How can you tell if your boyfriend is really busy or simply doesn t want to pay attention to you?

It depends on how seriously the boyfriend replies to the message, if the boyfriend replies slowly but seriously, and the sentence is on the point, it means that he is busy; If he doesn't answer the question, or even if the donkey's lips don't match the horse's mouth, it means that he doesn't want to pay attention to you.

I feel that it usually takes half a day to reply to one, and I should ignore you. Otherwise, I'll tell you I'm busy, and I'll talk about it later.

If the other party tells you that they are busy at the beginning, they should be busy. There are too many things, and it's normal to reply to you once in a while.

You can look at the frequency and tone of the other person's reply to you, and the one with a bad tone just doesn't want to pay attention to you.

I don't usually ignore my girlfriend unless I'm really busy. I don't usually lie to her.

Just think of it as if the other person is busy. It also saves yourself from being angry, even if the other party plays the game again, they are busy.

I feel that I don't take everything too seriously, and I am the one who gets angry in the end. If the other party is slow to reply to you, it is probably busy.

It still depends on the state of the two of you, if it is in love, the other party will not ignore you.

Look at the number of words in the other person's reply. If it's just "Well, yes, yes", this kind of reply probably doesn't want to pay attention to you.

If it takes half a day to reply to you, and it's a voice, you should be busy. Typing is slow.

When a man tells you that he is busy, it means that he is no longer willing to communicate with you too much, and even in a relationship, it seems to have come to an end.

So when a girl finds that the boy is always busy, she must be ready to be broken up, after all, from the bottom of his heart he already wants to end the relationship, but he has not said it yet, this is not to disturb is a good choice for himself and for him, after all, blindly unilateral payment and too much language will eventually seem pale and powerless, and will also let themselves be hurt in the unresponsive feelings, mismatched and tortured, and even collapsed, becoming a puppet of feelings. It is extremely irrational to let such feelings bind oneself. We should learn to regulate our hearts and judge the other person's attitude, so as to decide whether a relationship will stay or not, and whether we should stick to it.

In fact, many withered men are very irresponsible in the face of feelings, when they feel that a relationship can not be maintained, they will never take the initiative to break up, but treat it with a cold attitude, let the girl know her attitude, and begin to think about whether the relationship can be maintained, if the girl can't stand such cold violence, she will eventually take the initiative to break up, at this time they will break away from the relationship from the position of the victim, once, Having avoided too much moral condemnation and uneasy conscience, he was at ease and entered the next love he wanted.

This kind of behavior is not an isolated case, but a behavior that many people will have and think that it is the best way to do it. Therefore, when a man tells you that he is busy, it means that he already wants to give up on you, does not want to continue with you, and does not want to have too much involvement with you.