The child is divorced, I feel ashamed, and I am more worried about her future, it is really painful

I think you need to talk to your child about it formally, ask him why he got divorced, whether this decision is the result of his deliberation, and if he has made his own decision and there is no room for change, then follow his decision. Tell him what the divorce will do and what the future holds. Let him bear the rest.

Because what you should have done has already been done, and that's it. There is no need to dwell on the pain, it is not necessary.

In fact, you don't have to worry so much about the divorce of your children, just relax your mind. Your child is also an adult and has the ability to live on her own, so you don't need to worry too much, and you don't have to feel ashamed, but you should feel lucky that she has left someone who is not suitable for her. All you have to do is wish her a good day.

First of all, there is no shame in the divorce of children, so you must stand up and live your own day, and change your state, otherwise your child will be very worried about you, and she will not live well.

Don't think about it so much, children have their own lives, and they have their own lives. If you want to live a happy life, don't worry about so many trivial things in life.

The child must have her reasons for divorce, you should understand her, enlighten her more, and the real family will not feel ashamed because she has been divorced.

If you are worried about your children in divorce, you can accompany Hu to fight for custody of your children. The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After the divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are directly raised by the father or the mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers.

When hearing divorce cases, the issue of child support shall be properly resolved in accordance with articles 29 and 30 of the "Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China" and relevant legal provisions, proceeding from the interests of the children's physical and mental health, protecting the lawful rights and interests of the children, and taking into account the specific circumstances of both parents, such as their ability to raise and the conditions for raising them.

On the basis of the above principles, the following specific opinions are put forward in conjunction with trial practice:

1. Children under the age of two years generally live with their mothers, and if there is a dispute over the custody of the child, they can only go to the court to sue for divorce.

At 10 months of the child's birth, the child's mother must consent to the divorce, which can be accepted by the court.

When the child is 10 months old, the court will generally award the mother to raise the child, and the man will take the child support.