After my divorce from my husband, I found myself more worried about him.

Updated on society 2024-07-18
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's common to worry about your ex-spouse's situation after a divorce because even though you're divorced, you're still concerned about your ex-spouse's safety and well-being. This concern may stem from concerns about past relationships, children, mutual friends, and family. Additionally, divorce can also trigger a sense of insecurity, leaving you worried that your ex-spouse may be having difficulties or challenges in life.

    However, this concern can also be an inner reaction, as you may not have fully accepted the fact of divorce or fully processed the emotions of the breakup. In this case, you may feel confused and anxious and need more time and effort to process your emotions.

    If you feel that this concern is affecting your daily life and emotional well-being, you may consider seeking professional help, such as a counselor or **teacher. They can help you understand your emotions and suggest the right strategies to help you gradually get rid of this worry and restore your emotional stability and health.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is often said; One day husband and wife hundred days. Maybe that's what you're worried about him? Since the personality is not harmonious, and the marriage is divorced, let's be a friend, isn't there a saying that husband and wife can't become friends? It's not too much to worry about him. It's human nature.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It seems that you care about him very much, since they are all divorced, don't care about how he is doing, you should think about yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Cheap. I'm telling the truth, don't be angry)

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello. One is to show that he cares about you. There is you in my heart, and I have this family in my heart.

    The importance of marriage was very important to him, and he did not want to give it up. I can feel that this is a warm man, and he deserves it. Regardless of his state of mind, he must try his best to maintain and rapport with him.

    It is beneficial for the long life of the family in the future.

    Second, it shows that he has a sense of responsibility. Expressing the possibility that his wife may divorce him shows that he has some concerns, and he can have such a responsible attitude only when he is in charge of the family and his spouse. His responsible attitude and awareness should be recognized and supported.

    Every branch and leaf is always about love.

    The third is that he doesn't want to give up in his heart. He is very nostalgic for family life and marriage, and should actively communicate with him in terms of heart and understanding, and adjust his mentality. In order to ensure that spouses understand each other, are harmonious and support each other.

    Fourth, it shows that he is very looking forward to the future family life in his heart. Men have their own responsibilities, and they hope that he will start a family, and his own labor and dedication and efforts will contribute more to the family, so that it can better reflect a man's responsibility and action. Spouses should support each other and cooperate with each other, so that personal affairs and success can be matched and integrated with the happiness and direction of the family, so that both husband and wife can actively work hard and have a greater sense of gain in the direction of joint efforts for the happiness of family life.

    I hope you have a relationship between husband and wife, a family relationship.

    is getting more and more harmonious, life is thriving, career is booming, and husband and wife are taking off.

    Home is a warm haven.

    I'm a "warm life straight man."

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Home and everything is prosperous, can you not leave or do not divorce. If it is really the other party's mistake and the two people can't get by, they can choose to divorce. There are two types of divorce, divorce by agreement and divorce by lawsuit. No one may interfere with the freedom of marriage of another person, and no one may force another person to divorce.

    The law stipulates that the court shall grant a divorce if one of the following conditions is met:

    Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted: 1. Bigamy or cohabitation of a spouse with another person; 2. Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; 3. Separated for two years due to emotional discord; 4. Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife.

    If the relationship between the two parties does break down, they are separated, and they go to court to sue for divorce, if the court decides that they cannot separate, they can still insist on separation, and sue again after six months, and the court believes that the relationship has indeed broken down and cannot be repaired, and will naturally grant divorce.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ah, it's key to whether you can stand it anyway.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Women want to live for themselves, what age is this, women are independent, and they simply rely on their husbands to live, don't they feel sad? Women should be realistic, women in the 21st century are no longer women in feudal society, divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is that the other party treats you badly, you still follow him stupidly, do you do this because you love him? If you don't love him, but you're just afraid of divorce, then there's no need to worry about it at all.

    Women should be good to themselves and love themselves well, it doesn't matter if others don't love you, the most important thing is that you know how to love yourself. Marriage should be a woman's harbor of happiness for a lifetime, not the goal of being disliked by others, why should you care about him if you are not appreciated by others! As long as a woman is happy herself, she will find someone who is good for you to live, you love him, he loves you, and so on.

    Don't be afraid that women can't find a good or suitable one for themselves after divorce, wake up, what age is this, I've only heard of men who can't marry wives, **I've heard of women who can't get married.

    People don't have a long life, and they must learn to live well. Instead of living in frustration every day, it is better to choose to separate and find your own love. In a family, the status of men and women is equal, you must adhere to your own principles and maintain your dignity, don't look down on yourself, you are priceless, the other party can ignore your existence, it does not mean that there is no place without the other party, find someone who loves you to live for everyone to see.

