What are the harms caused by parental divorce to minor children?

One of the biggest effects of parental divorce on minor children is about psychological effects, when they get married later, they may feel afraid to face such a thing as marriage, because when they are young, our divorce has brought them a psychological impact, which will cause him to affect his own future life state.

First of all, there must be harm, the child will definitely live in a single-parent family since he was a child and lack a love, for example, if he follows his mother, it must be that the child lacks father's love, and at the same time, if it is a boy, he was a child because of the lack of father's love, so it is difficult for him to judge some things, so that in the end when he grows up, he is a more extreme person, or he is extremely excellent, or extremely lonely.

After the divorce of parents, the lack of love of one of the minor children is very detrimental to their growth, which will cause a withdrawn character, and even low self-esteem, and there may be certain distortions psychologically, and they are very rebellious in adolescence, and it is very easy to do something unfavorable to society.

When we divorce and we re-establish the family again, at this time, the object of our family is particularly unacceptable to their children, they will not understand our behavior, and even some excesses.

The damage caused to children by the divorce of parents is many. If the child leaves when he is very young, the parents may not care so much about the child, so the child will become very withdrawn, he may feel that he may be a child without parents, he will feel very uncomfortable, he may become very introverted, unwilling to contact others.

When the parents are divorced, it is very likely to cause some conflicts, and it is possible not to allow the other party to see their children, so at this time it will cause some shadows on the psychology of the minor children, they are very likely not to know what you are doing, only know that you are quarreling endlessly, and they will be hurt when they are young, and they will become very lacking in love.

For minors, the sudden divorce of parents is a big blow, because other people's parents are very good to their children, and I should be at the age of parental care, was ruthlessly abandoned by my parents, if I end up with anyone I will not be happy, because I lack another love, and I will be a little paranoid in my future treatment of feelings.

My parents divorced, as a minor child before I became an adult, my parents caused great damage to my body and mind, I will no longer believe in the so-called family affection, I am not willing to try a lot of feelings, I no longer believe in strangers, I can't experience the warmth brought to me by my family, my heart will definitely be cold, I don't want others to approach me, especially want to close myself.

For this kind of children, in fact, deep down in their hearts, they are eager to be loved, but they can't get it, so they are very guarded in their hearts, and they usually don't relax with others, that is, they won't open their hearts to others to speak, so this kind of children will be more sensitive from an early age, and they will feel the gains and losses because of some words said by others, and there are also such children who are a little weaker.

Under normal circumstances, couples will understand each other's emotions and feelings through communication and communication, and most celebrity couples can reduce the occurrence of conflicts through appropriate communication. When there is a huge conflict between celebrity couples, even if the two parties have produced the crystallization of love, both parties will still choose to end the marriage.

When a couple divorces, it can have an extremely negative impact on their children. The first effect is that the child feels that he has lost the company of his parents, and the second effect is the decline in the child's academic performance. After the parents divorce, they should give their children proper care and love to help them quickly get out of the psychological shadow.

If young people do not become parents, then young people must not have babies easily, after all, having a baby represents responsibility and love.

Many parents do not ask their children for their opinions before they divorce. Even if the child does not agree with the divorce of the parents, the parents resolutely go through the divorce procedures. Under normal circumstances, after children learn the news of their parents' divorce, they will have different thoughts in their hearts, and most children feel that they have lost the care and love of their parents.

At the same time, most parents will start their own families after divorce, which will bring about changes in the environment and material life for their children. If the children can receive love and care in the restructured family, it may lead to a particularly heavy psychological shadow for the children.

Some children have poor self-control and self-restraint ability, which can easily lead to children's reluctance to be affected by the external environment, and when something particularly serious happens in the outside world, the child's emotions will also be affected. For example, most parents choose to divorce before their children divorce and take the college entrance examination, but parents do not immediately tell both parties that they have divorced before their children take the college entrance examination. The main purpose is to avoid students taking the college entrance examination from being easily affected by emotions, and children who have a negative impact are prone to fluctuations in their grades, and even affect their children's admission and participation in the college entrance examination.

After the parents divorce, the child is prone to negative emotions and psychological shadows, at this time, parents should give the child the correct guidance and love. Parents can tell their children about the conflict between the two so that the child understands that the parents have reached a point where they are irreconcilable. At the same time, parents can also choose not to reunite the family during the three years of divorce, partly because the child cannot accept the reorganized family, and partly because the child cannot immediately get rid of the influence of the parents.

In short, parents should do a good job of grooming to help their children live and learn better.

When parents divorce, children tend to have a big change in temperament, and I think the way to help them get out of the shadows is for their parents to remarry.

