How to choose between those who love me and those I love

Updated on society 2024-07-03
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    True love is based on trust, understanding, tolerance, and tolerance, and the person who loves you fulfills those preconditions for you, and the rest is up to you to her. If the person you love doesn't love you, how can you have a happy life's love?

    Choosing the person who loves you is equal to choosing long-term happiness, and choosing the person you love is equal to seeing only a mirageEven if you get it, happiness is short-livedWhich one is heavier and which one is lighter, you should have figured it out.

    Choosing to be loved is the most sensible.

    The problem of things in the world is nothing more than the difference between subjective and objective. The question of love can be illustrated by this; Most people pay more attention to subjective factors in things, thinking that subjective things can say everything. On the contrary, smart people focus on subjectivity but they focus more on the objectivity of subjective issues.

    I think many people have a vague idea of the word love in their minds. Love is not produced in the appearance and aesthetics of the lover, but two hearts and two souls to the extent that they can truly reach tacit understanding, so that they can help each other until they are old, and they can never abandon themselves in the face of natural and man-made disasters, and they can consciously be happy for life.

    Love is cultivated through experience.

    Saying so much is nothing more than to tell you a point of view, loving someone is not simply looking at his appearance to determine whether you love her or notLook at a person's character, see how much they love you, and then look at the appearance and others.

    In fact, love doesn't need much reason, but it shouldn't be blind either!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    To be the previous me, I would go and choose someone who loves me.

    Because I believe that one day I will fall in love with him.

    But now I have given up someone who loves me for the sake of someone I love.

    Love is cruel and when you choose one, you are doomed to give up the other.

    But only by choosing the person you love can you truly feel that you are happy.

    It's the kind of happiness that has the whole world.

    Although there will be times when you will be sad.

    But that will pass.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You should also think for yourself that if the person you love leaves you again one day, you will suffer even more. And if the person who loves you knows that you have given up the person you love for him, he will love you more and cherish you more than before, and you will be happy. Some things should be forgotten, if you can't forget, bury them in your heart, and some people should give up when they should give up, which is good for everyone.

    Hehe, I'm just giving you advice, if you think you will be happy to choose the person you love, you should be brave enough to be with him, but the most important thing is not to regret after making a choice, don't leave regrets.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's choose someone who loves you.

    Know how to cherish it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are afraid of Shanghai, choose the person who loves you, if you love the person you love very much, chase it, as long as you don't regret it, you can choose the road you choose, and you have to finish it on your knees.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find someone who loves youOr is it better to find someone you love?Actually, this varies from person to person.

    Everyone has their own ideas, each has its own benefits, there are no absolutes, only relatives. In my opinion, use "strong strong, strong and weak, weak and strong". These three states may be easier to figure out when looking for objects.

    One is to combine strong and strong, find someone who loves each other to marry. A strong union is a marriage that everyone wants. That is, many people say that one plus one is greater than two marriages.

    This kind of marriage looks like a good match on the surface, but in reality it is not very happy. Such as a golden boy and a jade girl, a talented woman and a beautiful marriage. How many of them will make it to the end?

    Now there are many celebrities who look very good on the surface, but I can't imagine how long it will take for them to get divorced. The combination of strong and strong is easy to cause chatter and quarrels, which is the phenomenon that everyone says that one mountain cannot accommodate two tigers. When two tigers fight, one must be injured, that's the truth.

    The second is to combine the strong and the weak, and find a person you love to marry. For most men, it is hoped that it is a combination of strength and weakness. This combination of strength and weakness is relatively good.

    Generally speaking, those with a stronger personality want to find a weaker personality, which can play a complementary and complementary role. In this kind of unionized family, the chances of husband and wife quarreling will be much less. We usually call the combination of handsome guys and ugly girls a combination of strength and weakness, and this kind of family is generally relatively stable.

    The woman is also willing to take care of her husband in the form of a nanny, and there will be no complaints. I won't quarrel over this, that, a little thing. They tend to turn a blind eye and make the family harmonious.

    The third is to combine the weak and the strong, and find someone who loves you to marry. The combination of weak and strong, the weak here refers to the man, and the strong refers to the woman. It can also be said that ugly men are weak and beautiful women are strong.

    Pretty women often let ugly men be chased away, and this situation is indeed relatively common. On the road, we can often see some beautiful women with an errand-like figure next to them. thought that person was a follower, but in fact that person was her husband.

    This combination of weak and strong is good for beautiful girls. If you have been pampered since you were a child, and you need to be coaxed and taken care of by others to feel comfortable. This kind of girl with the mentality and temper of a big lady.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think I should choose someone who loves me, because choosing someone I love is really tiring, and it is likely that we will not be able to be together in the end.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is nothing happier in the world than to be happy with each other, not to eat from the bowl and look at the pot.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, it is to choose the person who loves me, that is very precious, if the other party loves you, they will think about you, care about your feelings, you will feel relaxed and without pressure.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should choose the one you like better, because if you don't like each other, then there is no point in two people being together, it is just a waste of each other's time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As someone who has come to tell you that the right choice is to choose the person who loves me and you, the person who loves you will not make you sad and sad, and the person you love will only build a high wall to block you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I will choose the person who loves me because I want to be a favored person in life, and the person who loves me will be more tolerant of me after I get married.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I should choose the person I love, so that I will be more comfortable and easier in the process of life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Choose according to your actual situation and family situation, this is not fixed, there is no accurate answer, no one asks you to do this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People who love me, so that they can experience the supreme glory, will let themselves live in the honey pot all the time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on what kind of mentality you have, if you want to have a peaceful life and let your parents worry, you should find someone who loves you, because the person who loves you, he will give you meticulous care, and he can understand and care about some of your small mistakes. And if you find someone you love, it's the opposite. You have to be tolerant everywhere, and sometimes your parents won't be very easy about you.

    They don't necessarily understand you at work and in their careers. It's going to be tiring and hard to live like that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's simple to hide from someone who loves you.

    But it's hard to hide from someone you love.

    In fact, loving is the same as being loved.

    It's up to you to choose which one you choose.

    After all, it's your own choice.

    So I guess I'll be happy, too.

    Many are running away.

    But how long can you escape?

    We should face everything.

    Let yourself live happily.

    There are many people who really think that their love is thick.

    I don't care about my love.

    Until after the breakup.

    will know how to cherish morality.

    But it was too late.

    Like a person will only make a fuss on the surface.

    And loving someone comes from the heart.

    Maybe that's the difference between love and liking.

    So cherish your love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    ...... after a breakup

    You can't be friends because we've hurt each other.

    You can't be enemies because you love each other deeply.

    So we became the most familiar strangers.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I know that the person I love can't like me but I'm still clinging, forgetting what I'm insisting on, just instinctively imagining everything about him, and the person who likes me will always stop and watch outside your world, and decide to give the person who loves you a chance, so that even if there will be regrets, you will be at ease.

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