    Divorce is not scary, the most important thing is to recognize the facts yourself. If you really want to divorce, then sort out your marriage well, be brave enough to accept all the decisions you make, don't be afraid that you won't get anything, at least after the divorce, you can get freedom and get the opportunity to change your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the marriage really can't go on, decide to divorce. So be resolute.

    Divorce is not like a breakup.

    Divorce, like marriage, is faced with two families. When they got married, the two families began to run in, and after the divorce, the two families began to blame each other and quarrel with each other.

    I have a friend who has been married to his ex-wife for a year and separated for half a year. The two families are very close to each other, and the ex-wife is from the next village.

    Before and after the divorce, the two parents had a quarrel in the town. The two of them were protected all the time, as if the quarrel had nothing to do with them.

    A few years later, they both remarried, and it was quite awkward to see each other again.

    After getting married, I found that each other's personalities were really incompatible, and even if I begged for a whole day, I couldn't live together. So I divorced first, and then told my family.

    After the divorce, the two were much calmer, but the two parents couldn't sit still, they kept entangled, endlessly, and during that time, they were relieved.

    Saying so much, there is only one purpose, after the divorce, the biggest psychological pressure is nothing more than the two parents and children.

    Divorce is really not a big deal, two people can't get along, there is always a reason why they can't get along.

    If they can't get along with each other, their parents also understand, they just have to give them some time to accept that they feel that their children are so good that they shouldn't have so many unpleasant things. From the bottom of their hearts, they just don't want their children to suffer too much.

    You have dealt with both parents and children, so why should you care too much about other external pressures. Other people can't control your mood, but they can't control your life.

    No matter what the process is, happiness is good in the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As the saying goes, if you want to climb over a wall, throw your hat over it first. Why throw the hat over in the first place? So when you're worried about your hat, you're desperate to climb over the wall.

    This sentence is just a metaphor, this proverbial thing, if you want to act it in real life, you have to cut off your own back road first. In this way, you will rush forward without hesitation.

    Back then, Xiang Yu was in a ruins, only prepared three days' rations, and planned to fight to the death with the Qin army, what was the final result? Win all.

    Specifically, the woman did not dare to divorce because he was afraid that something unforeseen would happen after the divorce. Will such an unforeseen thing happen? Some will, some won't.

    Like most people, when you make a choice, you tend to think about the worst possible outcome, and the result of such thinking will only cause you to cringe and lose the possibility of accomplishing something. A person who says he is afraid, if I analyze it carefully, what he is afraid of is the picture he imagines.

    It's better to make up your mind first and divorce the marriage. I'll find a way to face it later.

    Without the courage to move forward, you can only suffer from the nest for the rest of your life, and live like a waste.

    In this situation, if the mother gives birth to a daughter, the daughter grows up and is very likely to replicate the mother's life.

    If she really can't make up her mind, she won't have children.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you can't think about it, your husband treats you badly, why are you afraid of divorce? You should be proactive in getting divorced. Now in society, everyone is equal to men and women, and everyone earns their own money, unless you rely on your husband to earn money every day, then if you are making money now, then why are you afraid that your husband will divorce and divorce you?

    You just find another one after you leave, or you can support yourself by yourself, what's there to be afraid of? Anyway, he's not good to you, what's the use of you asking for him like a husband? If you're divorced from this, maybe it's better for you to find a husband.

    I'll treat you like a treasure. Look at that Deng Wendi, how old is that person, they found a rich French businessman, and then he became a rich man. There is also the ancient Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, whose mother's name is Liu Huan, and the fortune teller said to her mother, your daughter can become a rich and noble person in the future, and people will not live with Jin Wangsun directly, and then find an emperor to marry and give birth to Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty.

    Look at how good people are. In ancient times, women had no status, let alone women who married for the second time. What concerns do you have now?

    You're sure to find someone better than your current husband is to you.

    Don't you see that Wang Han and Yang Lele are both married for the second time? Wouldn't it be nice to be here now? Since your husband treats you badly, what's the point of you living with him?

    If a person has only one life, he can't wronged himself, he should let himself live happily. If you can't stand on your own, then you can't blame your husband, your husband may be forgivable for not treating you well, because you only know how to reach out and ask for money. Of course, your husband is not good to you, so you have to be self-reliant, and then your status will be improved, and if he is not good to you, you will quickly find the next one.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's like looking for a job, it's not good to change your fingers, many women have been divorced, and they don't live well!

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