One of my classmates is divorced, who s going to help her? 30

The top priority is to learn a skill first and take care of your own life.

Start all over again Don't try to rely on others.

Believe in yourself that you can do it.

How many successful people in society, both men and women, have middle-aged people who start to work hard, not to mention that she is only 30 years old.

May she come out of the shadow of marriage as soon as possible.

Pick it up.

At the same time, I am happy that she has such a sincere good friend as you, encourage her more, and help her learn a skill.

I may also be about to get divorced, so I should first give up the idea of dependence and really plan my future. Don't give up on yourself.

Be strong, and live your own life.

In addition to love, marriage, there are many things to pursue in life, and thirty years old is still very young. Don't think of love as the whole of life, because one day when you lose love, you will have nothing.

Just 30 years old and divorced at the same age as me. But I'm a man. Forget the past and start over! It's easy to feed yourself. Start by finding a job in food processing. Be courageous.

I was very surprised to learn that a high school classmate was divorced.

At the beginning, he placed 999 roses at the wedding, and finally hugged the beauty, and the scene is still vivid. 8 years of relationship, how can it be broken?

He said, too tired, 8 years, too tired.

I used to take the train for more than 20 hours to go on a date in my girlfriend's city without getting tired, and I didn't get tired of working overtime all night in order to buy a house and a car in order to make my girlfriend's life better.

Why are you tired now?

Actually, in psychology, emotions are divided into three stages:

Stage 1: Honeymoon – I think you're what I want to be.

At this time, because we live in fantasy, we mistakenly think that our partner is as perfect as we imagined. At this time, both parties will try their best to play the role of the perfect lover, and both parties have a lot of tenderness and sweetness, so one party can suppress the discomfort in their hearts and will also persuade the other party with kind words.

Stage 2: The Struggle Period – I found out that you are not what I wanted you to be.

At this time, we still want to go back to fantasy, so we demand that the other party must follow my "design", so both sides repeatedly conflict, just to change each other and become my ideal lover.

At this time, the two sides will no longer treat each other as "outsiders", and many men will show their true side and no longer tolerate each other, because the roles are different, and the treatment will be different.

The third stage: the abandonment period or integration period: the abandonment period is to put aside the dispute and make do with life; The integration period is to find a way to live the best of both worlds.

When the contradictions accumulate for a long time, it becomes a time bomb of marriage, and when the emotions of both parties are exhausted in this accumulated resentment, it is when the volcano of marriage crisis erupts.

Many people die in the second or third stage.

Only men and women who can truly go through these stages can truly achieve a stable and happy marriage.