It will have a lifelong impact on underage children, which cannot be erased, and the child will hate the family from an early age, will not trust the marital relationship, and will also have an impact on his marriage when he grows up.

Article 21 of Chapter 3 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency stipulates: "Where the parents of a minor are divorced, both parties to the divorce have the obligation to educate their children, and neither party may fail to fulfill the obligation to educate the children because of the divorce. ”

What is the impact of a divorced family on children?

Inferiority. Parents are the pride of children, and in a family without a father or mother, children naturally do not have this sense of superiority.

It is easy to have negative and pessimistic thoughts such as "my family is unhappy", "I am a child that no one wants", and "my life is not good". Eccentric. An unharmonious family environment can make children feel more about interpersonal relationships.

Feeling nervous, especially in a restructured family, where their family communication is limited due to carelessness on the part of their father or estrangement from their stepparents, and they feel neglected in the family, they feel lonely and behave as alienated.

Cowardice. After some parents divorce, they often pin their feelings and hopes on their children, and they are too tightly bound and disciplined. Over time, the child is psychologically overburdened, afraid that he will disappoint his parents, so he stays away from his parents, becomes timid and fearful, and is cowardly and withdrawn.

Children in divorced families are prone to sensitivity and frustration, and parents should give timely attention and guidance. Otherwise, many children will often compare themselves with children from other families in their daily lives, and over time they will develop psychological imbalance, and they will also be hit by being ridiculed by their peers, which will make children dislike socializing with others.

Some children are introverted or even withdrawn, and do not like to communicate with others but have self-esteem.

is unusually strong, and it is easy to fall down after being hit by the divorce of his parents, because the divorce of his parents will make him feel that he is inferior and has no right to speak.

They will become more withdrawn and less talkative than before. Of course, not all single-parent families.

Children who grow up will be like this, many children who grow up in single-parent families are more sensible, because they will grow up in advance, think more than children of the same age, and do things more maturely and steadily.

The divorce of parents must have an impact on the children, first of all, the children do not get the love of both parents, and the love of the single is one-sided, and the children sometimes have low self-esteem, so they should also be considered carefully for the sake of the children.

Divorce will cause children to rebel, they will have a sense of loss and dissatisfaction, become more and more disobedient, and always feel that they are an abandoned child.

Article 26 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Parents have the obligation to raise, educate and protect their minor children. Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them. Article 1068 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Parents have the right and duty to educate and protect their minor children.

Where minor children cause harm to others, their parents shall bear civil liability in accordance with law.

Legal Analysis: If the parents of a minor are divorced, both parties to the divorce have the obligation to educate their children, and neither party may fail to fulfill the obligation to educate their children because of the divorce.

Legal basis: Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency Article 21 Where a minor's parents are divorced, both parties to the divorce have an obligation to educate their children, and neither party may fail to perform their obligation to educate their children because of the divorce.

Legal Analysis: If the parents of a minor are divorced, both parties to the divorce have the obligation to educate their children, and neither party may fail to fulfill the obligation to educate their children because of the divorce.

Legal basis: "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency" Article 21 Where a minor's parents are divorced, both parties to the divorce have an obligation to dissipate the education of their children, and neither party may fail to fulfill their obligation to educate their children because of the divorce.

Legal Analysis: If a minor damages the property of others or causes personal injury to others, in principle, the minor should pay compensation. If the minor has his own property, such as money donated by others, then the parents can use the minor's money to pay for compensation, and if the minor does not have his own property, or the property is not enough to compensate, then the parents should use their own money to compensate Bi Ji.

However, if the unit serves as the guardian of the minor, including the villagers' committee or residents' committee of the adult's residence of the minor's father or mother, as well as the civil affairs department, then even if the minor causes damage to others, the other person cannot demand compensation from these units, but can only bear the losses themselves.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1188:Where a person who lacks or has limited capacity for civil conduct causes harm to others, the guardian bears tort liability. Where guardians perform their guardianship duties, their tort liability may be reduced. Where a person with property who lacks or has limited capacity for civil conduct causes harm to others, the full portion of the compensation costs shall be paid from the person's property, and the guardian shall compensate him/her.

Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Implementation of the General Principles of the Civil Law of the People's Republic of China (for Trial Implementation).

Article 158:After a husband and wife divorce, where a minor child infringes upon the rights and interests of others, the party living with the child shall bear civil liability, and where it is truly difficult to bear civil liability independently, the party who does not live with the child may be ordered to jointly bear civil liability.

Article 159:Where a ward causes harm to others, and there is a clear guardian, the guardian bears civil liability, and the guardian is not clear, the person with guardianship capacity earlier in the order bears civil liability.