hurt him more.

    You should calmly tell him from the beginning that you don't have feelings for him and that you are not suitable.

    But at this point, you're all with him, and it's useless to talk about those truths.

    I'll give you a solution.

    Show the side he doesn't like in front of him.

    For example, if he likes to be quiet, you will be noisy and verbose all day long.

    He likes to be dignified, and you show your raunchy side in front of him.

    He likes to be empathetic, and you show him unreasonably.

    He likes to be generous and cute, and you ...... take care of it

    But to grasp the degree is to make him feel that you are not suitable and lose his feelings for you.

    Instead of being cold to him or hurting him.

    Because the colder he is to him, the more likely he is to have the fighting spirit and perseverance to conquer you, and men are like that.

    It's not your intention to hurt him.

    It may be hard, take your time, who told you that you have already done a wrong step......By the way, are you a Libra girl?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You're so shameless, eating in your mouth and looking at the pot, it's too much. He was really blind.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Why are so many people worried about emotional problems,,, it really hurts... Sad.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What is the meaning of free love?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hehe.. It's the same as I was some time ago.

    A man is also very good to me, so good that every classmate in the class thinks I'm happy, but I don't like him at all, but we're still together, but only for one semester together, no matter how stupid he is, he understands that I don't like him anymore, so I split up. After that, I became more and more acquainted with his brother, who I had liked before, and then his brother finally told me that he had liked me before, but he didn't dare to come near me because he thought I was his brother's girlfriend.

    So now I'm with the person I like.

    After all, you don't love him, you can't be together for too long, it's better to grasp your heart, you won't be happy together like this, the longer you drag it on, the more hurtful it will be.

    If the person you like also happens to like you, but you don't say it, your behavior of being afraid of hurting others will make all 3 people very miserable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    fainted, if you don't like it, just talk about it earlier, you want to kill him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you don't know how to love, don't love.

    This way, if you let go, it will be very adulterated.

    Find him clear because if not.

    It hurts him, and it hurts you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you don't know how to love, don't love.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I've been in this situation and we've both been hurt in the end, so it's best to explain to him as soon as possible that the deeper the love, the more thoroughly it hurts!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Break up quickly, and don't look for his brother.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You should be honest with her so as not to break her heart even more.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Tell him that you don't love him, maybe he will be painful and sad, but this is good for 3 people, long pain is better than short pain, talk to him well, time is the best medicine for sadness.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Do you think you're great at doing this, you're wrong, you've hurt him deeply!! He needs more than just someone he loves, but someone who loves him, you know, let it go, otherwise you will be very hurt!! It hurts!!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    No, you will only harm yourself by doing so, and you will not be happy together.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No, tell him the truth, or you'll end up hurting three people.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you don't love him, break up! He won't be in him in the future, he wants to know your mobile phone number! Change your mobile phone number to OKL

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Seriously, face it sincerely.

    Maybe it's hard to do back.

    But it will eventually lead to results.

    It's good for yourself and for others.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    That's so wrong.

    The best thing to do is to leave him.

    Be with your loved ones.

    Compassion does not mean love.

    It is terrible to get along with only sympathy.

    You are afraid that he will be sad now, but if you continue like this, you will hurt him even more in the future.

    Get out of the way as soon as possible.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Make it clear to him as soon as possible, it is best to be the right time, the deeper the contact with him, the more it will hurt him.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Xiaoqian: When I read your words, my heart hurts.

    You're still young, and I'm sure you're a good girl.

    There are a lot of things that we can't change There are a lot of things It's not like we think you and your brother have a really good relationship I believe my brother cares about Xiaoqian Sometimes there will be an illusion Maybe the environment makes you feel comfortable with each other and rely on each other You think about it You and your brother have lived for so long Your relationship You care about your brother Maybe it's just family affection Just because of the environment Just because of those big and small things Make you think it's love You are still young Now It's still far from love It's just that I like it deeply Don't deny it When you're older, you'll understand that Xiaoqian cares about her brother so much She regards her brother as her own dependence As for her brother's affairs, don't be suspicious In that kind of family, every child will be hurt More or less will have some impact Maybe My brother just doesn't want to face the family He became like that He is Xiaoqian's brother anyway So you have to believe it About the family You can talk to your dad It's hard to use words It's hard to use words Adults are under too much pressure It's not easy It's their fault I always feel guilty.

    I think there are too many similarities among children nowadays, maybe it's all caused by the environment, and I used to wonder if I was a doll, if I was a tool of adults, and I had a lot of sadness, and I shed a lot of tearsBut now that I've grown up, I'm starting to understand that it's not easy for people to live, and some people have some stories that they can't imagine, but they have to believe that God is fair to every child, and if they have experienced too much now, they may be very happy in the future...Everyone is great when they are alive Because it can bring laughter to others Because it can make people feel warm In this way, it's really great Remember No one is a tool for anyone Even if it is, you have to be your own master You are still young You may not be able to think of many things In my brother's heart Maybe it has already been scarred Don't you think that my brother is really strong in front of you That's because he wants to protect you Xiaoqian, you have to live optimistically Some roads are so difficult to walk You can change the way You have to be worthy of yourself No matter what, you have to learn to face it with a smile Emotional things Let time verify it Now you have to live well Come on Be a good child Believe that everything will always be good When you are sad Think about the past Think about the future It will always pass It's better to change your mentality and face it well Maybe I said this You will feel that I don't understand you at all But I have experienced that kind of heartbreak and fear I really hope that Xiaoqian can be strong Do what you should do and take the path you should take Nothing is set in stone Nothing is immutable Nothing is always ever-changing Do your best to change what you want to change Believe in yourself, go your own way, and let the people who have a chat gossip.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Everyone is an individual, living for themselves, and there is no other ??? that is someone else's toy

    It's good to feel sorry for your relatives, you don't want your image in the hearts of your relatives to be damaged, it's also a normal psychology, it's okay, don't be so pessimistic...

    What's more, you should think about how to learn more knowledge now, so that you can be independent in the future, in order to bring happiness to yourself and each other, now think about this, you are all so young.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Oh, my God... People are so numb - I don't know about you. But a lot of people say I know people very well.

    I'll talk to you if you want.,Don't worry.,I don't have any other purpose.,I.。。 Don't give me the bounty. It's wasted - I'll open up with you to talk about it.

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